Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Noise or no noise during Play? (4/3/2006 6:40:20 PM)
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From a sub's point of view .. I don't like safewording (unless it was absolutely necessary, in which case you'd hate not to have one). So, for me providing "verbal feedback" to the woman dominating me in the form of moans, gasps, grunts, heavy breathing, etc., is really how I tend to communicate how far she's climbed up my pain threshold and how far she's pushing my limits. Therefore, I try to remain pretty quiet during the lighter portion of any session, and let the verbal reactions start, and build, as the sensations become more intense and/or harder to bear. I know some people provide coded feedback (the "green, yellow, red" cues). I've always thought that sounded forced and artificial. I think it also turns too much control over to the sub-- it's like he's directing traffic and the domme is simply following his directions. "Real" feedback- -the involuntary gasp, groan, yelp-- is much a more authentic indicator. Regards, ATP
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