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RE: Serving as Maid/Butler - 4/23/2006 5:33:30 PM

theRose4U

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I might use her as a table or serving tray at a party soon.

I've been to parties where this is the case it can really be a blast. wrap the "platter" in plastic wrap after they are well scrubbed and polished. Honey dust is a nice add on especially if it has a light shimmer. Personally I prefer them on top of the serving island or dining table if size allows. Colored plastice wrap in appropriate places if they are shy. Be sure to color coordinate with the rest of your theme. Flowers make a nice touch as well as the fruit basket between the legs. Don't forget things like fanned out hair too. Be creative. I prefer to have both hot and cold dishes and switch them out periodically to keep the subs attention. An exhibitionist will easily be in subspace for hours.

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RE: Serving as Maid/Butler - 4/23/2006 6:24:50 PM

MistressMelissa

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However, a highly subtle mandate of formality and sophistication befalls the owner and therein the dedicated servitor finds the downfall of all his efforts dreams and passions.

Aaahhhh, but that is the ying to the yang. It takes an owner willing to hone their own skills, to balance the structure, formality and needs of the servitor, to achieve the harmony they both desire. To allow the servitor to go unnoticed to all but the owner. Allowing each to gain what they desire from the relationship. For many these challenges are insurmountable and thus it is not even attempted. The rules of Victorian or Edwardian life placed great burdens upon the owners as well as those that staffed their houses. The thought that in a world of instant "masters", that an owner would have to work to perfect their skills outside of the playroom is preposterous. That you would have to make time to study manners and etiquette, especially from an age that the subject of movies and romance novels. Most would rather learn to master the flogger than learn the rituals or protocols required to run a proper house. As with many things in life: the greater the challenge the greater the reward or failure. But as in love, is it not better to have tried and failed than to never have tried at all.

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RE: Serving as Maid/Butler - 4/23/2006 7:32:23 PM

sexxykitten

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You should tell that to about 75% of Dommes on this site alone. most are very judgemental. i'm always trapped between a guy wanting me for sex only, and a Domme that wont have a thing to do with me. i find it a bit selfish, especially when a Domme starts complaining about all the fakes/liar online, when She is limiting Herself to the "cute girls".

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RE: Serving as Maid/Butler - 1/6/2008 2:11:38 AM

cindyxdresser

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I am a sissy maid for three of my female friends.I love going to their house dressed totally enfemme,and being their maid.From the time i arrive till i am allowed to leave i do all the cooking and cleaning.I totally clean each and every room ,do all the laundry ,any cooking i am told to do,and i am not talking just in their house,,but if there are any chores they want done outside i am required to go out fully feminised and take care of those chores also.One woman i am a sissy maid for has an 8 year old daughtor i take care of as well,I feed her ,make sure she takes her showers,and get her up in the morning and get her ready for school.The only bad thing about being her sissy maid is having to walk her dog,which isnt bad at all,except i have to walk her dog around the neighborhood several times a day and always in a skirt and heels

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