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dananddawn -> This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 4:11:02 AM)

What is the most difficult BDSM skill to master?

I would guess single tails...

(Note: Not relationship skill, but BDSM skill)




Focus50 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:03:02 AM)

Finding a compatible partner....?

Focus.




SomethingCatchy -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:07:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

Finding a compatible partner....?

Focus.



I found one within a few months of joining this website when I wasn't even looking for him.

Is it really that hard?

(this is just a joke)




sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:27:53 AM)

Proper Grammar.




Aileen1968 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:29:35 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Proper Grammar.


Ha. The first thing that came to my mind was typing skills.




sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:33:35 AM)

[sm=oddballs.gif]




Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:43:36 AM)

How to be bitches.

As you can see..some have it down pat.[:D]




Missokyst -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:47:24 AM)

That's probably one of the easier skills.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

How to be bitches.

As you can see..some have it down pat.[:D]






Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:49:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

That's probably one of the easier skills.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

How to be bitches.

As you can see..some have it down pat.[:D]




[:D] Your right there.




Missokyst -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:50:56 AM)

As far as skills go, single tails are not so bad, at least not the way most people use them. The thing I find most tedious, time consuming and that requires patience and skill is decorative bondage.




sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:51:20 AM)

Oh get over yourself Icarys.

The whole knight, white horse thing doesn't play well. Secondly, if a guy can't take a bit of sassy wenchedness, then what kind of guy is he? Besides, who wants to be around a guy who can't laugh at his own foibles? I sure wouldn't.





PrimalConsonance -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:53:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dananddawn

What is the most difficult BDSM skill to master?

I would guess single tails...

(Note: Not relationship skill, but BDSM skill)


That is a very good question, but I feel that the answer is subjective to the individual based on the personal skill-sets that one possesses.  I would say that for some, they may have an aptitude with excellent eye-hand coordination; and so something like a flogger or single-tail may come almost naturally.  But that same person may not find that rope is something near overwhelming...the right tension for suspension play, or the proper knot that doesn't slip and cut off circulation, or create permanent nerve damage.  Some people can look at rope, and the way their mind is wired, sees it as logical and easy as the back of their hand.  Or you may find that person who thinks that fire or electrical play is interesting but risky play that they may have some personal stigma that is getting in the way of being comfortable with it all. 

I think it's how one is wired that would dictate what comes naturally or easy, and what may be harder to master. 




Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:55:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Oh get over yourself Icarys.

The whole knight, white horse thing doesn't play well. Secondly, if a guy can't take a bit of sassy wenchedness, then what kind of guy is he? Besides, who wants to be around a guy who can't laugh at his own foibles? I sure wouldn't.



Close that pie hole already and grow up.




divi -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:55:59 AM)

Are short or fat people supposed to be jolly ?




lusciouslips19 -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:57:42 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Oh get over yourself Icarys.

The whole knight, white horse thing doesn't play well. Secondly, if a guy can't take a bit of sassy wenchedness, then what kind of guy is he? Besides, who wants to be around a guy who can't laugh at his own foibles? I sure wouldn't.



Close that pie hole already and grow up.



So ungentlemanly in behavior. Tsk tsk.




Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:58:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

Are short or fat people supposed to be jolly ?


You've got about as much wit as a second grader. lol

That's about the 5th time you've used that cut-down in a row.[:D]




divi -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 5:59:43 AM)

Short jokes are like the color  black ....classic

btw you never answered me.. how many phone books are you sitting on now to see me type ?




Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 6:00:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Oh get over yourself Icarys.

The whole knight, white horse thing doesn't play well. Secondly, if a guy can't take a bit of sassy wenchedness, then what kind of guy is he? Besides, who wants to be around a guy who can't laugh at his own foibles? I sure wouldn't.



Close that pie hole already and grow up.



So ungentlemanly in behavior. Tsk tsk.

I'm not gentleman..That's for sure. Coming from a female with her ass in the wind ...for some reason that doesn't set me off so much..Go figure.




sunshinemiss -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 6:01:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Oh get over yourself Icarys.

The whole knight, white horse thing doesn't play well. Secondly, if a guy can't take a bit of sassy wenchedness, then what kind of guy is he? Besides, who wants to be around a guy who can't laugh at his own foibles? I sure wouldn't.



Close that pie hole already and grow up.



I rest my case.

To the OP:
Everybody has different abilities and things they are good at. As long as folks are safe, the mastering of a skill isn't necessarily the most important thing. Hitting a target when you are using wax (generally speaking) is not quite as important as hitting a target with a bull whip. In some instances, good enough is good enough.

ymmv... and welcome to the boards.


*eta: wee typo




Icarys -> RE: This is way to difficult (4/7/2010 6:01:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

Short jokes are like the color  black ....classic

btw you never answered me.. how many phone books are you sitting on now to see me type ?

Don't make me knock you unconscious with one of them.(Yes yes it's two)




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