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RealSub58 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/20/2010 4:41:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?



If it's who he is without a dom/me ...... pardon  me but its not for you to judge.
If he is with you, does he wear collar/leash and chastity belt and freeze in winter?

Sir's dungeon is his back room, I enter naked.  I enter his home/domain dressed cleanly, smartly dressed and just like me.

Clothing restrictions come with the relationship.  Not for a domme to demand of everyone.



hejira92 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/20/2010 6:09:05 AM)

One of my favorite outfits to wear is a black leather corset, black thigh-high boots and a little black mini skirt- as GT and others here can attest. I like to think I look very intimidating. Of course, the fact that He is holding the other end of the leash I'm on kinda ruins the effect.....[:D]


This kind of attire question runs close to "one-true-wayism". Just doesn't hold water in real life.



DomBlade64 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/22/2010 12:02:22 PM)

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e spot - would we count him, even though he's a sub? Would he score a half point? He should be more considerate and be dressed in sackcloth and ball 'n' cha
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ORIGINAL: osf

for me sneakers , jeans and a t shirt, for her , well i think nature outfitted her well enough


HEAR HEAR!!!



kiwisub12 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/22/2010 3:56:10 PM)

Oh - oh - i know - he should have been wearing buttless and frontless chaps .... and a big leather collar, and cuffs, and to top it off - the whole outfit should have been bright pink!


but then Madamejeffs outfit would have been really cool too - especially on an anteater!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



slavekal -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/22/2010 8:35:46 PM)

Why not? What is wrong with his outfit?



madderrose -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/23/2010 11:04:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Oh - oh - i know - he should have been wearing buttless and frontless chaps .... and a big leather collar, and cuffs, and to top it off - the whole outfit should have been bright pink!



I love pink! I saw the cutest pink cuffs and... wait... :(

Never mind.



bondmaid123 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/23/2010 11:57:21 AM)

I kbow that some people think the outfit described is the "Official Dom Uniform".  I tend to think that it's irrelevant tho.  I presume the sub mentioned has the blessing of the Domme he's attending with, so it's a moot point? 

(I personally prefer a nice pair of slacks or jeans to leather pants, myself.. I think they're more attractive on most men, dom or sub.. heh).



kiwisub12 -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (3/23/2010 2:00:51 PM)

I have to admit - I have some people wearing leather pants - that shouldn't have. [:@]

Just saying.....



MistressDevina -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/18/2014 6:32:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina



LafayetteLady -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/18/2014 7:59:41 PM)

Need to bump your own thred for a reason?



searching4mysir -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/18/2014 8:18:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Need to bump your own thred for a reason?



Especially 4 years later...lol


Makes "her" look desperate, not dominant.



Chwilfrydig -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/19/2014 6:42:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Need to bump your own thred for a reason?


I thought she was having a private conversation with herself. And it was a good post - pithy and non-confrontational. [:D]



thishereboi -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/19/2014 9:51:31 AM)

Edited because I already answered it 4 years ago. Now where you going to reply to it this time or are you just looking for more attention?



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/19/2014 12:52:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?

What's wrong w/ leather on a sub? I think it'd be sexy, leather isn't reserved for the Domly Dom/me types. When I have a sub with me at an event, I love seeing his nice ass in a pair of leather pants.

NBMG



MercTech -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/19/2014 5:17:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?


That sounds more like a waiter at a Romance Writer's Workshop... but that is another story. Gad, those housefraus could pinch a blood blister through the leather pants.



rkymtnsubm -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (4/21/2014 9:56:10 PM)

As many have said it hardly matters. Besides I rarely have whatever I wear on long.



lipsRred -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (5/2/2014 9:00:47 AM)

he's acting out his own fantasy?



DesFIP -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (5/2/2014 3:25:04 PM)

He's following event dress code? Since frequently what is specified is black, with a nod to leather.

Of course, one hopes that in the four years since she first posted this, she asked the man why he chose that outfit instead of a French maid's.



LordHeimdall -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (5/3/2014 3:19:58 AM)

Sounds like a nice enough outfit whether it's for a Dom or for a Sub. If the Sub is taken and with his Mistress I would expect he'd be collared.

I think I need to look into a pair of leather pants...



thishereboi -> RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs (5/3/2014 6:38:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

He's following event dress code? Since frequently what is specified is black, with a nod to leather.

Of course, one hopes that in the four years since she first posted this, she asked the man why he chose that outfit instead of a French maid's.



Yea one could hope that but since she was the one who bumped it back up in the forums and hasn't bothered to post since I would guess that we will never now.



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