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joether -> What If: (3/16/2010 11:02:50 AM)
What if: Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings. At first, both parties would be happy, but after a few months, wouldn't the process simply become as it is now, but just opposite? Would male subs come to respect Dommes more, given, they have to (and I hate to say this in the same sentence as a Domme/Lady) whore themselves out? Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else? Yes, short term the concept sounds amusing, even a vacation. But long term, would it really be good for the concept of Femdom?

CarrieO -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 11:22:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: joether What if: Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings. Much like it is for some female subs who get flooded with email. I wonder if the men would block/delete as much as the women do. At first, both parties would be happy, but after a few months, wouldn't the process simply become as it is now, but just opposite? Maybe. Would male subs come to respect Dommes more, given, they have to (and I hate to say this in the same sentence as a Domme/Lady) whore themselves out? Why would a woman need to "whore" herself out? Is that how the men feel? Wouldn't it still come down to compatibility? Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else? I'm not sure why that would happen. Are you asking how the women would feel if they were played? A male sub can "drop" his domme if they're no longer compatible. Just like any relationship, in my opinion. Yes, short term the concept sounds amusing, even a vacation. But long term, would it really be good for the concept of Femdom? I'm not sure I understand what you mean. Are you asking if the demand for FemDoms dropped and the demand for male subs increased would there be a difference?

DarkSteven -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 11:23:39 AM)
If the imbalance were only on collarme, then Dommes would move to offline.

PeonForHer -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 11:35:32 AM)
A thought that somewhat pertains: You know how Dommes complain that they get hundreds of men per week writing one-liners? Well, imagine hundreds of women writing to you, per week, with their two-thousand-liners - each wanting to discuss the very depths of emotions, searching for your subtlest feelings on this or that subject (that subject being mostly them, natch), asking in so many different ways 'how do you see this relationship developing?' That would be downright horrific. However, it wouldn't happen because the above is based on a stereotyped view of women and bears no resemblance to reality.

domiguy -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 11:43:34 AM)
Men make this whole thing go 'round. We pursue the subs as well as the Dommes. If Dommes were in control they would be the ones taking charge and pursuing their pathetic male subby counterparts. They don't. It's just one of the many illusions about the whole domme bullshit. Dommes scrape the bottom of the barrel. They tend not to be very attractive, mentally awol, cunts. If they somehow are found to be attractive then they are pros. Uneducated, attractive, damaged prostidommes relying on other's dollars to compensate for the lack of their own.

PeonForHer -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 11:52:34 AM)
You should really try to avoid posting when it's that time of the month for you, DG . . . .

Voodali -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:29:38 PM)
If things were as you describe, I'd get a puppy or a cute short-haired lesbian, or just do what I'm doing now, be single. Honestly, I don't know how subbie boys do it. I wouldn't want to walk in your shoes. But with intelligence, personal grooming and a good temperament, its not hard to differentiate yourself from the pile of mail in the Domme's letterbox. The thing is that even though there is enough mail to build a skyscraper, its only mail, not actual tangible males who mean what they say. Things may be more equal than you think. You will increase your chances of interacting with a Domme by joining a local BDSM group if you have access to one. Once she sees that you're an actual physical person instead of one of a billion ethereal wanksters, she may consider you as a possible option. And Domi, I have never taken your bait before, but this time I'll just take a moment to observe that for a Dom, you sure behave like you've been burned by a Domme in the past.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:33:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Dommes scrape the bottom of the barrel. They tend not to be very attractive, mentally awol, cunts. Domi, do you actually believe this stuff? I can never decide if you're serious or not when you start slamming Dommes.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:43:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer You should really try to avoid posting when it's that time of the month for you, DG . . . . Haven't you noticed? It's ALWAYS that time of month for DG. [:D]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:45:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Dommes scrape the bottom of the barrel. They tend not to be very attractive, mentally awol, cunts. Domi, do you actually believe this stuff? I can never decide if you're serious or not when you start slamming Dommes. I think Domi talks this way because he wants one of you hawt Dommes to put him over your knee for a spankin. Mhhmmm . Thats right. He shows all the signs of a S.A.M.

LadyPact -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:54:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: joether What if: Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings. At first, both parties would be happy, but after a few months, wouldn't the process simply become as it is now, but just opposite? Would male subs come to respect Dommes more, given, they have to (and I hate to say this in the same sentence as a Domme/Lady) whore themselves out? Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else? Yes, short term the concept sounds amusing, even a vacation. But long term, would it really be good for the concept of Femdom? What if, tomorrow, due to some outlandish change in the atmosphere of the planet, the sky was orange every day instead of blue? Sure, it would be pretty for a while, but would we ever wish the universe was back prior to whatever cataclysmic event happened that changed what has existed for eons? Since I really don't expect this to occur, I really don't worry about it that much. As to what I highlighted, I think you have a misconception going on. In My opinion, clip could release himself at any time should that be what he felt was best for him. All it would ever take would be for him to reach up and remove My collar from his neck.

domiguy -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:54:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Voodali And Domi, I have never taken your bait before, but this time I'll just take a moment to observe that for a Dom, you sure behave like you've been burned by a Domme in the past. Nah. I simply call'em as I see'em. I dig a few of ya'll but most of ya are fairly fucked up. Take this for example.... quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Men make this whole thing go 'round. We pursue the subs as well as the Dommes. If Dommes were in control they would be the ones taking charge and pursuing their pathetic male subby counterparts. They don't. It's just one of the many illusions about the whole domme bullshit. Now let's read from your profile...... "I prefer to be pursued, and not to have to pursue. I may perv your profile, but probably won't approach you first, since I want to attract those who are truly moved to speak to me." What type of a take charge attitude is this? I do like to joke around out here....But I am fairly fucking spot on in my observations....Odd, isn't it?

