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Submotive -> cock worship (4/1/2006 8:11:53 AM)

Most likely this has been covered before. But don't know where. Master wishes me to learn about cock worship. Any links, suggestions, recommendations? Thank you.




littlesarbonn -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 8:34:14 AM)

Welll, if you need a volunteer to "practice" on, I'm always willing to help. [8|]




I'm kidding. I'm kidding. [:)]




starymists -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 10:18:23 AM)

There are several good sources of information on this subject...I'm including the links here. Good luck!
 
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/ghaos.html
 
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fellatio.html
 
http://www.asstr.org/~Kristen/learning/blowjob.htm
 
Although these links specifically refer to preforming oral sex, adding the attitude of worship in engaging with these specific techniques tends to do the trick!




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 2:09:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Submotive

Most likely this has been covered before. But don't know where. Master wishes me to learn about cock worship. Any links, suggestions, recommendations? Thank you.


To be honest the best person to teach you this is your master. No links, no books, no ideas from strangers will help you understand this. It's an inner-driven need to show worship to the man you are with (and through that, ultimately all men), and in my opinion it can only occur in the moment as you are engaged in it..

I find it a bit puzzling that he doesn't desire to teach you himself. That would seem to me to be part of a master's job...and not a bad part, either! LOL

Cin




Masterspetlily -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 2:21:08 PM)

Cock worship isn't an activity to learn it is just what it implies.  Worshipping your Master and that most intimate part of him.  It comes from inside like all worship.  It's personal and between the two. 




MissyRane -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 2:22:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver cinful
I find it a bit puzzling that he doesn't desire to teach you himself. That would seem to me to be part of a master's job...and not a bad part, either! LOL

Maybe he's afraid that she'll bite hard if she's into vampirism[8D]




RacerJim -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 2:40:02 PM)

I agree with Masterspertlily....Cock (and Ball) Worship isn't something to be taught/learned, it comes from deep within just like any other form of Worship. I've had only one submissive woman whom I felt really Worshipped my Cock (and Balls)...she would spend hours looking at it/them, talking to it/them, caressing it/them, licking it/them, kissing it/them and, of course, culminating with sucking it/them. :-)




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 4:19:36 PM)

I agree, and what I meant by her master teaching her, is that like all good teachers, his job is to present her with the opportunities, and the motivation, to discover for herself what it means - in the context of her own reality.

For me it's a spiritual place, but until I had a dominant who understood how to take me to the place where I was open to it, I could not understand it all. No amount of reading could make it real for me.

Cin




sophia37 -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 4:26:52 PM)

Ahh. Cock worship.
Nows here's something I can get into!
Or better yet, could get into me!
And it sounds so much better than penis envy, dontcha think? 




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 5:45:09 PM)

I would have to agree with you..The Master should show her,as only he knows what cock worship means in particular to him....unless he wishes himself to know more of what is involved than what he knows....be well..Tempting




truesub4u -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 7:59:48 PM)

<giggles> Sorry took me a few to respond to this.. this is one thing that can send me off into my own space with just the mention of it... and I was there going down memory road again... [:D]

I am affraid I have to agree with others... this is an inner desire.. but I do feel one can be taught to really appreciate... enjoy.. live for... but the teacher... were as I agree again... should be the one.. you will be worshipping... with their guidance, their teaching.. as to what they like, what they want...

Have fun learning though.... [;)][;)][;)][;)]




Ariel -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 8:11:00 PM)

I would also think that he would derive great pleasure from teaching her this himself, just the way he likes it, and what feels most enjoyable to him...




truesub4u -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 8:14:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Ariel

I would also think that he would derive great pleasure from teaching her this himself, just the way he likes it, and what feels most enjoyable to him...


True... some guys get nervous feeling teeth... others get excited... [sm=evil.gif]




littlesarbonn -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 8:19:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u



True... some guys get nervous feeling teeth... others get excited... [sm=evil.gif]



Teeth don't scare me.

