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the foot thing - 3/21/2010 2:38:28 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		 Every time I go to the fetish club, men line up to rub my feet, and I've been approached 2x since I started modeling to do foot tickling/massage videos. I had no idea it was such a prevalent fetish. I intend no judgment, I just would love to hear someone speak about what really turns them on about massaging a woman's feet, honestly I'd prefer a neck/shoulder massage, but I'll take a foot massage too! ;)

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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 2:40:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Rumi must have not had that fetish, with his "Finally, to take a step without feet" thing.



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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 2:44:57 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		LOL oh the irony huh?  Maybe I DO secretly have a foot bias...

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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 2:55:42 PM   
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On a serious, and non-submissive note, I'd say a lot of the attraction is two-fold: if a man has a foot fetish, giving a massage not only gets him close to a woman's feet, but gives him the opportunity to do something that makes her feel good.

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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 3:01:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm sure you're right Level, the smiles on their faces would support that theory... 

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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 3:27:37 PM   
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I think you really would be surprised at how many people do have foot fetishes.  Aside from areas of the body that would be covered by a bikini, feet probably top what's left of the list for someone to have a fetish about.  Sure, every once in a while, you'll hear someone call themselves a leg man, but you'd be amazed at how many find the feet to be erotic.  Which, actually makes sense, as the feet have nerves that are easily stimulated.  (Ever notice how many people are ticklish on their feet, even if they aren't ticklish in general?)

Foot massage, count Me in.  Erotic foot massage, even better.


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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 3:30:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.

I don't have a thing for feet but love giving foot massages, I mean you get to show a woman how talented and strong your hands are, you get to push and pull on her foot
and thereby opening and closing her thighs, if you do it right, they make all sorts of nice noises. I know that if I can get my hands on her feet, I am going to get my hands on everything else as well.

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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 3:39:49 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Not a sub, but chiming in from the other side of the kneel.

I think you really would be surprised at how many people do have foot fetishes.  Aside from areas of the body that would be covered by a bikini, feet probably top what's left of the list for someone to have a fetish about.  Sure, every once in a while, you'll hear someone call themselves a leg man, but you'd be amazed at how many find the feet to be erotic.  Which, actually makes sense, as the feet have nerves that are easily stimulated.  (Ever notice how many people are ticklish on their feet, even if they aren't ticklish in general?)

Foot massage, count Me in.  Erotic foot massage, even better.



Thanks for writing LadyPact, yes I am surprised and amazed, and I had not thought about the nerve aspects of feet, it does make sense in that regard.  I just wish I had known all those years I was waitressing begging my boyfriend to massage my feet after being on them for 12 hours straight, all I needed to do was go to the fetish club!


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RE: the foot thing - 3/21/2010 3:43:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.

I don't have a thing for feet but love giving foot massages, I mean you get to show a woman how talented and strong your hands are, you get to push and pull on her foot


This is exactly the insight I was looking for, thank you.
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and thereby opening and closing her thighs, if you do it right, they make all sorts of nice noises. I know that if I can get my hands on her feet, I am going to get my hands on everything else as well.
  LOL well not in my universe but I still like the massage!


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RE: the foot thing - 3/25/2010 3:13:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		For me it is about knowing my place, I don't feel like I can enter a woman but I do feel it is appropriate to be at her feet worshipping her and in particular offering a massage is therapy/empathy after a long day in heels.

Also certain shoes can be so sexually charged, for instance strappy sandals remind me of bondage and ballet flats make me think of feminine delicacy, it powerfully eroticizes that part of the body.


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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 3:10:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.

I don't have a thing for feet but love giving foot massages, I mean you get to show a woman how talented and strong your hands are, you get to push and pull on her foot
and thereby opening and closing her thighs, if you do it right, they make all sorts of nice noises. I know that if I can get my hands on her feet, I am going to get my hands on everything else as well.


Michael, darling, the ladies here (and I'm sure I speak for ALL of us) find it difficult to believe this. Might a suggest a wee demonstration anon? Hmmmm?