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 12:57:06 PM)
Most of the mail we (ladies) get here on CM isn't worth reading. I contact those who I think have potential or those who have something interesting in their profile just to say what I find interesting. If things were reversed, you guys would just get a BUNCH more reasons to complain about fake dommes to begin with...lol. That is, of course, if things were reversed in the sense of type of messages received along with quantity. I wouldn't mind one bit if I only received one message per month, if it were of good quality. I'd still post on the boards. EFT.

domiguy -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:03:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Dommes scrape the bottom of the barrel. They tend not to be very attractive, mentally awol, cunts. Domi, do you actually believe this stuff? I can never decide if you're serious or not when you start slamming Dommes. You appear to be kind of a blurry hotty. Is this really what you want for the rest of your dealio? To be served by these pussies? Come on. Who hurt you? Anywhooo, I am a student of humanity. I study you fuckers. I have to say over the years I have been out here the body of work of the majority of you dommes is pretty fucking startling. It's weak and fairly fucking convoluted. Some of this is tongue in cheek and much is based entirely upon observations over the years. I could name names and give exact quotes and references if you really need clarification. I would just take my word for it. I am pretty spot on.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:15:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Dommes scrape the bottom of the barrel. They tend not to be very attractive, mentally awol, cunts. Domi, do you actually believe this stuff? I can never decide if you're serious or not when you start slamming Dommes. You appear to be kind of a blurry hotty. Is this really what you want for the rest of your dealio? To be served by these pussies? Come on. Who hurt you? You know that I'm mostly dyke, right? So I'm the competition, Domi-I'm normally after the same girls you are. And yes-this is what I want. But if you think these boys (I'm assuming you're talking about the boys here) are pussies, then you don't know them very well. Granted, some of the men on this site are idiots. But some of them are just shit hot, you know? quote: Anywhooo, I am a student of humanity. I study you fuckers. I have to say over the years I have been out here the body of work of the majority of you dommes is pretty fucking startling. It's weak and fairly fucking convoluted. I think we're looking at the same words and drawing different conclusions here. quote: Some of this is tongue in cheek... I knew it! [:)] You are a nice fluffy bunny after all! quote: ...and much is based entirely upon observations over the years. I could name names and give exact quotes and references if you really need clarification. I would just take my word for it. I am pretty spot on. Well if that's your opinion, you're entitled to it. You don't need me to tell you that. I just wanted clarification as to whether it really was your opinion, or whether you were just deliberately standing in the middle of the boat high-kicking like the showgirl we all know you are inside...

RedMagic1 -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:24:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious whether you were just deliberately standing in the middle of the boat high-kicking like the showgirl we all know you are inside... That was awesome!!!!!

PeonForHer -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:41:01 PM)
Seconded. [:D] I'm picturing DG high-kicking in a skimpy skirt, fishnets and ultra-wispy knickers. Hell, I'm getting disturbing stirrings now. Oh no! VC has just turned me gay!

VaguelyCurious -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:45:18 PM)
Sorry, joether-I was going to reply but I got side-tracked by my bewilderment at Domi. quote: ORIGINAL: joether What if: Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings. I'm going to take dancing as an example of a situation in which the numbers are reversed. Sometimes I go to salsa with my mum. Men tend to be outnumbered by women pretty drastically at salsa events. Does that mean that either of us are ever short of dance partners? Does it fuck! We're attractive, we are good dancers and we are likeable people. Even though there are plenty of women around to choose from we still get chased-because we are people that people want to be around. quote: Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else? Again, the same rules apply: I'm hot, I'm good at what I do, I'm a likeable person. I wouldn't worry too much about being dropped if Dommes outnumbered subs.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:46:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Oh no! VC has just turned me gay! Turn yourself back right this instant. I won't have it.

domiguy -> RE: What If: (3/16/2010 1:48:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious I just wanted clarification as to whether it really was your opinion, or whether you were just deliberately standing in the middle of the boat high-kicking like the showgirl we all know you are inside... I do have some pretty nice gams. I can swim and keep myself fairly fit so what is the worst thing that could happen by undertaking such a course of action? I doubt I would wear any undies so my balls would be swinging in the breeze. Are there mosquitos around? No, I didn't realize you were the competition. I imagine that you being on the other side of the pond and the pound might not actually place too much strain on our quarry. If I were you and I was looking for a sub chick I would dyke it out completely even though you still might harbor a touch of weineritis. Have you noticed how hot the dykes be in contrast to the women that routinely list themselves as bi? No comparison. Now they might be a tad more fucked up and you might have to do a lot more sorting to find your authentic chick to lez out with. Good luck with that. Go balls to the wall. We are not competing. Though we seek the same prey we are at different ends of the pool. You are young and seek those that are nubile, pert, and still growing and blooming into their personas while I am dealing with the aged, jaded and tired twats of CM. I hate you. While I stand out here emulating the rockettes in a row boat you are trying to perfect your underhanded curve in a canoe. Do middle easterners play softball? So many questions so little time. I have never read your profile before, did you mention you live at home? No worries, from what I have heard, many a red blooded U.S.A. Dom still lives with their mum as well. I wish you well.

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