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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 7:18:01 PM   
dorsaisgirl1


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Status: offline 		no two snowflakes are a like no to people are exactly a like even identical twins. otw just seems silly

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 7:20:37 PM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		 Oh yes OTW - i knew one of them once - Unfortunately He was my first Dom and so i thought what He said was law - but after He sent me on my way (2 weeks later) because i dared to ask Him questions, well OTW went His own way and i went mine, learning there is room here for all of us.

Now the only way i wish to be is as Master desires and He makes His own rules - fortunately He likes and enjoys His sub to have opinions, be silly, even a bit feisty and sassy, and O/our relationship deepens and grows beautifully.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 7:29:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have some fun with the fundies at times especially when they try to save my pagan soul; and kick my ass..... Best laugh I ever had and really tried not to hurt the poor bugger by laughing was when one of them saw my lodge pendent whoch has the Hexegram/Star of David/ Six pointed Star (y'all know what i'm talking about) and told me thet God had personally told him that it was the sigh of the Devil.. In the next breath he tried telling me that God showed him a vision of Heaven with a sweet water creek and a huge supply of the good smoking herb (mary jane)..... I just gave the guy a coffee and sent him on his way........

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 7:50:54 PM   
dorsaisgirl1


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Status: offline 		lol......i guess it's good you have a sence of hummer iron bear

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 8:03:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		awww, man! I haven't heard the term ' fundies ' since the days of the old theological debate rooms on MSN. It brings back some nice memories to hear it.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 8:13:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dorsaisgirl1

lol......i guess it's good you have a sence of hummer iron bear


Thankyou lass... If they are pleasant and I have time, I'll sit and talk to them most times and often we agree to disagree. If the continually get in my face physically and get abusive .......  Grizzlies are known for a short temper and a good right hook... (sitting them on their ass from a reasonable height gently usually works wonders)... One of these days I may even get all evangelical and try to make them Born Again Pagans. Probably wouldn't work but I'd have fun dunking them into a barrel or water and set up a stake with wood piled about it to apease my SoH.... Neets pisses her self laughing at the thought of me in full robes and regalia flapping behind me, and swinging a smoking thurable, chasing some poor fundie down the street trying to "save" him......

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 8:25:11 PM   
BrutalAntipathy


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Status: offline 		I headed the Campus Crusade for Cthulhu here a few years back. Got into a yelling match with the Crusade for Christ group. For the record, they really don't like being told how nonbelievers will spend eternity dissolving in the stomach of a Shoggoth. Ia! Ia! Cthulhu fhtagn!

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 8:38:34 PM   
Moloch


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Status: offline 		Iya Iya Cuthulhu Fhtagn!!!  Yes, messing with fundies is fun!


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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 8:54:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

*Has sudden visions of Chewbacca as a Dom*



Stone the bloody crows mate did you have to do that?????  I just had to clean up the coffee that I sneazed reading that comment.... Cant get rid of Chewbacca and the subby Ewocks....... Or Chewwy collering Lord Vader



roflmao!! Chewbacca wielding a whip!! Vader on his knees groveling. I like it! Better yet, Vader bent over a spanking bench getting his ass beat   Damn you guys for putting these images in my head!  LOL

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 9:15:00 PM   
BrutalAntipathy


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Status: offline 		Vader, strapped to the bench, hears a click and a humm from behind him. With a sudden sinking feeling he remembers that Darth Dominatrix doesn't use a lightsaber.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 9:17:51 PM   
Dorsai


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RE: The One True Way - 4/3/2006 10:41:59 PM   
TeeGO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear
Thankyou lass... If they are pleasant and I have time, I'll sit and talk to them most times and often we agree to disagree. If the continually get in my face physically and get abusive .......  Grizzlies are known for a short temper and a good right hook... (sitting them on their ass from a reasonable height gently usually works wonders)... One of these days I may even get all evangelical and try to make them Born Again Pagans. Probably wouldn't work but I'd have fun dunking them into a barrel or water and set up a stake with wood piled about it to apease my SoH.... Neets pisses her self laughing at the thought of me in full robes and regalia flapping behind me, and swinging a smoking thurable, chasing some poor fundie down the street trying to "save" him......