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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 8:00:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Most of us subs/foot fetishists would be happy to massage a lady anywhere. But starting with the feet has two advantages. It is our fetish and being low puts us in a servile state of mind. Also, a foot massage is a rather mild inroad to more intimate acts. A way to touch a woman without being too creepy or threatening. Remember the Vincent/Jules elevator discussion in "Pulp Fiction"?

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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 8:50:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss


quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.

I don't have a thing for feet but love giving foot massages, I mean you get to show a woman how talented and strong your hands are, you get to push and pull on her foot
and thereby opening and closing her thighs, if you do it right, they make all sorts of nice noises. I know that if I can get my hands on her feet, I am going to get my hands on everything else as well.


Michael, darling, the ladies here (and I'm sure I speak for ALL of us) find it difficult to believe this. Might a suggest a wee demonstration anon? Hmmmm?


Sunshine, all you have to do is con BSB into posting or get DemonKia to bottom to me but Kia knows someone I got to orgasm just by rubbing her feet. Or you could just supply some tall hot Jewish MILF and I can demonstrate on her.

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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 9:06:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Feet are icky........ other than Salma Hayak in " Dusk Till Dawn"


I am an "ankles up" kinda guy.


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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 9:19:10 AM   
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I am an "ankles up" kinda guy.

Really?  I went Jimmy Choo shopping with Miss Hilarious the other day.  My job was to agree with her that she looked sexy as hell, and then to make her give the shoes back, on pain of public punishment, because she couldn't afford them.

Watching her try on shiny red pumps, whose sole value was to make her curves more appealing to eyes like mine -- and watching her face look more confident and powerful as she strutted about -- was hot hot hot.

So Elysium, it's not just touching a woman's body in a "safe" or "sublike" manner, and it's not just that some guys get boners when they think about toes and arches.  For me, at least, I relate most to what a change in her feet does to her entire body.  The fact that I helped change her body to something more sexually receptive is what gives me a feeling of power.  A "yeah, I still got it" kind of moment.


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RE: the foot thing - 3/26/2010 9:20:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Feet in HEELS..... are different than  just plain old feet...:)

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RE: the foot thing - 3/27/2010 5:28:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I guess it is just something some males (and females) like. As for me, I would rather see a Female (Model or not), in a Cute pair of Mary Janes, Ballet Slippers or even Pointe Shoes.

Maybe you can model them next?  LMCLAO

Mary Jane Shoes and all, sub BalletBob

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RE: the foot thing - 3/27/2010 8:56:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.

I don't have a thing for feet but love giving foot massages, I mean you get to show a woman how talented and strong your hands are, you get to push and pull on her foot
and thereby opening and closing her thighs, if you do it right, they make all sorts of nice noises. I know that if I can get my hands on her feet, I am going to get my hands on everything else as well.


Michael, darling, the ladies here (and I'm sure I speak for ALL of us) find it difficult to believe this. Might a suggest a wee demonstration anon? Hmmmm?


Sunshine, all you have to do is con BSB into posting or get DemonKia to bottom to me but Kia knows someone I got to orgasm just by rubbing her feet. Or you could just supply some tall hot Jewish MILF and I can demonstrate on her.


No one has to con me into posting!  I absolutely vouch that you give the best foot massages, ever, and all that you claim is TRUTH!!


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RE: the foot thing - 3/28/2010 7:05:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey, speaking of tall, hot Jewish Milfs! Thanks for the kind words woman!

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RE: the foot thing - 3/28/2010 8:31:38 AM   
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If you are a submissive male who is impressed/intimidated by women, it is a very sensual thing to do without the emotional pressure of either sexual performance or intimacy.


I disagree. I've had my feet rubbed by very confident submissive men who knew it was a way to butter me up.

All you heterosexually-inclined men, Dom or sub, are just simply hypnotized by pussy and will start at her feet to get a glimpse of it ;-)

- LA

<edited as I wrote Domme instead of Dom and wanted to add heterosexually-inclined>

< Message edited by LadyAngelika -- 3/28/2010 8:42:58 AM >

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