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MHOO314 -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 4:12:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful Good point, MH. That's why I asked why he wasn't just teaching her himself. If there's a reason he wants her to explore outside of their own interaction then that's guite an interesting and challenging task. I'm not sure there's much out there on it. Hmmm...Maybe I have a topic for a new essay. LOL Cin Thanks Cin, but no one said he wasn't--there is an immediate assumption that He should be teaching her, no one said He wasn't--but He sent her out for research as a lesson---cock worship goes way beyond sucking, licking, teeth etc. it appears to be assumed--- We see questions asked everyday about techniques, protocols, approaches--and seldom do we say "Master should be teaching"--so Master sent her to school--let's give her some ideas. Ok so here are some questions, I will throw out: Guys, what's the most sensitive part of your cock and balls? How sensitive is the head? Is it all touch? Or is is the setting? Lips? No lips? Teeth? Do you care if you are hard or not? What is the hotest thing ( beyond the touch, etc etc) that a sub can do-- ok cmon guys--fess up. School's in session. What does cock worship mean to you?

yourMissTress -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 4:53:03 PM)
Setting aside my obvious preference of cock and ball play... I would focus on the "worship" and setting a mood or preparing for the actual act. Foreplay if you will. Special candles being lit, special oils used, music played, maybe even putting out a silk sheet or blanket for him to sit on or a special pillow for you to kneel on. Making a ceremony out of it, making it a very special time for both of you. Mineral oil is wonderful and you can scent it yourself. Slow, quiet, instrumental music is nice for mood.

MHOO314 -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 4:54:36 PM)
That's why I adore you Tress, as always, you are sooo total---

primeslave -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 5:08:57 PM)
hi everyone, cock worship ...my how i love that term. i have learned there are lots of terms for what i like to do. baby sucking cock worship blow job ...... i love to suck on a cock. each and every cock is different. each man likes something a little bit different in how he likes his cock 'worhipped'. believe it or not, i even dated a man once for TWO years who did not like his cock to be sucked. (yes, he was vanilla) each guys cum tastes and smells different (note, my ex had cum that tasted so BAD that i thought i was going to vomit and i hated sucking on him. could be why we are divorced????) it is one of the terms of a relationship for me now. i MUST like sucking on his cock, it must taste good, NOT shaved (trimmed is okay - but no stubblies), and he should enjoy it immensely as i like to suck cock often. the best blow jobs are given when the guy can be verbal and tell you WHAT and HOW he likes his cock sucked. i love taking the direction from him. i love looking up at him to see the pleasure in his eyes as he watches his cock in my mouth. using your entire body when you give a good blow job is very important. if you have long hair it feels very silky against their thigh as you lick him. or he may want to hold your hair in his hand to give you 'guidance' (giggles) or so that he can see you. rub your tits or your pussy along his legs as you show him how excited you are to be able to suck his cock. worshipping a cock? oh yes, just being able to suck on it lots and lots and lots. if you think it is pretty then tell him. there are actually some really good looking cocks out there. of course ... a word of caution (saying CUTE is sure to get you a spanking) my idea of a perfect relationship is where his cock is so wet from being in my mouth all the time that it has started to grow mold. yes, there are great articles out there on how to give good blowjobs. tongue and lip action. use your hands with your mouth. watch how he stroked himself and lick him while he does. don't forget hit balls and way underneath. use your nose ..... use EVERYTHING you can think of and then ask him how he likes it. there are ice blowjobs and mint blowjobs and altoid blowjobs. there are so many wonderful things you can do with his cock. and the best reward of all is after he cums .... he lays there so limp that he cannot move. <wicked smiles> i so love the look of a totally satiated Dominant. i also find that if you can get him to talk to you while you are sucking it focuses him and makes it more intense for him because you have both heads involved. whether he is telling you what to do and how to lick or telling you about nasty things he is going to do to you ... get him talking and focused on that cock and you. sex is after all mostly in the mind. and you will learn how to please him so very much by all the little things he tells you right then. good luck and happy sucking!!! by the way ... if you really have a fetish for cock sucking like i do ... look up babysucking. primeSlave ~

Cloudz -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 5:45:25 PM)
prime, I agree with you, and MH thanks for being the voice of reason <grin>. I suggest research and then trying out new techniques and getting feedback from him...

