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DrkJourney -> RE: a pretender Domme! (4/6/2010 9:55:00 PM)
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I haven't read the posts, (stupid phone keep ringing...lol), I just read yours so far, so I just thought I would reply blindly, as it were... so not sure if what I'm about to say is popular or not, and I'm not saying this to disagree with you, I wasn't there, but....I'm guessing if I met you, you would think I was a pretender too.
You at least liked the way she dressed, although you said it was a red flag....I would've just dressed in a normal fashion appropriate to where we were meeting. Another red flag you saw; she was polite and asked you if it was ok that she go back to the place you and your Master share. You are the woman of the house and not collared by her...I would've wanted verification from both parties as well.
As for the inspection....I would've politely watched and commented while he showed you off, for the same reason I wouldn't walk over and grab the keys to someone's car, get in and drive, just because he was showing me his great paint job and details that he had added....it's not my property, and at this point I don't know either of you.
As far as the whip goes....I have been doing this since I was around 20 and on the fringes when I was a teen, I have loads of experience in giving whippings, spankings, etc., I use crops, canes, belts, hairbrushes, etc., but I never use I whip, I don't like them. Granted, if she did not know how to use one she should've said something, maybe it was pressure from you and your Master and she felt she had to prove herself, I don't know...but I don't think I would count her as fake just because she had no experience with a whip. I have zero with whips, but loads with other instruments, and I would take great offense if you came on the boards and claimed that I was a pretender.
Personally, I would never allow my submissive to participate in the manner that you did, unless I had given him permission, especially when that lady only gave your Master permission and not you. I really don't understand that part of the story...but that's just my perference...not saying anyone was wrong.
Any whooo...from what I read she could've just had a different style, or maybe it was her first meeting in that fashion, or maybe she was just nervous in general...sometime it takes people a time period of knowing someone before they can really be themselves.
I know this was supposed to be a joke thread, by what you wrote in your closing lines, and I hope I don't get slammed by all too much, but I'm just saying don't jump to conclusions, she could be everything she say she is, just not your style...or maybe she was just having an off night.
I hope you and your Master have great success on your new journey. At least give her credit for giving you that...lol
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