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DesFIP -> RE: BDSM during business trip (4/24/2010 3:59:53 AM)

I get the feeling that by open minded you mean easy sex partners. We're people, we prefer play and sex inside a relationship where there is intimacy and not just two bodies touching. You want somebody to do you? Hire a pro. For anything else you need to become friends at the minimum. Because all you're offering is the opportunity for someone to jump when you call them for a booty call. Are you going to be there to help when their car breaks down? To take them to the hospital when very ill? To be a friend in any way? Hell no.



sunshinemiss -> RE: BDSM during business trip (4/24/2010 6:06:48 AM)

Hello Vesh,
Since you travel internationally, it can be really hard to get close to people. I'd be careful in a place like China. Even in more open places it can be iffy. Sounds like you do want something casual, and that's cool as long as you are clear about what you want. One thing I've found helpful is to do a search on here for the area I will be in and then write to another woman. The men will be willing to tell me where THEY will be but not where I can find other folks. So, I usually write a pretty mellow note to a gal, asking for some advice in that area. I've had good luck that way.

And there's always Craig's List if you want really casual.

Best and good luck.
sunshine



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