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ownedgirlie -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 7:29:00 PM)

It just evolved into an ability for me, too, for my Master.  i always thought it was impossible - ha! 

Funny story (well for me, anyway).  Once he entered a room, where i was waiting for him.  He opened the door, entered, and said quite emphatically, "Cum!!"  i thought he said "Come!" so i went to him.  He said "Nooo.....CUM!" 

Ohhhhh....duhhh....right.... and then it happened.  We laughed about it later.  i got confused with cum on command, and puppy training [:D]



MasterUnknown -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 7:33:08 PM)

well I guess it would not be as much fun as doing it with your Dom or masterbating but it is nice knowing that I have that effect on her.  just the sound of my voice is enough to bring her to the edge.  I do have to admit it was not something I set out to do.  it just kind of happned that way more or less



couldbeyours1 -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:01:10 PM)

Can sub men cum on command?...if so is it hard to train for?..and obviously i realize a male must be erect to do this.



MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:04:18 PM)

Ooooooh!  I want to hear the (affirmative) answer to this one!



DelightMachine -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:11:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbeyours1

Can sub men cum on command?...if so is it hard to train for?..and obviously i realize a male must be erect to do this.



I've heard second-hand about sub men cumming on command. The guy was in a scene and he was erect, but his penis hadn't been touched, at least for a while. His domme then commanded him to cum and he did. Again, it was second hand, but from a person I trust.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:15:13 PM)

Wow...I have never heard of this...Somehow I do not think I would be able to cum on command..And not sure if I would want to after reading where many find it so unfulfilling..Kind of makes me think of one going to cookie jar with great anticipation and finding only tea bags....be welll...Tempting



ownedgirlie -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:18:22 PM)

Tempting, it is one of the ways i feel his power over me.  It is as though he is commanding my body directly, and my body obeys on its own.



Emperor1956 -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:30:25 PM)

Hello, everyone.  Nice thread.  I have trained three (female) submissives to cum on command, one with only a hand gesture.  It takes a lot of conditioning, and can be augmented with some hypnotic training (the orgasm on command is a post-hypnotic suggestion).   And yes, as her Master I understood that at times the orgasm was embarassing, not welcome, and a bit painful.  But that really isn't the point, is it?

Two things:   1.  What may have happened on the phone with the gentleman who started this thread may have been that the girl came on his command after a long period of arousal.  This is not quite the same (although no less delightful to the Dominant).  If you have a girl with this ability, and you build up to orgasm, deny it, build slowly, deny, and build to the breaking point, over and over, almost ANY stimulus...a sharp spank, an order to "CUM", a whisper, will tip a girl over. 

2.  On male submissives:  Of course the same "trigger" as I describe above will work, and especially so if the orgasm has been denied, then built, etc.   And a man does not have to be erect to cum.  In certain tantric studies, the ability to orgasm, with ejaculation, but no erection, is a prized goal.  Also, many men with erectile dysfunction can cum with no problem.

E.



devotedangel -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:36:19 PM)

Ohhh please don't be hestitant about learning this...it is most amazing... and very very satisfying... I never dreamed it possible but not only am I now able to cum on command I can cum without touching myself on command .. which may be a verbal command.. a gesture.. or a look... I would encourage you to practice and learn...



MasterUnknown -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:38:46 PM)

well that was something that I did not know men cumming on comand.  hmm

well she was aroused at the time but has not been today when I spoke to her and she did it again.  I only did it to see if it was because of the situation in what it happened last night, and yes she had anouther oragasm



Cloudz -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:43:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbeyours1

Can sub men cum on command?...if so is it hard to train for?..and obviously i realize a male must be erect to do this.


Absolutely...I will contact the male sub I know and have personally seen do it and ask him to post. It is a huget kick, I loved it and look forward to enjoying it again with him sometime.



Estring -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:52:51 PM)

I have trained my slave to cum on my command. I incorporated some hypnosis training and it didn't take much time. It is amazing to me how the desire to please can allow a slave to do some incredible things. 



Daddyslilkunt -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 8:56:09 PM)

overall i think its amazing.. the orgasms arent unsatisfying in play, or if im in the right mindset anyway... just, when its out of the blue, and im say trying to focus on something serious or dont feel well or something... its not fun.
and while i dont find the orgasms themselves to be as good normally as when i cum from actual play... it is very satisfying in other ways. its an amazing thing to constantly cum while sucking his cock... it can add a LOT to humiliation play if youre doing something you dont exactly like and are made to cum so easily during it.. just because he wants you to.
and when there is a really deep connection with the man doing it.. what it does to me mentally is far better than any orgasm.

~lilkunt~



catize -> RE: Cum on command (4/2/2006 9:15:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: spankmepink11
But also..in my opinion...it takes a persons very intimate and thorough knowledge of their own body....


I agree.  I taught myself, I didn't need 'training'.  It's simply a matter of focusing the mind. 



twicehappy -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 4:37:56 AM)

quote:

It's been my experience to do it very effectively with very little training.  However, the mindset must be right.

It's in the mind! 


I agree having been trained both to cum on command and to not cum until commanded by my previous Master.

At 1st this caused a bit of confusion with my current owners as they did not realize that i was so trained to this i could not cum unless allowed. Not even, hmm..., entertaining myself ( this made vanilla sex during 6 years i was on own impossible).

Now however it gives both great joy to push until i break and it just happens, although they also seem to enjoy watching me struggle not to as well.




MasterUnknown -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 4:56:49 AM)

Well I see that this as turned into something actully worth reading so since I am not one to normally train to cum only on command I will step back and  watch. 

Granted denyal is some I do use but I never insisted that they always ask permission.  Of course that always depends on the circumstance I guess.  Well anyways I am going to stop throwing my almost worthless 2 cents in and just watch unless some one has a question about the start and why it came about that is.



michaelGA -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 5:30:28 AM)

i've heard of this theory, and would like to know more about it. is it real or a myth?



trainable14Domme -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 5:36:24 AM)

Absolutely.....i was trained to cum on 0 as my Mistress would count down from 10. To add to this, She would sometimes have me do this in front of Her friends to show how well trained i was. Even with that pressure, i rarely disappointed Her. It seemed to amuse her.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 6:08:37 AM)

It's definitely not a sub/slave thing, or even necessarily a female thing.  However, lots of doms like using it as a parlor sex trick and lots of women love the lack of stress/self responsibility for their sexuality, so it comes up a lot in kinky sex relationships.

For myself, I am highly doubtful that it would or could ever occur for me.  I'm just not wired to orgasm easily.



thetammyjo -> RE: Cum on command (4/3/2006 9:04:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: couldbeyours1

Can sub men cum on command?...if so is it hard to train for?..and obviously i realize a male must be erect to do this.



Why not?

Men can learn to become multiple-orgasmic, why not to come on command?

Its a matter of waiting to, working on it, and probably natural inclination and ability.



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