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DarkSteven -> RE: What to do... (4/15/2010 3:01:02 AM)
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To be brutally honest, OP, I suspect that the real problem may be communication. Your first post was "What to do when your Dominant is acting like a dick?" Not very enlightening, consisting on your subjective take on an unexplained behavior. You were asking us to comment on his behavior while accepting your viewpoint.
Your second post "It hasn't been a regular occurrence, though it does seem to be happening a bit more often these days. I'm amazed at what happens to a man when a cute little girl bats her eyelashes just right." made me think that the issue was your jealousy when he looked at other women. I was confused because your profile made it clear that you wanted a poly relationship, and you would need to address this. When I commented that you needed to discuss this with him, you responded "I've tried multiple times to have that conversation with him.... and then it all goes out the window..." which sounded like he agreed to do things and then didn't do them. That sent loads of red flags to me.
Your last post was "I'm not upset that he's looking at other girls or even that he's interested in other girls. ".
So you have made four posts here, and at the end of them I have no clue what behavior of his is bothering you. You have stated that it is other women, and then it isn't other women.
I suspect that you communicate like this with him, in which case he either is agreeing to one thing while you think he's agreeing with another, or that he has no clue what you're saying and is simply agreeing with you to end the conversation.
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