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Real0ne -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 11:48:20 AM)
Ok i will admit it! i could not bring myself to actually say it however! LOL quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn good point. they do look more like udders, don't they? quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn Unless we want to bash Perky Tits some more, in which case I'm all for it <g> Hey i would never bash perky titties, granted they arent sloppy enough to throw over her shoulders, (yet), but they are not perky either in my opinion.

Arpig -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 11:55:57 AM)
Golly Tigress, (and countess as well), i could have used your posts a while back. i am glad to see that I am not alone in thinking the way i do.

Real0ne -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:09:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadySeraphina Oh certainly I'm in the industry. I only mention clients because I'm having a great deal of trouble making the young men (and not-so-young men) understand that I already HAVE a wonderful boy in my life, thank-you-very-much. Lady S Ah the only reason! money has nothing to do with it! you are to generous!

Your Queen -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:14:39 PM)
quote: it is really pretty dumb to try to equate it to nursing just because some of the duties can be described in a similar manner. Have you been either a nurse or a pro domme?

michaelGA -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:22:48 PM)
Maybe the CollarMe people can make a sister site for these people...call it something like' PayMe.com...LOL

petwolf22 -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:30:21 PM)
i'm still trying to figure out where in the forums (beyond the intros and the services for sale sections), the pro domme's write anything about insisting people pay for their services or advertising themselves. There may be a few, but there certainly isn't a plethora of that on the message boards. The only times i've really seen them talk about themselves, is when someone starts a bitchfest like this about them being here. Unless maybe i missed something?

Loraith -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:36:43 PM)
Considering how far off topic this thread has wandered, I haven't bothered reading all the replies, but I have seen a few that have prompted me to post. They are not dealing with the original post, but instead on one of the tangents it has seemed to digressed into. It is my opinion, and after seeing it happen before here, I hope others refrain from posting a response in retaliation that paints me as dumb, or worse, for expressing my own views or opinions. We all have that right, and no one should ridicule another for doing so if they expect to be able to do the same. I find it highly amusing how much conviction and effort is put into trying to force your own idea and interpretation onto someone else. In this lifestyle, we should be well aware that there are many varying views and beliefs, and none of them are wrong, just wrong for the particular person. I freely admit that I am a sadist. I enjoy inflicting pain upon my slave - I get a huge amount of pleasure and satisfaction from doing so, both sexually and psychological. In the vanilla world, I would be called an abuser. People in the lifestyle would argue otherwise. It is a matter of perspective and opinion. Are either right or wrong? Yes, to both. When you take away all the nicities of consent and her desire for it, I am an abuser. I have to be if you want to call a spade a spade. The physical acts are the same, inflicting pain on another. On the flip side of the coin, we in the lifestyle would view it as acceptable behavior between me and my slave based upon our mutual consent. To us in the lifestyle, that would be calling a spade a spade. Both views and interpretations are correct, depending on which side of the argument you're on. Considering this, why would someone feel the need to push their view of whether a Pro-Domme is a whore or not on those who don't think they are? Isn't the concept the same? It all depends on which side you're on, and it is neither right nor wrong depending upon the person. If we want to be able to have our own opinions without having others' opinions pushed upon us, then shouldn't we all extend the same courtesy to others? What something is to one isn't necessarily the same for another. Just my two cents and my version of calling a spade a spade.

michaelGA -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:41:49 PM)
right or wrong...hooker or not...i still think there's a place for them...but not here...my two cents worth

Loraith -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:48:13 PM)
Isn't it a good thing that it doesn't boil down to one persons opinion, otherwise a lot of us may not be here.[;)] Everyone is entitled to their two cents. Have a good one, everyone.

amayos -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:49:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig I really don't understand why some people find the concept so hard to grasp, it is really very simple. I believe that what complicates the matter is the simple fact that prostitution is illegal in most areas of the United States. If a Pro Domme is likened to "prostitute" she essentially has two strikes against her; one is the inherent scandal of being an enthusiast of "ungod-like deviant and immoral prurience", and the other that of being a prostitute. One accusation is defendable legally and socially through the diffusion of activism and education, but the other (thus far) in our enlightened Western world is not. The fact that a Pro Domme is essentially a "sex worker" of a type is technically understood by many in the BDSM sub-culture, but left unspoken of for obvious reasons of opacity against law enforcement. We need to keep in mind that not all "pros" are the same, however; some are merely amoral parasites who feed off of the deviant interests of others, some may be escorts who offer a sprinkle of kink in their craft, while yet others are highly educated lifestylers who may be activists or even celebrated minds in the BDSM milieu. One Pro I knew of even taught human sexuality courses in college. I think the key thing here is respect. Labeling all these women as "whores" is a broad and negatively connotative smear. It shows a level of judgment that's questionable, in my mind.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:49:53 PM)
No, you're not allowed to mention finacial domination, Being a pro is and always has been allowed quote: ORIGINAL: SirKenin Last I knew, you were not allowed to have anything about being a pro in your profile.

