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ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

when your Dominant is acting like a dick?

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I suspect that you communicate like this with him, in which case he either is agreeing to one thing while you think he's agreeing with another, or that he has no clue what you're saying and is simply agreeing with you to end the conversation.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I'm so confused!

*ah vinnie barbarino always knew what to say*

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ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

I just think there is more here than is being said. The OP seems unclear at whats actualy wrong besides she feels her Dominant is acting like a "dick". Each post offering advise is met with a new scenerio. I strongly suspect she is upset at his being interested in other females regardless of her claim of being in a polly relationship. Also, calling the person your in a relationship with a dick in public like this is just awful! It's no wonder there are issues in the relationhship.

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ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

Aquatic and Steven,

I certainly will take that under consideration.

To everyone else, yes, you're right I was very upset with him at the time that I posted and yet at the same time had no desire to air all of my dirt laundry on a public forum.

To be succinct, the problem isn't with other girls or his interest in them but rather that there is a lot of "telling people what they want to hear" going around and it is both confusing and hurtful to me. Attempts to discuss my concerns have turned into heated arguments which turn into promises of more effort and better behavior on both sides that are then summarily tossed out the window when it seems that the effort is in direct conflict with "having fun".

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ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

Aquatic and Steven,

I certainly will take that under consideration.

To everyone else, yes, you're right I was very upset with him at the time that I posted and yet at the same time had no desire to air all of my dirt laundry on a public forum.

To be succinct, the problem isn't with other girls or his interest in them but rather that there is a lot of "telling people what they want to hear" going around and it is both confusing and hurtful to me. Attempts to discuss my concerns have turned into heated arguments which turn into promises of more effort and better behavior on both sides that are then summarily tossed out the window when it seems that the effort is in direct conflict with "having fun".

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ORIGINAL: poeticfreak

I can understand the desire not to air ones dirty laundry, but to get good advice or just some commiseration I'm afraid you're going to have to be a little less vague.  I don't know about anyone else in this thread but i still have no clue what's actually the problem let alone what i might have to say about it

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ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

Aquatic and Steven,

I certainly will take that under consideration.

To everyone else, yes, you're right I was very upset with him at the time that I posted and yet at the same time had no desire to air all of my dirt laundry on a public forum.

To be succinct, the problem isn't with other girls or his interest in them but rather that there is a lot of "telling people what they want to hear" going around and it is both confusing and hurtful to me. Attempts to discuss my concerns have turned into heated arguments which turn into promises of more effort and better behavior on both sides that are then summarily tossed out the window when it seems that the effort is in direct conflict with "having fun".

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ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

Aquatic and Steven,

I certainly will take that under consideration.

To everyone else, yes, you're right I was very upset with him at the time that I posted and yet at the same time had no desire to air all of my dirt laundry on a public forum.

To be succinct, the problem isn't with other girls or his interest in them but rather that there is a lot of "telling people what they want to hear" going around and it is both confusing and hurtful to me. Attempts to discuss my concerns have turned into heated arguments which turn into promises of more effort and better behavior on both sides that are then summarily tossed out the window when it seems that the effort is in direct conflict with "having fun".