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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 3:19:42 PM   
Misstoyou


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I like stoic types that start to whimper.


Stoic, huh? Gotta be one of my favorite words in the vocabulary ; }


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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 3:21:24 PM   
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I like stoic types that start to whimper.


Stoic, huh? Gotta be one of my favorite words in the vocabulary ; }


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Yep, I'm stoic. All the way up until the point when I'm not so much anymore.


BTW, TeeGO, the pics are a nice addition.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 3:23:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd rather beat a wall than play with a stoic bottom.  I enjoy a cooperative bottom who releases the energy that I feed into him, not just greedily absorbs it and fails to feed it back to me.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 4:22:03 PM   
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Dommes do you enjoy playing with vocal subs? Do you enjoy...screams...& moans while tormenting your subs? Or do you prefer the stoic types?


Frankly, if I wanted stoic, I'd play with my teddy bears.

But I want human partners and all that comes with it -- yes, all of it, no matter how difficult things can be from time to time.

However, there are many people who have trouble being loud or ever vocal during a scene or during sex. I find this especially true for younger peope in or right after college; maybe its a dorm room holdover. Others just think that somehow making noise is being weak or not what they should do cause they read it in a porno.

I'd say this is something to discuss during negotiations. If a top/dom want's noise or not, that should be made clear up front. If its not what the bottom/sub normally doe then you have to decide if the other factors make it worth the effect to retrain old habits. Generally I find it worth the effect to help someone learn to become vocal; usually they just need encouragement and to be told to make noise several times.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 5:05:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

BTW, TeeGO, the pics are a nice addition.

Thanks.  I finally decided to come out from the shadows into the light.   Or maybe that should be the other way around.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 5:07:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I'd rather beat a wall than play with a stoic bottom.  I enjoy a cooperative bottom who releases the energy that I feed into him, not just greedily absorbs it and fails to feed it back to me.

Think of it as a challenge, hehee.  Yea, listen to me talk, I actually start whimpering on the first backswing.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 5:51:32 PM   
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screaming through a gag is just so hot.


Oh MY! YES!

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 6:58:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

screaming through a gag is just so hot.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/2/2006 8:07:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love the ones that start off stoic but end up vocal. Part of my energy feeds off their responses. So freaking hot!!!!

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/3/2006 4:16:28 PM   
fiddlegirl


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Status: offline 		Question for those of you who prefer your bottom/sub/slave to be noisy...

There seems to be an assumption here that a quiet bottom is being deliberately stoic (or even greedy and withholding).  What if the bottom is just naturally quiet, rather than making an effort to keep quiet?  Would you still want some noise out of them, even if that meant they'd be faking it?

Thanks, Fiddlegirl

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/3/2006 4:41:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fiddlegirl

Question for those of you who prefer your bottom/sub/slave to be noisy...

There seems to be an assumption here that a quiet bottom is being deliberately stoic (or even greedy and withholding). What if the bottom is just naturally quiet, rather than making an effort to keep quiet? Would you still want some noise out of them, even if that meant they'd be faking it?

Thanks, Fiddlegirl



Actually, yes because I feed off hearing as must as the other senses -- have to have something to hear.

Plus I think that you can help someone learn to let go by encouraging them.

It doesn't have to be fake sounds -- it can be feed back like "that's nice" or "more please" or "are you pleased mistress?".

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/3/2006 7:29:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just a little trivia:  stoic is from the Greek word "stoa" which means "porch" as in the ancient philosophers who used to preach from their porches, Today we'd call them soap boxes.......which caused me to think about the "doormat" sub on nthe porch!!!  Talk about a Train of Thought!!  

Yes, I still prefer a verbal slave!!

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/3/2006 7:56:04 PM   
TeeGO


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Status: offline 		The second time I "scened" with my Domme, she went very easy on me the first time, she again started slow and I made a smart ass comment.  Needless to say I wasn't "stoic" much after that.  Damn that nasty little strap.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/3/2006 7:56:31 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		While possible I suppose, I think it's difficult for even the most stoic to remain seemingly  unaffected during intense periods. I like the reality of the emotions, so most any natural reaction pleases Me.  I love body language (tensing up, slight non-intentional resistence, or sudden reactive movements), and a sudden gasp in surprise or in pain is priceless.

I do however, love whimpering, and any sound which transmits through a gag or from beneath Me intensifies the situation in all the right ways.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 6:09:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fiddlegirl

Question for those of you who prefer your bottom/sub/slave to be noisy...

There seems to be an assumption here that a quiet bottom is being deliberately stoic (or even greedy and withholding).  What if the bottom is just naturally quiet, rather than making an effort to keep quiet?  Would you still want some noise out of them, even if that meant they'd be faking it?

Thanks, Fiddlegirl



NO, I do not want anyone to fake anything with me. I understand the desire to take it for me,and I appreciate it. I would not like a boy who howls at the first tap. I do love the quick indrawn breath, the hiss of air between his teeth, slowly building up to intensity. I learn to play my boys like musical instruments to get the reaction I seek.



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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 7:03:50 AM   
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If you're too noisy, I'll gag you - if you're too quiet, I'll goad you.


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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 5:48:01 PM   
talmar


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I want and expect whatever comes naturally.
If you're too noisy, I'll gag you - if you're too quiet, I'll goad you.



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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 8:42:13 PM   
MsSimone


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Status: offline 		I LOVE IT! Stoic is ok if they are that way wihin their personality and we discuss it but overall I love to hear the reactions to what I am doing. Part of my enjoyment as a sadist.

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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 9:21:19 PM   
MarquiseAstarte


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Status: offline 		I would have to agree with Pandora and the other Dom(me)s here, I too love it when a sub makes noise. Especially when they are 'prim and proper' as you start to play with them. It shows me that they are releasing whatever pent up energy they had and are transforming it into their own personal pleasure that they are willing to share with me, which also sends me into a better Domme space and benifits us both!! I especially find it inticing when the men I domanate are vocal...meaning deep moans and gutteral groans, it's very sensual and erotic!

However, if the sub I've played with knows they are not so vocal and have told me ahead of time, I will still respect that. (after all, I would rather find a way to break them gracefully and still be sadistic than to just beat the shite outta them to hear them make a noise!) Does that answer your question fiddlegirl?


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RE: Dommes do you like playing with vocal subs? - 4/4/2006 9:38:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Vocal depends on the time and the situation and how they are vocal.  If they ask me in the middle of something sexual if I did my taxes, I'm sure it would kill the mood.  I think that talk beforehand is important.  I do like someone who has their own voice and is unafraid to use it even if they are submissive.  I think in certain circumstances people need to be empowered to be vocal.  I also think that communication is extremely important to a relationship whether it is bdsm or vanilla.  Now in the middle of a scene I like girly whimpers, moans and gasps.  Those are exciting beyond all measure to me.

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