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jbcurious -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 4:01:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


Victoria's Secrets is a joke. The sales people haven't a CLUE how to size for a bra. They got my sister wearing one that was too large and tried to cram me into one too small. Their size range is quite limited. I am a 36..... and their 36 only went to a D cup, which is wayyyyy too small. So they thought they could sell me a 38 D, which then rode up in the back and still didn't contain the girls properly. I have bought better fitting bras at Walmart for crying out loud. And that is not exactly the mecca of fabulous undie shopping.


I´ve found that most normal shops don´t cater to larger cup sizes at all...  I´m only a 38 but my cup size is an F or G depending on the make....  I never come across 38´s in anything larger than a DDD ,except in speciality shops and even then the larger cup sizes tend to start in the 40´s  it really does get frustrating.




AquaticSub -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 7:10:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Victoria's Secrets is a joke. The sales people haven't a CLUE how to size for a bra. They got my sister wearing one that was too large and tried to cram me into one too small. Their size range is quite limited. I am a 36..... and their 36 only went to a D cup, which is wayyyyy too small. So they thought they could sell me a 38 D, which then rode up in the back and still didn't contain the girls properly. I have bought better fitting bras at Walmart for crying out loud. And that is not exactly the mecca of fabulous undie shopping.


I like their thongs when they are having a sale. Though, honestly, I don't think I've ever been fitted properly anywhere. At this point, I just go with what looks and feels right and ignore the woman with the tape measure for the most part. Even the little old ladies that everyone swears by at the independent lingerie stores fitted me badly.

I think I have trust issues when it comes to bras... [:D]




switch2please -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 7:50:01 AM)

Merc and beth, thanks for the research :) yet another excuse to not wear a bra! My breasts are small and cute, so I really only wear one if the shirt doesn't quite fit without it anyway...and B prefers the 'free range' boobies, since they don't roam very far.
I was aware that tight undergarments on men can reduce fertility, but I didn't realize there was a link to cancer. B has a vasectomy (yay!) so fertility is not an issue, but he prefers going commando. He looks delicious in those tight boxer brief things, but he's too big for them to be an option for everyday comfort.




Andalusite -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 8:26:11 AM)

It seems like an awful tizzy over something minor! There are plenty of vanilla women who wear the incorrect bra size, and breast bondage is much tighter and can be less comfortable. I agree that a demi-cup or corset would be better to get the look he wants, but I really think that most of the responses are an overreaction. I have a couple of bras that are currently too small, that I keep around for weight fluctuations. Occasionally when the ones that fit me are in the laundry, or the cut of one of them suits what I'm wearing better, I'll wear one for a bit. The "cups runneth over" look isn't obvious with clothes on over it.




AquaticSub -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 8:43:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

The "cups runneth over" look isn't obvious with clothes on over it.


Perhaps not for you.

For me, it really was. To the point where strangers were letting me know about it. Politely at least but yes, it was.




LaTigresse -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 9:26:16 AM)

I remember my son asking me, many years ago.......if something was wrong with me. All concerned I had cancer and was going to die. Just because of bad bra, boob bulge.

He was so young and innocent, once.........le'sigh.




Mercnbeth -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 1:10:48 PM)

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Merc and beth, thanks for the research :) yet another excuse to not wear a bra!


you are most welcome!!!

this slave has been diagnosed with fybrocystic breast disease and has suffered through two biopsies to date...it is a BLESSING to not be saddled with a direct order, a belief system or an outrageously huge set of breasts that would somehow require this slave to submit to the torture of a bra.




hejira92 -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 1:34:23 PM)

Just to help everyone put this into perspective- after breast cancer and two surgeries for said cancer last year, I'm just glad I HAVE any boob left to fit into a bra. (of which the current cutest is a corset bra from Fredrick's of Hollywood. Thanks to technology, still 34DD thank-you-very-much)




Missokyst -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 1:48:02 PM)

Yep. The bra thing being too small isn't a huge issue.. but my question is still "how the hell is that submission?"
Some bozo wants me to wear a poorly fitting bra, well dang it, I have gone years picking out some bra out of the drawer at the last minute that wasn't a great fit. It did not make me feel sexier having my boobs scrunched any more than it would if my rings were tighter because of bloat.

I still want to know does the OP think its going to make his sub feel as if she is his sub. And if so, does he believe that by having a tightly fitting bra she is going to walk around all day wet and dripping thinking of how wonderful a dominant he was to think of something so erotic.

Meh... I would just adjust, tug, and wait out the time when I could take it off and grab a shower.
On the other hand, if he wanted her to wear a sexy push up bra he bought for her to wear for his pleasure.. that would be hot.


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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

It seems like an awful tizzy over something minor!
I have a couple of bras that are currently too small, that I keep around for weight fluctuations. Occasionally when the ones that fit me are in the laundry, or the cut of one of them suits what I'm wearing better, I'll wear one for a bit.





