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RavenMuse -> RE: Newbie Questions (3/16/2010 7:27:04 AM)
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ORIGINAL: teacher21deq
At this time, I am corresponding with someone via email, Yahoo IM, and phone....he seems perfect for me in many ways...and I hope he will eventually be my Master...
He already refers to me as slave, but says I must earn the right to call him Master...i thought the two were connected....am I wrong?
Also, i listed on my profile (at his request and with great pleasure!) that we were corresponding and he was training me, but he says he will list nothing about me on his....is this the usual?
As a Master/Slave relationship develops, should I expect some rights...are all of the rights his? I hope I am asking these questions in the proper manner and with clarity....
Any advice would be appreciated!
first off, if you hadn't submitted to Him then you have all the rights in the world including the right to tell Him to go boil His head. Though frankly why (Other than desperation and fantasy) a girl would submit to a Guy she has never actually met is beyond Me. Anyone can portray themselves as anything they want from behind a keyboard, or being 'in character' in front of a cam or on the phone for an hour. That doesn't signify who they are day to day.... and Who they are day to day is the person you need to be concerned about.
If you have submitted to Him on M/s terms then He can call you whatever He damn well pleases and if He decides you need to 'earn the right to call Him Master' then you need to earn the right. If you hand over Authority to Someone then don't be surprised that they use it.
As for listing on profiles, again, if you have submitted to Him... you follow HIS rules and it doesn't matter what anyone her says. Personally however such would be rather a red flag.... as I've seen it too often with those who have suckered some girl into a supposedly one on one 'relationship' (All to often they have never met... but gosh don't they have fun on cam!) but the girl never gets put on HIS profile because it would tip off the other two or three that also believe they are in a one on one situation with him, (Who have also never met him, but gosh don't they have good phone sex.... etc.)
If you want rights... stick to being a sub, if you enter the M/s arena then your rights are whatever your master says they are (Outside of those where He ends up on the recieving end of a leathal injection if He doesn't observe them!). The only RIGHT My girl has is to withdraw consent and leave.... this only works because of consent and it is the only thing she can't give up if this stays in the realms of reality... other than that, this works because she trusts in Me to handle that Authority properly.
HTH
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