spankmepink11 -> RE: cock worship (4/2/2006 6:19:55 PM)
Wow Primeslave...well said... i've never known anyone to love it as much as i do...and you verbalized it perfectly

Submotive -> RE: cock worship (4/3/2006 9:01:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourMissTress Setting aside my obvious preference of cock and ball play... I would focus on the "worship" and setting a mood or preparing for the actual act. Foreplay if you will. Special candles being lit, special oils used, music played, maybe even putting out a silk sheet or blanket for him to sit on or a special pillow for you to kneel on. Making a ceremony out of it, making it a very special time for both of you. Mineral oil is wonderful and you can scent it yourself. Slow, quiet, instrumental music is nice for mood. Thank You, Ma'am. Very wonderful ideas.

Submotive -> RE: cock worship (4/3/2006 9:44:58 PM)
quote: submotive--you know how to research the web, CastleRealm is a good site for surrealistic, romantic yet actual Dom/sub topics---there may be others, I will go look--however, l might suggest looking at it from the total sensual, worship aspects--special oils, incense in the room, special music, geisha approaches to him, perhaps a daily protocol, He could don a special garment when He seeks worship, special bathing, lotioning--and one of My favorites I suggest to Dom trainees--purchase a special, elegant glass, something like a champagne glass that is reserved for those times when He wants you to drink---its very elegant and sensual and mixed with champagne ( well for some submissives THAT is the nectar of the "god"!). Do not be afraid of it (many submissives do what is asked, but do not embrace it with passion)---use all that you have--your face provides a most sensual feeling when rubbed along the shaft, between his legs, along his balls--moist lips, brilliant red lipstick makes an awesome visual when seen from a Dom, use your hair, rubbing your head the same as your face--tells Him you do adore Him and His maleness--all very gentle, slow, sensual..just a few thoughts---and never forget, " Thank You Master"--- Thank You, Mistress Hathor - You are so kind and caring. It is deeply appreciated.

Submotive -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 7:30:18 AM)
Thank you starymists for the links. Have found some excellent information there.

E110 -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 7:44:21 AM)
ok.. i assume that doesnt include standing in front of him at the door and saying you are the biggest DICK...... sometimes we all need to stop and just laugh eh... tips hat

Submotive -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 8:24:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 I'd suggest you start with your master. It's his cock (I presume?) so it's up to him to tell and show you what he wants - simple! Am I being too cynical to proffer that he hasn't a clue and is too embarrassed to let on about his own lack of knowledge so he has you doing his research for him? Doms are expected to lead, he should do his own research first! Ummmm, he really, really, really doesn't know what he wants from you re his own dick?? Focus. Yes i do believe You are being cynical - Your option, of course. However, i am simply seeking further information because i wish to deliver to Master everything i possibly can in the way of pleasure and adoration of Him. i don't assume to know all there is to know about worship of any sort. i am so fortunate and deeply grateful to have such a kind and humble Master who appreciates my efforts so graciously and permits me opportunities to learn more than just what He knows.

ownedgirlie -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 8:36:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 I'd suggest you start with your master. It's his cock (I presume?) so it's up to him to tell and show you what he wants - simple! Am I being too cynical to proffer that he hasn't a clue and is too embarrassed to let on about his own lack of knowledge so he has you doing his research for him? Doms are expected to lead, he should do his own research first! Ummmm, he really, really, really doesn't know what he wants from you re his own dick?? Focus. Hmm..i typically enjoy your posts but i have to say (for what it's worth, perhaps nothing, lol), to insult another's Master, when she is simply trying to improve, seems unfortunate to me. i don't understand the point in posts such as this, other than to thrust one's negativity at another and be hurtful. To the OP, i agree with others, that it is a personal and intimate expression of your desire and adoration. Think of your feelings for him, think of what his cock represents to you, and let your passion be expressed in your performance. In my first experience of this, i felt a little awkward and clumsy, until i relaxed and realized the meaning behind what i was doing. If i do something he does not prefer, he redirects me. i have learned along the way exactly what appeals to him and what doesn't, so i incorporate that knowledge into my display of worship. Enjoy, and remember it is an expression of your desire, adoration, and devotion to him. Let that be your driving force. :)