Cuffkinks -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 1:51:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: hejira92

(of which the current cutest is a corset bra from Fredrick's of Hollywood. Thanks to technology, still 34DD thank-you-very-much)[/color]



No, no...Thank you little girl.




sirsholly -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 1:53:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks


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ORIGINAL: hejira92

(of which the current cutest is a corset bra from Fredrick's of Hollywood. Thanks to technology, still 34DD thank-you-very-much)[/color]



No, no...Thank you little girl.
Awwwww!![:)]




sirsholly -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 2:08:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: switch2please

*wondering how much effort it would take to find a bra that was actually too small for me....* haha [:)]

if you find one...send me the link *sigh*




realtime62 -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 2:50:38 PM)

Hi Missokyst

To answer your question, I enjoy choosing the clothing of my sub, so having her wear ANY kind of clothing that she wouldn't ordinarily wear is part of our dynamic.  Past that, physical restriction and discomfort is a pretty traditional part of bdsm, as is causing pain to our bodies.

Someone suggested I try wearing a jockstrap that is too small.  The reason I would not do this is that I am not a masochist, and so cock and ball torture is not the experience that I nor my sub are looking for, although there are others who would

As I said earlier, this question was asked so that I could learn from people who have breasts about the effects, and it is clear that it would be an unsuccessful experiment.  I'm surprised by the quick hostility that came, but am still glad to have gotten the data.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Yep. The bra thing being too small isn't a huge issue.. but my question is still "how the hell is that submission?"
Some bozo wants me to wear a poorly fitting bra, well dang it, I have gone years picking out some bra out of the drawer at the last minute that wasn't a great fit. It did not make me feel sexier having my boobs scrunched any more than it would if my rings were tighter because of bloat.

I still want to know does the OP think its going to make his sub feel as if she is his sub. And if so, does he believe that by having a tightly fitting bra she is going to walk around all day wet and dripping thinking of how wonderful a dominant he was to think of something so erotic.

Meh... I would just adjust, tug, and wait out the time when I could take it off and grab a shower.
On the other hand, if he wanted her to wear a sexy push up bra he bought for her to wear for his pleasure.. that would be hot.





BalletBob -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 6:22:39 PM)

I am not sure about Female subs, but I would love to be in a bra that was too tight. And if you add Bobby Pins under it, the more the merrier.

Small Boobs and all, sub BalletBob




sleepingbeauty2 -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 6:29:28 PM)

Incredible. I mean. Incredible. WHAT a dumb question. Sorry but it is. You CARE about your sub? seriously guy. If you want to preserve the ladies then don't use poor fitting bras. Bras actually serve a FUNCTION and are not merely there for your amusement.




realtime62 -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 7:01:17 PM)

Was it a dumb question, or an ignorant question?  I admit I'm ignorant of bras and breast support, so I asked so that I could learn before employing anything.  The hostility is unnecessary.

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ORIGINAL: sleepingbeauty2

Incredible. I mean. Incredible. WHAT a dumb question. Sorry but it is. You CARE about your sub? seriously guy. If you want to preserve the ladies then don't use poor fitting bras. Bras actually serve a FUNCTION and are not merely there for your amusement.




sweetboundesire -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 7:59:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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Merc and beth, thanks for the research :) yet another excuse to not wear a bra!


you are most welcome!!!

this slave has been diagnosed with fybrocystic breast disease and has suffered through two biopsies to date...it is a BLESSING to not be saddled with a direct order, a belief system or an outrageously huge set of breasts that would somehow require this slave to submit to the torture of a bra.


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fybrocystic breast disease


beth...looked that up...that blows goats big time...sorry for your suffering. hell us women...to think breast feeding was torture...oh the many ways we can suffer without the hands of a man! my gods...i admire your openness. happy thoughts on what can be the best of a situation like this.




sweetboundesire -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 8:00:31 PM)

oh & OP, your freaky eyed star freaks me out.[:-]




takemeforyourown -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 8:24:15 PM)

I hate bras, but I don't think I can bring myself to stroll around letting my D-cups sag and sway. I have found some very comfortable sports bras but I find myself wearing nasty underwires for more attractive shaping and support. I had heard that underwires were not a healthy choice, but after reading Beth's statistics I'm beginning to think a soft sports bra may be worth it. (even if they aren't so pretty)




itsmeinLV -> RE: Tight bras (4/2/2010 8:39:58 PM)

It's uncomfortable, to say the least.  I don't think it's good support for her breasts either.  If she's a C-cup, wearing an A-cup, then yes, there is a chance it will pop out or the bra may not even fit to begin with.  Not good for the chest cavity either, makes it harder to breath.  :-/




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