beej -> RE: I quit smoking & need some help!!!! (4/4/2010 9:38:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP As will small dishes of white vinegar but I can't imagine driving without spilling them. And congratulations on stopping. word on white vinegar. if its your truck/fabric to do with as you will, a spray bottle solution of white vinegar, water, and an essential oil of your choice (2 parts:1 part:10-15 drops) may help you more than febreeze and it would be cheaper. given time to work (and to dry while you aren't there because vinegar does smell like vinegar at first), vinegar will take smells out and not just put perfume in. i'd suggest peppermint oil. additionally, a very small dab of an essential oil near your nose (very small; they are potent!) could keep you smelling something sweet or pleasing no matter what your truck cab smells like. any local vitamin shoppe should have a selection, from peppermint to lavender to rose. i smoked for nine years and quit every year until it finally stuck. when it gets really hard, i suggest that you play mental games with yourself. don't rely on being strong. expect to be weak and anticipate a bottom line to repeat to yourself like a mantra so that you don't have to think about it. as soon as i started thinking, i started negotiating for just one more smoke, and then i was starting all over again. two bottom lines that helped me: it takes weeks to break a habit, so i set a date i my mind like a finish line. even if i didn't make it or i still had cravings then, it helps your brain to relax when it thinks, "i only have to endure this until such-and-so." with a date set, when my addiction receptors were screaming at me, i could say to them, "just wait until [MMdd]. you don't want to smoke; you just want Nic(otine). if Nic wasn't in the cigs, you wouldn't want them. so shut the fuck up." my other bottom line was a story that i'd made up about how Nic(otine) was my abusive ex-boyfriend, and thus no matter how he sweet talked me or said that he was sorry and that this time, it wouldn't be bad, i knew that he was a liar who didn't mean me any good. sounds silly but it helped me because i could call my friend and say, "Nic will not leave me alone. he is working my nerves! he's trying to break me down, but i'm not going back to his ass. he'll kill me in the end." lol, whatever works. good luck!
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