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When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 10:39:26 AM   
osf


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Status: offline 		you read "I'm feisty and need a strong man to handle me" or "I'm a slave that does what she's told", which is going to be your first choice?

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 10:47:16 AM   
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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 11:09:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't choose either based on so little info. and what's wrong with "A feisty slave who does what she is told when it is from someone strong enough to inspire her submission"?

Personally, I don't find anything wrong... I Own one who would fit that description


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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 11:23:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Neither. She ain't my slave till I say so, and feisty is relative. I don't take well to being told how to judge a woman, especially by the woman herself.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 11:35:47 AM   
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Neither. She ain't my slave till I say so, and feisty is relative. I don't take well to being told how to judge a woman, especially by the woman herself.


Gosh...good point! Whenever I see where a woman has labeled herself as feisty or 'not a doormat' it always bugged me for some reason and that's it.....she's not letting her potential Dom decide for himself.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 11:42:27 AM   
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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 11:53:23 AM   
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And just how are they supposed to try and convey any information about who they are in a profile without those sort of statements. I don't see them as her saying how she expects others to see her, it is her trying to say how she see's herself.


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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 12:24:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just used the extremes, answers can be based on anything in between, set your own parameters and make and present your argument

My questions are meant to foster open discussion

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 12:28:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's a silly question...... when you are standing at a bar, do you hit on the red head...or the blonde?

I attempt to interact with people, not profiles. My profile is a joke... it made me laugh when I made it.

I have no idea who the person really is until we have talked a bit.

Jeff


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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 12:38:21 PM   
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I just used the extremes, answers can be based on anything in between, set your own parameters and make and present your argument


OK.

I choose girls between the extremes.

Why? Because they aren't extreme.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 12:50:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		wow - interesting responses -

i would say that im fiesty too - i can be a royal ratbag - but under the right Management im anything but.

however, im not sure that i would put that im a fiesty ratbag on my profile because im pretty sure it would be inviting the Punishment Dom to my door.  i can almost hear his heels clicking along the corridor towards me as he cracks his whip and rolls up his sleeves -

im never really sure with statements like that if theyre intentionally put to attract a certain type or if its just a straight forward honest self appraisal.  but in the context of a BDSM dating site i have to go with the former rather than the latter.

if that were the case then, if i were a Domme id avoid them like the plague - someone who picks fiesty out of all the words they can use to describe themselves and here of all places is either fishing for a PD or theyre way too naive and should be gently escorted home.

as for the 'i do as im told' - thats sweet  but also naive - enter the SadoMachineMan complete with every known torture nipple twisting cerrated edged carbuncle known to man.  id probably have to rescue her from herself. 

wow im cynical! - when did that happen

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 1:05:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Jeez, rock and a hard place with that choice. Both of those phrases send up red flags for me. "I'm a slave that does what she's told" suggests either niavette or someone who is just going to passively react to everything. "I'm feisty and need a strong man to handle me" reads as either scared/nervous about submitting or just a pain in the ass.

I choose the prettier one.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 2:45:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'll take the hybrid, "I'm feisty and I do as I'm told"

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 2:49:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		what kind of a sub do you prefer?...A) Dead B) Mostly dead

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 5:19:13 PM   
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Why don't you ask "do you want a woman or a man?"   

I don't know why you asked this question or what you want to learn.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 5:23:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ShoreBound149

I'll take the hybrid, "I'm feisty and I do as I'm told"


.....otherwise known as Aileen


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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 5:26:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

It's a silly question...... when you are standing at a bar, do you hit on the red head...or the blonde?

Jeff



The red-head, of course 

(now back to your regularly scheduled thread)  


I don't read women's profiles, but I would hope that the whole profile would be what would catch one's interest.  Maybe there is one or two lines that would make one interested enough to read the whole thing.    

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 5:35:01 PM   
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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 6:07:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		The third option..ignore both and look instead for one who outlines realistic things she has to offer-and can back them up.

Self mastery is very attractive.

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RE: When reading a womans profile - 3/24/2010 6:09:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

what kind of a sub do you prefer?...A) Dead B) Mostly dead


The dead red head. 

Makes Jeffff and Kallisto happy.

(Edited to put more f's in Jefffffff and more l's in Kallisto)


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