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ownedgirlie -> RE: Cum on command (4/6/2006 8:43:07 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
Thank you for taking the other side---I too have always wondered about the "cumming on command" with little or no physical stimulation---I will tell you that's the one thing that creeps Me out in our local group--all the Doms get together and these slaves are "coc" all over the place----ewwww
I'm not knocking it, I just don't get it.
Someone wrote to me privately to ask about this and i responded. She suggested it post it here and i wasn't going to, because i tend to feel rather privately about certain intimate things. But i decided to copy/paste it here, for those who legitimately do not understand - maybe this will provide some insight? i can only speak for me, and my particular case with Master. Here goes:
It took a long time to get to this point. There wasn't any "formal" training, per se, but my connection to him is so strong, almost spiritual. The orgasms i have when ordered to cum, without physical stimulation, are different then when physically stimulated. It's like they start in the mind and burst throughout my body from a very deep place within.
It took work on my part as well, knowing he wanted it and wanting to provide it. i must say, my Master is very intense. He has total control over my orgasms - i am NEVER to orgasm without him saying so, and they are always for him to enjoy. Meaning, cumming for my own enjoyment is inappropriate. "Master, mayi cum because my body needs to" is inappropriate. "Master may i cum to please you" is appropriate. i am quite vocal when i orgasm, and he loves the sounds i make, and the expressions on my face, and the way my body twists about. So, my orgasms are a way to entertain him.
Having said that, he is intense in the way he orders them. He would have me stimulate myself, and bring myself to the edge of an orgasm, and then hold it. He loves the cries a girl makes when begging to cum, on that razor's edge. It began as having me hold them for a minute or so....now sometimes it's about an hour. When he commands me to cum, he almost shouts it (the first time he did that i cried, thinking he was yelling at me, lol). His voice becomes very intense, and very forward. i learned to trigger that with orgasming.
Eventually it got to a point where there didn't need to be stimulation. Just that enormous, intense command and whamo, i'm cumming. Eventually, just his intent would have me cumming. We are long distance but he has me cum over the phone for him a lot. Sometimes if he's at the airport waiting for a plane, for example, he won't shout CUM!! but will calmly say "Start". He even "tone-trained" me. Signalling me by pressing a button on the phone will start and stop me too.
i used to have to work really hard, trying to "push them out." i learned, rather than do that, i need to open my mind, and visualize opening my body, to let him in, and take over. i can actually see and feel his presence entering my body and taking hold of my very core, and causing an orgasm to start.
i know i'm wordy here...i hope that helps. It's all mental, plus the fact that any time i think of him now (always), i become so turned on, i battle with varying degrees of that edge.
For those who think just the word (or in my case, a tone on the telephone!) will trigger an orgasm if prompted by anyone, you are very wrong, in my case anyway. "my" orgasms belong to my Master. He owns them and he controls them. my body will not respond to just anyone saying the word. It is my emotional and even spiritual connection with him which makes this so.
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