WyldHrt
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i realise i know nothing at all about how youd encorporate funishment into a relationship. that might sound strange but i find the concept a bit odd anyway.
does anyone enjoy this as an aspect of their relationship and how do you do it, basically.
I'm pretty much with Dreamerdreaming, although my relationships may also have a punishment dynamic, unlike hers. Funishment has nothing to do with actual punishment, which is why the question, "Do you mean funishment?" is often asked in threads about "punishing" a submissive where it seems the OP is actually talking about play.
For myself, I am not a SAM or a brat, and I do not act out or disobey hoping to get funished for it. That said, I have a good sense of humour and love wordplay. I am also a tiny bit of a smartass (shup, y'all) and prefer a Dom with a similar sense of humour and smartassery (is too a word). Given my preferred dynamic, funishment usually comes into play sooner or later, most often from mutually enjoyed banter and teasing. I totally admit getting hot when a D that I'm with comes up behind me and whispers, "You just wait til I get you home, young lady!", "Oohhh, you're gonna get it now" or some such in my ear  It's not a matter of needing an excuse to do what he wants, it's simply another form of teasing and play.
Just my $.02 on keeping the "fun" in funishment. 
ETA- Here's LuckyAlbatross' thread on the subject. I believe it's the first time the term was used on CM.
< Message edited by WyldHrt -- 4/1/2010 7:35:18 PM >
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