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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/20/2010 4:41:43 AM   
RealSub58


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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?



If it's who he is without a dom/me ...... pardon  me but its not for you to judge.
If he is with you, does he wear collar/leash and chastity belt and freeze in winter?

Sir's dungeon is his back room, I enter naked.  I enter his home/domain dressed cleanly, smartly dressed and just like me.

Clothing restrictions come with the relationship.  Not for a domme to demand of everyone.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/20/2010 6:09:05 AM   
hejira92


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Status: offline 		One of my favorite outfits to wear is a black leather corset, black thigh-high boots and a little black mini skirt- as GT and others here can attest. I like to think I look very intimidating. Of course, the fact that He is holding the other end of the leash I'm on kinda ruins the effect.....


This kind of attire question runs close to "one-true-wayism". Just doesn't hold water in real life.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/22/2010 12:02:22 PM   
DomBlade64


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e spot - would we count him, even though he's a sub? Would he score a half point? He should be more considerate and be dressed in sackcloth and ball 'n' cha
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ORIGINAL: osf

for me sneakers , jeans and a t shirt, for her , well i think nature outfitted her well enough


HEAR HEAR!!!

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/22/2010 3:56:10 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Oh - oh - i know - he should have been wearing buttless and frontless chaps .... and a big leather collar, and cuffs, and to top it off - the whole outfit should have been bright pink!


but then Madamejeffs outfit would have been really cool too - especially on an anteater!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/22/2010 8:35:46 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Why not? What is wrong with his outfit?

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/23/2010 11:04:13 AM   
madderrose


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Oh - oh - i know - he should have been wearing buttless and frontless chaps .... and a big leather collar, and cuffs, and to top it off - the whole outfit should have been bright pink!



I love pink! I saw the cutest pink cuffs and... wait... :(

Never mind.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/23/2010 11:57:21 AM   
bondmaid123


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Status: offline 		I kbow that some people think the outfit described is the "Official Dom Uniform".  I tend to think that it's irrelevant tho.  I presume the sub mentioned has the blessing of the Domme he's attending with, so it's a moot point? 

(I personally prefer a nice pair of slacks or jeans to leather pants, myself.. I think they're more attractive on most men, dom or sub.. heh).

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 3/23/2010 2:00:51 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		I have to admit - I have some people wearing leather pants - that shouldn't have.

Just saying.....

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/18/2014 6:32:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/18/2014 7:59:41 PM   
LafayetteLady


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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/18/2014 8:18:05 PM   
searching4mysir


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Need to bump your own thred for a reason?



Especially 4 years later...lol


Makes "her" look desperate, not dominant.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/19/2014 6:42:05 AM   
Chwilfrydig


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Need to bump your own thred for a reason?


I thought she was having a private conversation with herself. And it was a good post - pithy and non-confrontational.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/19/2014 9:51:31 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		Edited because I already answered it 4 years ago. Now where you going to reply to it this time or are you just looking for more attention?

< Message edited by thishereboi -- 4/19/2014 9:56:48 AM >

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/19/2014 12:52:40 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?

What's wrong w/ leather on a sub? I think it'd be sexy, leather isn't reserved for the Domly Dom/me types. When I have a sub with me at an event, I love seeing his nice ass in a pair of leather pants.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/19/2014 5:17:26 PM   
MercTech


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ORIGINAL: MistressDevina

I recently met a so called sub who shared with me whenever he attended dungeon affairs with a Mistress Domme he would wear leather pants a black shirt and boots. What? I was appalled to say the least. No sub of mine would ever get to wear  a leather get up like this. Tell me your thoughts about leather attire for a submissive male?


That sounds more like a waiter at a Romance Writer's Workshop... but that is another story. Gad, those housefraus could pinch a blood blister through the leather pants.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 4/21/2014 9:56:10 PM   
rkymtnsubm


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Status: offline 		As many have said it hardly matters. Besides I rarely have whatever I wear on long.

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 5/2/2014 9:00:47 AM   
lipsRred


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Status: offline 		he's acting out his own fantasy?

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 5/2/2014 3:25:04 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He's following event dress code? Since frequently what is specified is black, with a nod to leather.

Of course, one hopes that in the four years since she first posted this, she asked the man why he chose that outfit instead of a French maid's.

< Message edited by DesFIP -- 5/2/2014 3:26:41 PM >

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 5/3/2014 3:19:58 AM   
LordHeimdall


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Status: offline 		Sounds like a nice enough outfit whether it's for a Dom or for a Sub. If the Sub is taken and with his Mistress I would expect he'd be collared.

I think I need to look into a pair of leather pants...

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RE: attire for attending dungeon affairs - 5/3/2014 6:38:53 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

He's following event dress code? Since frequently what is specified is black, with a nod to leather.

Of course, one hopes that in the four years since she first posted this, she asked the man why he chose that outfit instead of a French maid's.



Yea one could hope that but since she was the one who bumped it back up in the forums and hasn't bothered to post since I would guess that we will never now.

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