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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

I was recently chatting with a CM friend and mentioned how much I admire you and enjoy reading your posts... and that if I were bi, I would me knocking on your door... he replied that if giraffs had knuckles they would be knocking on your door...


... yes, that's another style of flirting, giving a sincere compliment.

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

I was recently chatting with a CM friend and mentioned how much I admire you and enjoy reading your posts... and that if I were bi, I would me knocking on your door... he replied that if giraffs had knuckles they would be knocking on your door...


... yes, that's another style of flirting, giving a sincere compliment.

D'aaaw, jbc-thank you!

I am delighted to be your example (and I've gone bright red). But if you were bi you wouldn't be knocking on my door-I'd already be on the plane coming to see you

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ORIGINAL: divi

I wonder if he just cuts and pastes them and changes the names lol

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

Don't let my sexual orientation stop you...we could have a lovely time seated at a beachfront cafe with a good bottle of Rioja just chatting.

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Beej, I liked your description.

How I flirt depends greatly on the personality of the person and the situation we are in. Flirting is about seduction and telling a woman who has spectacular breasts that everyone compliments to button up her blouse a bit as it is making conversation difficult sets you apart from the leg humpers and tells her you value her as a person. Telling a wall flower how much you would enjoy violating her savagely just might have the same effect.

I was at a club the other night and picked up on a hot young woman. I looked her in the eye oon occassion but didn't lear at her and kept the conversation low key, vanilla and cerbral. Made it clear I was enjoying the conversation and how uncommon that is. Explained what she was watching others do, made a few comments about how I would do it better. As she became interested, I was bold and asked her if she wanted to play but she begged off and I just went back to talking. I knew she wanted to but was nervous and by asking, I showed her I was bolder than the other guys and spoke what was actually on my mind. She knew people wanted her and I made it clear I did too but in a matter of fact sort of way that wasn't leg humpingish.

Finally she just had to try some stuff so I told her to open her legs (being forceful) but tempered it with "only pull your skirt up as far as you want me to spank your thighs" showing her respect and giving her a bit of control. I teased her that if I told her to lift it all the way she would (showing her I could see into her, although in this case it was rather obvious) but that I wasn't "that sort of guy" (half truth) and was just having fun with her, which was true.

As she got more and more turned on, I just kept giving her a bit less than she wanted, I caressed her lips with my fingers and as she opened her mouth, I slid them away, taking a risk, I slapped her face softly...and we both found out at the same time, she enjoys face slapping and a hand wrapped around her tender throat as well.

When I had her to the point where she wanted to spread her legs but I could tell she was nervous about being exposed, we were in the social area. We then went back to a playspace and then I hope I ruined her for anyone else less talented.

I don't flirt casually...

As for what turns me on in flirting? I can't stand bitchy but a bit of spirit really works for me, hard to define the difference but bitchy is, well bitchy, and spirit has a bit of "I am untamed but I am hoping you tame me" in it. Women who can flirt with their eyes really do it for me. I can't define it all but I rarely experience it but when I do...OMFG!

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Beej, I liked your description.

How I flirt depends greatly on the personality of the person and the situation we are in. Flirting is about seduction and telling a woman who has spectacular breasts that everyone compliments to button up her blouse a bit as it is making conversation difficult sets you apart from the leg humpers and tells her you value her as a person. Telling a wall flower how much you would enjoy violating her savagely just might have the same effect.

I was at a club the other night and picked up on a hot young woman. I looked her in the eye oon occassion but didn't lear at her and kept the conversation low key, vanilla and cerbral. Made it clear I was enjoying the conversation and how uncommon that is. Explained what she was watching others do, made a few comments about how I would do it better. As she became interested, I was bold and asked her if she wanted to play but she begged off and I just went back to talking. I knew she wanted to but was nervous and by asking, I showed her I was bolder than the other guys and spoke what was actually on my mind. She knew people wanted her and I made it clear I did too but in a matter of fact sort of way that wasn't leg humpingish.

Finally she just had to try some stuff so I told her to open her legs (being forceful) but tempered it with "only pull your skirt up as far as you want me to spank your thighs" showing her respect and giving her a bit of control. I teased her that if I told her to lift it all the way she would (showing her I could see into her, although in this case it was rather obvious) but that I wasn't "that sort of guy" (half truth) and was just having fun with her, which was true.

As she got more and more turned on, I just kept giving her a bit less than she wanted, I caressed her lips with my fingers and as she opened her mouth, I slid them away, taking a risk, I slapped her face softly...and we both found out at the same time, she enjoys face slapping and a hand wrapped around her tender throat as well.

When I had her to the point where she wanted to spread her legs but I could tell she was nervous about being exposed, we were in the social area. We then went back to a playspace and then I hope I ruined her for anyone else less talented.

I don't flirt casually...

As for what turns me on in flirting? I can't stand bitchy but a bit of spirit really works for me, hard to define the difference but bitchy is, well bitchy, and spirit has a bit of "I am untamed but I am hoping you tame me" in it. Women who can flirt with their eyes really do it for me. I can't define it all but I rarely experience it but when I do...OMFG!

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

See, I've got this one sussed-I'm not much of a flirt in the 'insert flirtatious witty line here' stye of flirting, but I smile at *everyone*, and touch people's forearms a lot, and I wink, and I say 'Oh, really?' whenever someone says something that could be innapropriately misconstrued.