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Icarys -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 12:56:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: divi


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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can you give yourself a hummer ??


Yes I can but I'd need more than two phone books to reach it.


Aww I like how you recycle my jokes... not only are you short but you're green ..

More then 3 then ?

I figured you use them on a regular basis so they're used to getting recycled.




Icarys -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 12:58:56 PM)

On a side note: I keep stacking phone books and it keeps getting further away.I can't seem to reach it. You'd think an extra book plus my 2'2 height would make so I could reach it..(Scratches noggin)




divi -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 1:00:29 PM)

Take a pic I'd like to see that !




Icarys -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 1:03:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: divi

Take a pic I'd like to see that !

Show me that gagina first..Actually first I'd like to see your ID..Then maybe the shot.




kdsub -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 4:36:07 PM)

Perhaps rather than changing you are just finding your true self.

Butch




Jeffff -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 4:38:39 PM)

My true self is a smart ass,sadistic, goofball with a dash of prick......maybe 2 dashes


What do ya think?




Aileen1968 -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:02:24 PM)

You forgot spelling bee champ!




Jeffff -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:05:46 PM)

Yes I did.

But I don't need spell check to call you a........cunt!




kdsub -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:09:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

My true self is a smart ass,sadistic, goofball with a dash of prick......maybe 2 dashes


What do ya think?


nah... you’re just a sensitive shy guy pushing your glasses up your nose between words....join the club




LadyAngelika -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:17:08 PM)

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To be candid, I feel like posting here is helping me clarify a number of things in my own head simply because it's the only place I tend to interact socially with other people whose interests and kinks flourish in the same hedgerow as my own. 


This has been my experience as well. I have very few kink friends off these boards.

- LA




marie2 -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:18:14 PM)

On the positive side, I've become a bit more open-minded and more accepting of things that I might have judged a few yrs ago. On the negative side, I definitely am less apt to attempt a serious conversation or debate on here. I don't engage in marathon 3-day arguments anymore. Now I'm quick and to-the-point; more of a drive-by kinda thing, then I move on and let the asshole du jour spin on their own.




Jeffff -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:37:38 PM)

You are pretty cool.

Don't tell folks I said that.

Bring the shoes!




pahunkboy -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 5:45:58 PM)

Yeah Marie-

Bring any shoes you have.  Jefff will polish em up in a jiffy for ya!!




marie2 -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 6:21:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

Yeah Marie-

Bring any shoes you have.  Jefff will polish em up in a jiffy for ya!!




He's such a good boy like that.




subtee -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 6:32:02 PM)

Marie, Jeffff would like you to show up and bring the shoes.

Are you aware of this?




marie2 -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 7:15:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subtee

Marie, Jeffff would like you to show up and bring the shoes.

Are you aware of this?



No way!




domiguy -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 7:16:48 PM)

I want to poo on them




Lockit -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 7:19:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I want to poo on them


You do poo on them... but then so do most of us at some point. You just have more poo! [:D]




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 8:08:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Hello everyone,

As often happens, another thread has me wondering and thinking.

Having been on these threads for about 3 years now (the first little bit under a different name), I've noticed certain things have changed about me in real life. In the past I often would not argue until it got to the point where I felt like I was a cornered animal - and then I was pretty angry and desperate. I also was scared of rejection. I often thought things like "why would anyone want to talk to ME? I'm just not good enough."

I notice now that I don't do those things - not as much anyway.

Here are some things that I've noticed have changed about me:

I have become much more open about the negative aspects of my life and personality.
I flirt for the joy of flirting without any expectations.
I'm more willing to disagree with someone without fear.
I still generally maintain a fairly neutal manner and don't attack people.
I used to empathize with the "poor me" types. Now I call foul on them. And ooo does it irritate people!
I've become a lot more curious and a lot less defensive when disagreeing with people.
I'm more realistic about how things can come back and bite me in the ass and prepare myself and protect myself when possible.
I tease people a lot more.
I ask for what I want, knowing that I have every right to ask.

I don't think the boards are the be all and end all of why this has happened. I had to be ready to make the changes, I had to be in a safe place to make them. I had to choose to make them. But I do believe that to some degree the culture we are in (in this case the internet boards) has an impact on how we experience our worlds and our inner lives.

So the question to you

Has being on the boards changed or refined some part of your personality? Has it made a real difference in how you interact in the world around you (not just the boards)?

How? Is it a change you see for the better?

Can you give an example of something that has changed?

Are there things you've seen changes in other people that inspired or impressed you?

Best,
sunshine


Okay...had you asked a very simple question...I could have dealt with that but....this is far too complex!




sweetboundesire -> RE: Have the boards changed you? (4/14/2010 8:24:50 PM)

it's certainly helped me understand the love of D/s and bdsm to be here. There is a broad spectrum of people and types with different needs and desires. I've definitely learned by being here. I do only read the topics which are of interest to me though. And just as beneficial or more than the messageboards, I find talking with people one on one privately of great value. I gain not only friendship but a great deal of insight. There are some very wonderful subs and a few Doms I have met and learned a great deal from. I find a place like this of a tremendous value to not only gauge feelings on subjects but to help figure things out for myself.




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