tazzygirl -> RE: Public Schools (3/14/2010 8:10:21 PM)
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And here we are back to the "it takes a village to raise a child" idea... Its not just the teachers and school staff. Anytime i saw any child being bullied i charged on in. I didnt give a squat what anyone else was doing. But so many are into the... not my child.. syndrome.. or the... my child wont take shit off no one... psychosis... the ones being hurt are the kids... the ones skating are the adults... and we, the parents.. are allowing it to happen. I have asked this question before, and I will ask it to you, if you had a job where when you went to work every day you were ridiculed about your clothing, your weight, your looks, would you find a new job? You could quit and go to work elsewhere. Adults have that freedom, kids don't. Kids are forced to face their tormentors and they have no way to escape. This is why when occasionally some kid goes on campus and caps a few other students in the head everyone wants to sweep the dirty little secret under the rug, the kids who do that were usually unmercifully bullied... it does not justify murder, but these things do not happen in a vacuum. I was one of those students. I had no choice. And i havent capped anyone as of yet. What i did do was make the best of a bad situation, worked hard to get good grades, kept to myself and went to college while most of those who bullied me stayed behind. That was my revenge. And not everyone can find a job like that. Even as an adult we get caught, trapped, and have to make the best of a bad situation. In this, we wont agree, but making life too soft for children is just as bad as having to deal with the bullies. Who will protect them when they hit the job market? quote:
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I do agree. Also realize that some of the most brilliant minds came from harlem. Some of the biggest criminals came from the best schools in California. Its not always about the school, but about the drive and ambition of the child. Some people will succeed no matter where they are, and some people will fail no matter where they are. At the same, kids that go to well appointed schools know it is a given that they will go to college. It has been mapped out for years, their only fear is that they will not get into the school their parents want them to attend. An RN is an RN is an RN. Doesnt matter what school... as long as she passes the Boards, she is an RN ( or he). A dr.. well.. sometimes his choice of schooling can make a difference. But, when i need a Dr, im not about to ask what school he attended, especially in an ER. As much as people may want a level playing field, i dont see that happening. Not because i dont want it, but because society is too full of the haves and have-nots. The best we can do for our children is to equip them with enough self confidence, enough self esteem and enough basic skills to make it in the real world. Rose colored glasses are fine... just not very realistic.
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