A chainsaw...okay, that scares me.




shivvy -> RE: cock worship (4/1/2006 8:42:23 PM)

i agree with wot has been said already... cock worship to me, is an expression of luv and devotion to my Master. i used to want to spend hours and hours worshiping my Masters cock, because He enjoyed it. And because He enjoyed it, i enjoyed it even more. It's one of those jobs/tasks/duties that we can do, were we can enjoy the actual act, as well as being allowed to serve.
 
i prolly didn't explain that very well, but it's just a very special thing you're allowed to do for Your Master.




Focus50 -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 3:27:36 AM)

I'd suggest you start with your master.  It's his cock (I presume?) so it's up to him to tell and show you what he wants - simple!
 
Am I being too cynical to proffer that he hasn't a clue and is too embarrassed to let on about his own lack of knowledge so he has you doing his research for him?  Doms are expected to lead, he should do his own research first! 
 
Ummmm, he really, really, really doesn't know what he wants from you re his own dick??
 
Focus.




MHOO314 -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 6:54:38 AM)

If I could bring My esteemed colleagues back to the focus here---submotive was given a task by Her Master to complete--it matters not that He has His own ideas---she has a command--her task is to do some research and study--Masters lead, but Masters also teach--
 
IMHO, I would think when she comes back to Him with her ideas--it will be a very good barometer to indicate what she feels she can do and what may be areas of negotiation---Let  us remember-- she has a task--let us now see what we can do to help her succeed--
 
submotive--you know how to research the web, CastleRealm is a good site for surrealistic, romantic yet actual Dom/sub topics---there may be others, I will go look--however, l might suggest looking at it from the total sensual, worship aspects--special oils, incense in the room, special music, geisha approaches to him, perhaps a daily protocol, He could don a special garment when He seeks worship, special bathing, lotioning--and one of My favorites I suggest to Dom trainees--purchase a special, elegant glass, something like a champagne glass that is reserved for those times when He wants you to drink---its very elegant and sensual and mixed with champagne ( well for some submissives THAT is the nectar of the "god"!).

Do not be afraid of it (many submissives do what is asked, but do not embrace it with passion)---use all that you have--your face provides a most sensual feeling when rubbed along the shaft, between his legs, along his balls--moist lips, brilliant red lipstick makes an awesome visual when seen from a Dom, use your hair, rubbing your head the same as your face--tells Him you do adore Him and His maleness--all very gentle, slow, sensual..just a few thoughts---and never forget, " Thank You Master"---
 
 




ExistentialSteel -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 7:34:48 AM)

First of all, don’t look at it and say, “What a dick you are.” Ha.

MH00314, I do see what you mean about him wanting her to research the matter, and that is a valid point, but, seriously, I don’t look for a particular technique that I want a sub to use, but just to show enthusiasm.

I have a way of teaching enthusiasm that works perfectly. I once had a sub performing her oral exercise in a perfunctory manner. I stopped her, told her she wasn’t energetic enough, made her get up, bend over the bed and caned her 3 hard times with a solid wooden cane, a rod. I mean to tell you she became so active after that, that I thought she was using a vacuum cleaner on me.




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 12:02:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

If I could bring My esteemed colleagues back to the focus here---submotive was given a task by Her Master to complete--it matters not that He has His own ideas---she has a command--her task is to do some research and study--Masters lead, but Masters also teach--
 


Good point, MH. That's why I asked why he wasn't just teaching her himself. If there's a reason he wants her to explore outside of their own interaction then that's guite an interesting and challenging task. I'm not sure there's much out there on it.

Hmmm...Maybe I have a topic for a new essay. LOL

Cin




NeedToUseYou -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 12:20:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Submotive

Most likely this has been covered before. But don't know where. Master wishes me to learn about cock worship. Any links, suggestions, recommendations? Thank you.


Can you be in Illinois. You will be the cock master before the end of the week. Guaranteed or next week I'll retrain you for free!!!  $99.99 one week training limited time offer, seating reserved.

PS you don't need to worry about bringing food money.




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