Fawne -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 8:58:14 AM)
quote: ownedgirlie Enjoy, and remember it is an expression of your desire, adoration, and devotion to him. Let that be your driving force. :) Yes, well said, thanks. I agree, it's about attitude rather than specific technique. A good BJ may or may not be 'worship'. To worship ( sensual, loving, being in the moment, caressing, admiring, enjoying it yourself as well as for his pleasure, enthusthiastically, without hesitation) is beyond a plain old good BJ, IMHO. PS Easy for me to say. I adore his maleness. every inch, every drop, any way. Guess i have a fetish.. plus he is delicious! Lucky me. With all respect. TY

MHOO314 -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 9:10:19 AM)
If I may add, cock worship goes well beyond a blowjob--there are many more things one can do that can arouse, stimulate, drive mad without ever putting it in your mouth---smiles-- like one long, red well manicured nail that starts dragging at One's ankle all the while never looking up or down, the simple tracing up, slowly up--add 5 long red nails, slowly dragging up toward--- a warm aromatherapy sponge bath--over, under, between red slut pouty lips, playing at the tip, never ever going further--dancing--- kneeling below, head bent, cock resting on one's head--- He stands to pee, do you kneel and worship the power of the position??

MsIncognito -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 9:22:59 AM)
I guess putting a mini sombrero on it and singing "La Cucaracha" is out of the question as well? [;)] quote: ORIGINAL: ExistentialSteel First of all, don’t look at it and say, “What a dick you are.” Ha. Seriously, though, I think this is more about attitude that what one actually does. One can give a stellar blowjob and not have it be the slightest bit "worshipy." Many female switches and Dommes that I know find giving a BJ to be a very dominant act, so it's got to be about one's frame of mind. Not that good technique hurts, but I think that's only a small part of the overall equation.

Submotive -> RE: cock worship (4/4/2006 12:30:33 PM)
quote: He stands to pee, do you kneel and worship the power of the position?? Actually, i hadn't even thought of this Ma'am. Thank You - will see if this is something Master enjoys.

ScotchMaster -> RE: cock worship (4/6/2006 8:39:21 PM)
I am choosing to respond to your response to My submissive because of consideration for her and the BDSM community, certainly not out of any desire to match your crudeness. Submotive is a woman who chooses to lay herself open to the community in order to learn and grow and share. She does this with many topics, it just so happens that you chose to reprimand her on a topic near to My interests. She was doing that when you chose to insult her and Me. She was acting on My desires and for you to jump her and insult Me through her is rude and uncalled for. I hope that you will consider your action and present her with an apology. I note that you are from Australia. I have been there and gotten to know many of your countrymen. I respect your country and your culture and know that it tolerates a wide spectrum of peoples and thinking. The people I met in Sydney were fine human beings and were gracious with good manners. I assume that you will represent them in a manner that they would consider civil.

acctonthelook -> RE: cock worship (4/8/2006 7:41:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: primeslave the best blow jobs are given when the guy can be verbal and tell you WHAT and HOW he likes his cock sucked. i love taking the direction from him. i also find that if you can get him to talk to you while you are sucking it focuses him and makes it more intense for him because you have both heads involved. whether he is telling you what to do and how to lick or telling you about nasty things he is going to do to you ... get him talking and focused on that cock and you. sex is after all mostly in the mind. Oral and worshipping is something I TOTALLY enjoy! I never thought of these suggestions, so I'm glad you posted! Thanks. Babysucking, Gotta check that out...where is the best place to start, here or CastleRealm? or somewhere else? As for Submotive & Scotch Master...I'm sorry that someone showed disrespect for you both. I liked the assignment. It was helpful to me as well. Thank you. Happy Worshipping! [:D]

slave4Darby3d -> RE: cock worship (4/9/2006 2:56:34 AM)
mmm. cock worship is pure attitude. you exist only to please it. you vie only to touch it, languish it, revere in every detail of it. it is your single focus and everything about you becomes about it. you do not tire of it. you are always happy, even honored, to see it - touch it, please it. you wish only to be worthy enough to be granted its sweet reward, without any thought of yourself. at least that's how I look at it. your results may vary...

SirDaniel -> RE: cock worship (4/9/2006 3:56:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: Sub motive I find it a bit puzzling that he doesn't desire to teach you himself. That would seem to me to be part of a master's job...and not a bad part, either! LOLA Cin She did not say he would not teach her. She just said "To find out about it." Definition?

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