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trueshadow -> RE: A question for male slaves/subs (though all can join in) (7/23/2010 7:57:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MagisterCapto
Now this might just be me, but if you are into something deeply enough consider it a lifestyle, rather then just a bedroom kink, than you shouldn't be ashamed of admitting it. What society, that is people you do not know, and whose opinions have little to no effect on your life, says, regarding a certain lifestyle, shouldn't bother you, as long as you are serious.
The wish to hide something (that is not in serious conflict with federal law) points either towards not having thought something through well enough, or giving too much about other peoples opinions.
(But of course, that is just my perspective, and I'll admit that living by those standards takes a little getting used to.)
I enjoyed reading the responses to my post.
It is easy to say as MagisterCapto does that I should accept my nature and just ignore others. Ah, easier said than done! I do find it easier to admit to my friends in the scene, but even then I would tell them that I was a switch. I guess I had difficulty accepting myself, enjoying submitting to a woman, and serving her.
That I waited years before coming out to my peers in the local Sac community that I was a slave means I lost some great opportunities, I suppose. But society celebrated John Wayne and not someone who dreamed of being a voluntary slave to the Superior Woman.
It has been a struggle, as it goes against virtually everything we've been taught as Americans.
Someone else pointed out, though, that the man who beats a woman, even if she begs him to do so, faces major challenges of his own. Like being arrested for domestic abuse.
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