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domiguy -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 7:11:55 AM)
There is nothing more appealing than scraping mentorly cum off of my sub....It's the sign that she is obtaining some quality lernin. Back off, you twats. I've got dibs. It's too late for aileen, she is poo encrusted. For the rest of you!!!! Save yourselves and go to e-harmony. There is no need for protectors or mentors over there, it's one big happy family just like the Catholic Church. Protecting Your Sub/Slave? - 3/9/2010 10:11:06 AM quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Jeffff is my mentor and protector....He is lying to you. He hasn't the time. I am in danger out here. Grave danger. Is there really any other kind?

DarkSteven -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 7:12:20 AM)
I've mentored subs before. Never again. It involved all the hassles of a full relationship, but with no sex.

domiguy -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 7:31:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I've mentored subs before. Never again. It involved all the hassles of a full relationship, but with no sex. You sir are no mentor. No sex? What is up with that shit? There is always sex. You missed the memo. Why were you wasting their time? What about guiding them down the path to obtaining their deepthroating degree? You obviously did not take full advantage of your csoh and lost their respect as well as all of your mentoring credentials. You sicken me. That is why you only mentor the hotties. The ugly and the undesirables have been proven to be incapable of learning. It's just a waste of time. I am the mentor to the stars.

Nslavu -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 9:17:50 AM)
[sm=tantrum.gif] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WL1lfSzgcAw

sirsholly -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 10:33:28 AM)
sheeeeesh...whats a sub have to do to get a lil mentoring around here? I blew Jeffff off as a mentor for Ron (Ron is quiet...Jeffff is not) but Ron apparently does not want me snifflesob. I was looking to LaT, but she is a mean assed bitch who is overly fond of carnage. So... i tried to get Jeff back but Aileen called dibs and i am deathly afraid to mess with her. Then Stevie...my Stevie!!....said he will not mentor unless he gets some. sigh

LaTigresse -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 11:23:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly sheeeeesh...whats a sub have to do to get a lil mentoring around here? I blew Jeffff off as a mentor for Ron (Ron is quiet...Jeffff is not) but Ron apparently does not want me snifflesob. I was looking to LaT, but she is a mean assed bitch who is overly fond of carnage. So... i tried to get Jeff back but Aileen called dibs and i am deathly afraid to mess with her. Then Stevie...my Stevie!!....said he will not mentor unless he gets some. sigh Wellll then. I guess you are screwed. Said in an, ever so mentorly, non sexual, way of course.

lovingpet -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 11:56:26 AM)
Oh, on a totally different note, OP should consider that maybe losing this girl was not such the tragedy it seemed after all. It left him wide open to meet the wonderful, sweet creature that is wisdomtogive. [:)] What is it about life being what happens when we are busy making other plans? lovingpet

MstrDark1 -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 12:22:39 PM)
Lovinpet, It is a lot better now that there is wisdom in my life......

lovingpet -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 12:25:37 PM)
[:)] Wishes of a happily ever after to you both! lovingpet

MstrDark1 -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 12:47:10 PM)
[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m9.gif[/image] thanx

poeticfreak -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 1:09:58 PM)
for me, if someone uses the words mentor, protector, guardian or anything like that, then regardless of gender or whether we're friends, just getting to know each other or well on the way to something more. the second i hear one of these words i simply walk away. i've known many people who have used those words and they all had one thing in common, their lives were always full of drama. i'm not saying mentor ship is bad or unnecessary but, for most of us it's just a facet of having friends. it just seems to me that those who need special labels for their friends tend to be rather dramatic

DesFIP -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 2:26:21 PM)
Holly, Stevie will give in and mentor you if you have cookies. He's weak that way. [:D] OP, your original post is very odd. So she preferred someone else, so what? You've never been turned down before? Who cares if it was her mentor or the guy next door. She just wasn't that into you.

wisdomtogive -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 2:51:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet [:)] Wishes of a happily ever after to you both! lovingpet Thank you lovingpet Regarding the op. i am walking gently here:) In the post He showed this was something he wrote about 3 years ago. That was pretty much his starting line. Sir was just presenting an area, from his own experience, regarding mentoring. More or less, he just wrote this to begin a conversation. ,,,,gently walks away.

lovingpet -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 2:58:23 PM)
I understood that. I just was interested to see if three years down the line in the situation he was in, if he had been able to take in the bigger picture that he didn't know was there when he wrote this. It is funny how life works out sometimes, no? [:)] lovingpet

wisdomtogive -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 3:01:15 PM)
i can only speak for myself lovingpet, and we both know that is true:). Sir is not home, though i am sure when he gets back later, he will be reading this thread to catch up. .i wasn't going to say anything, but felt warranted too...now i will walk gently away:) except he really is great!

lovingpet -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 3:42:04 PM)
I am thrilled to see you so very happy and fulfilled. I know you have taken a long journey to arrive at this place. hugs lovingpet

MstrDark1 -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 5:58:58 PM)
Lovingpet, I realized a lot of things after this occured.This was a poly couple mentoring her....they new she was being involved with me....they didn't like the idea that she found someone and she was happy about it. So basically they made her an offer she could not refuse....but still they interfered....and to me thats a no no! And yes i did take in the bigger picture from all this. It made me much wiser and less foolish. MD

MstrDark1 -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 6:01:32 PM)
Thats my baby..she knows me................

Andalusite -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/25/2010 7:12:38 PM)
poeticfreak, I've never used any of those terms, but I don't engage in BDSM with all of my friends routinely. [;)] At that time, I had recently had a breakup, and didn't want to have sex, or date, and did want to explore and learn. Since those specific couple of people were helping me figure things out and try new things repeatedly, I think they were functioning the way mentors should. DarkSteven, we didn't have any relationship structure - we'd sometimes hang out and get a bite to eat or go do other vanilla things together, but it was not intense, or nearly as time-consuming as an actual relationship. I'm not sure what went on in your mentoring situation, but it sounds quite different from my experience.

ShoreBound149 -> RE: Mentors........watch your step! (3/26/2010 12:47:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff A mentor would change your mind! Jefffffff....i wanted to ask you to be my mentor, but am going to ask Ron instead. He doesn't whine...yanno? Plus, having an anteater for a mentor would violate TOS. OP: I agree with Jeff here (I know! Freaky, huh?). If someone needs a formal mentorship structure (as opposed to an informal friend to go to with questions/concerns) are they in a place where you want a relationship with them? I'm sorry...you ladies are all too slow. Jefff is already my mentor. We can't spread him too thin. Besides, I need lots of protecting as I'm a mindless twit. I'm not so sure about this mentor shit. She still sucks at math and doesn't know any state capitals.

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