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Large Breasts - 3/20/2010 10:48:09 AM

truesuboriana

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I was contacted by another sub who asked me several questions regarding submission. She asked me about the experiences I have had and then body issues. I am a big girl and I have found many men, Vanilla or Masters that revel in that. Her issue was that she has Massive Breasts. I have reccomended several clothing stores for her to dress her figure. Such as Lane Bryant and Fredericks of Hollywood. she is concerned that Men would be turned off by her breasts and or laugh at her.

any tips on how to address this???

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/20/2010 11:08:35 AM

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Different men like different things - Some like large/huge breast, some like their women flat as a board, some don't really care as long as their woman has long hair, etc.

make the comparison to food - everyone has some foods that they like and some that they don't like - it is the same with people - some will like what she has and some won't.

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/20/2010 8:20:08 PM

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different men like different breasts..myself.as long as the sub was happy with herself ..so was I.

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/21/2010 5:47:34 AM

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In the BDSM community a true dom should accept you for who you are not what your measurements are. Before she can be comfortable in a D/S relationship she must be comfortable with herself. I have very large breasts and am a BBW. I embrace my endowment and it shows in my love and service. If she needs someone to talk to so she can feel beautiful and proud send her my way. I will be her friend =) Peace and Love FarynHeight

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/21/2010 5:53:42 AM

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A "true" dominant may have all sorts of preferences, so no, they may not just accept you as you are.

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/21/2010 7:58:36 AM

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Big breasts? ARE AWESOME!!!

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/21/2010 5:38:03 PM

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I have never, personally, met a man who had a problem with my really large breasts. I suspect that she should work on her self-esteem before finding someone to play with, or she might look into breast reduction surgery.

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RE: Large Breasts - 3/23/2010 5:26:29 AM

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I was contacted by another sub who asked me several questions regarding submission. She asked me about the experiences I have had and then body issues. I am a big girl and I have found many men, Vanilla or Masters that revel in that. Her issue was that she has Massive Breasts. I have reccomended several clothing stores for her to dress her figure. Such as Lane Bryant and Fredericks of Hollywood. she is concerned that Men would be turned off by her breasts and or laugh at her.

any tips on how to address this???

Perhaps it would be good for her to attend some BDSM community events and have a good look at the various breasts that are displayed and represent the "masses". There are more large-breasted women out there than flat-chested girls. When breast-bondage is involved, you're better off with bigger breasts...the bigger the better. Huge breasts can be sometimes looked at on many levels as not only to be tenderly handled, but also depending on the subject; more intensive play can be done to them. You're going to find those that prefer small breasts to big breasts, but I think that ratio is smaller than your friend may believe.

Once she sees how many women out there are like her (some may well be envious of her endowments as well), then she may not be so self-conscious about it all. Embrace the breast! A good discussion would be to find out when she started having problems with her self-image on this subject, and let her know that its' not the case (since this negative image most likely stems from a negative experience that traumatized her on some level). I suppose that if you posted a poll on CM concerning breast preferences, you'd find a lot of men and women who would side with the biggin's. Good luck!

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RE: Large Breasts - 4/13/2010 12:57:04 AM

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When I sometimes wear womens clothes, I like to have huge breasts.

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