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RE: Curious about applications - 4/2/2010 12:24:47 AM

cajingrl

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LA, you are right in what you say....i was basically referring to the ones that require an "application" before you even get to talk to them to see if an "application" needs to be filled out.

thank you for everyone's replies. they are most helpful.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/2/2010 4:08:53 AM

PrimalConsonance

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ORIGINAL: cajingrl

Forgive me if this has already been asked, but, what is it about doms saying that you have to "apply" to talk to them? Are we as subs applying for a job or what????

Can someone please explain this to me. I'm sorry if I have gone about this the wrong way, since this is the first time I have started a thread.

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What you have when this happens, is a stalemate situation. It's really not worth it in my book if you have to apply to someone without really knowing them first. If they were known (and how many does one know publicly and accepting applications?) and advertising for submissives or slaves, then that would be one thing. But if a dom is here online and portraying himself or herself as some self-appointed demi-god of sorts, then with that notion you'd have to accept him/her on what? Faith? Trust? Respect? It doesn't seem likely someone in their right mind would agree to applying under those conditions. If it don't appeal to you, then it's better to move on, since instincts are your best bet. "If it seems to good to be true, then it probably is..." This I see applies.

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RE: Curious about applications - 4/2/2010 4:13:55 AM

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cajingirl, I would answer you but you did not fill out your application in triplicate when you applied to make your post. I therefore decline to bestow my munificent presence upon you.

Sucks, huh?

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