OK, I have a confession to make. I was a fundy for many years. I was a charismatic, tongue talking, hell fire and brimstone preaching, glory shouting, holy rolling, bible thumping fundamentalist. Fought many a battle online, condemned many a pagan to eternity in hell. If you participated in any of the heated debates, you had run into my type. I was one of those adamant/obnoxious ones that had an answer (no matter how convoluted) to every question.

I had prepared myself to preach the gospel. Had quite a small but loyal following that pressed and pressed me to really launch into my ministry. I just couldn’t do it. My sincerity would not allow it.

The reason? Well, the thing was I had this problem I couldn’t handle. This perversion, this strange lust, this darkness in my soul. I tried to resist this, I prayed and prayed to have this taken away from me. I even fasted 7 days at one time consuming only water in an effort to be rid of this perversion. I just couldn’t shake it. I was sincere, deluded yes, but sincere and that always prevented me from stepping out. I didn’t want to be one of those hypocrites.

I was also an open minded individual. This allowed me to question my faith, see the wrongness there, and finally shed it. It took over ten years to truly and finally get it out of my system.. It was only after this cleansing that the BDSM lifestyle was opened up and offered to me. It was who I was, I always new that. Oh how I hated S&M (as I knew it in those days) for it was the darkness clinging to me in my soul. However, it was the truth.

Funny how the "perversion" conquered the fundamentalism. I get such a kick out of that now.

What would be the ultimate irony would be if I ended up collared to a pagan Mistress.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/4/2006 12:14:06 AM   
dorsaisgirl1


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Status: offline 		the fundys do tourcher themselves .....the guilt they feel for some perceived evil. its hard to love yourself if you think you are evil. it's very sad it is.my mom is mentaly ill she has delusions of grandure and a religuse persucusion complex . growing up with her  was very difficult .she was broght up irash catholic.her father had her so f..ked in the head she thought that she had to kill me becouse haveing me was a sin,sometimes when she gets sick she thinks she's christ. i dont talk to her anymore i do love her and it was difficult cutting ties with her but i had to for my sainity.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/4/2006 12:15:46 AM   
dorsaisgirl1


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Status: offline 		but this is way off the subject

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RE: The One True Way - 4/4/2006 4:24:28 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		That my friendis why on my profile I state that we are a pagan house and although I dont expect slaves to follow our beliefs they need to be very tollerant.. Sheesh the alter is usually working overtime and in full view of all visitors....Certainly turned a couple of possibilities away but better early on that later.. 

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RE: The One True Way - 4/4/2006 4:30:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

<looks around, sips Her coffee and says>--hmmm tolerance and judgement seem to come to mind.
 
quote:

There is only one OTW that is applicable to me and mine.... MY way.... and its ONLY applicable to me and mine. Anything else is mearly opinion and can be taken or ignored as appropriate by the person the opinion is shared with.


I love this statement Raven, for that is how I live My life as well. My opinion about My life is all that matters, I tolerate others, I expect the same--in fact that's one reason I am not popular in the community  here, they are predominantly Dom oriented and I believe that Dominance is gender neutral.

 
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Not popular?  You're following is legion.  And i know i for one listen to what You say.
 
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RE: The One True Way - 4/4/2006 5:06:52 AM   
Reilithion


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Status: offline 		W2g, TeeGO. Way to be like Socrates and doubt those really deep doubts! I live in Utah, and have had some fundy friends, so I know how hard it can be to question one's beliefs. It seems to me that people tend to believe what they prefer to be true, rather than what the available evidence shows to be likely and possible.

Which brings me back to the topic -- maybe this OTW character has very strong feelings about the kind of relationship zie wants to be in. Strong enough that zie can't imagine it being any other way. Zie has simply yet to separate zer own preference for a relationship from what is acceptable and possible.

Simple problem. No easy solutions.

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RE: The One True Way - 4/5/2006 8:27:50 AM   
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Actually, they've been involved in BDSM for almost 9 years and while I understand that feeling strongly about a way of living can make some militant (glances at the Gaza Strip,) those who practice BDSM should be a bit more open minded. What we do is already considered "dysfunction" in society.

And upon finding out more about the couple in question, while they do not claim to be into gor, the Dominant feels most people in this world do not understand that women should be slaves. *Deep Sigh* Guess I'm one of them there "un-natural" women. 

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