PrettyNYkitten -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 12:56:32 PM)
Sighs deeply. This "mental toast" of whom you speak attended New York University on a Regents Scholarship and an NYC scholarship which was given to me because of my academic abilitities. Before I became a prodomme and a personal trainer, I spent eight years teaching English literature to young students. After completely a Master's degree in English literature, I pursued another Master's degree, this one in Counseling Psychology. At this point in my life, I am very happy to have changed careers, and I enjoy helping people improve their health and fitness as a Personal Trainer. I have a great deal of fun during my prodomme sessions, and I follow the precepts of RACK. Have fun.... Caitlin

PrettyNYkitten -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:10:43 PM)
This is typical answer from a very overweight woman. There are people who can help you control your weight, and overweight is a risk factor for Coronary Heart Disease, as well as a host of other ailments, including high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and certain cancers. It increases the likelihood of hernias, hemorrhoids, gallbladder disease, varicose veins, and makes breathing more difficult. Overweight and obese people are hospitalized more frequently than are people of average weight, and they have more surgical complications. Overweight and obesity are a very serious problem in our society, and some have suggested it is an epidemic. My other question is: "How can a person dominate another if he or she cannot take control of his or her own health?" To me, part of domination is helping your submissive to become a better person. Regards, Caitlin www.domina.ms/Caitlin

ModeratorEleven -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:22:16 PM)
Folks, please keep the comments out of the insult category or we're going to have to start pruning in here. This is not a drill. XI

truesub4u -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:33:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrettyNYkitten This is typical answer from a very overweight woman. There are people who can help you control your weight, and overweight is a risk factor for Coronary Heart Disease, as well as a host of other ailments, including high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and certain cancers. It increases the likelihood of hernias, hemorrhoids, gallbladder disease, varicose veins, and makes breathing more difficult. Overweight and obese people are hospitalized more frequently than are people of average weight, and they have more surgical complications. Overweight and obesity are a very serious problem in our society, and some have suggested it is an epidemic. My other question is: "How can a person dominate another if he or she cannot take control of his or her own health?" To me, part of domination is helping your submissive to become a better person. Regards, Caitlin www.domina.ms/Caitlin Gee i'm over weight and got none of the problems... even had surgery last week and no complication from it either. Reason for surgery.. something pass to me by my natural father... that had to be taken care of. Got nothing to do with being overweight. Here is what people like you... think they know it all about other people.. and has got not one damn thing to do with being a Pro Dom or pro Domme. Another I know it all that don't know shit but what they read in little pamplets in the plastic surgeon office.

MzPam -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:34:03 PM)
wow so because I am over weight I can't take control over My slaves/subs ? what does weight have to do with it ?? Does this also mean because My slave is a skinny boy he can't serve Me as a slave ? Just can't help Myself some times off to find the twinkies :) I know boy has some somewhere

Real0ne -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:34:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrettyNYkitten Sighs deeply. This "mental toast" of whom you speak attended New York University on a Regents Scholarship and an NYC scholarship which was given to me because of my academic abilitities. Before I became a prodomme and a personal trainer, I spent eight years teaching English literature to young students. After completely a Master's degree in English literature, I pursued another Master's degree, this one in Counseling Psychology. Have fun.... Caitlin What i would like to know is exactly who do you expect to believe all this after that grandiose, pompuos, and immature entrance you made in your previous posts? business a little slow maybe?

PrettyNYkitten -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:46:49 PM)
True Sub, I am a trained certified personal trainer, and I am currently doing my continuing education on Exercise and Obesity. Trust me, as you get older, some of these ailments may come your way. However, if you read carefully, overweight and obesity are very high risk factors for heart disease, diabetes and so on. The key word is "risk."

Real0ne -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:47:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA right or wrong...hooker or not...i still think there's a place for them...but not here...my two cents worth to me no one wants to see people they are not interested in. as a rule: male doms are not seeking male doms for partners female dommes are not seeking female dommes for partners male subs are not seeking male subs for partners female doms are not seeking female doms for partners lesbians are not seeking male anythings for partners straights are not seeking gay for partners lastly lifestylers are not seeking pro dommes for partners and there are catagories for them to select. there are not for pro dommes. that is one thing that can be done so we can all share the same site in peace. Now cm did have in their proposed release a "dont want to see tag" so you could hide people you did not want to see regarless of what they are. i have no idea where they are with this or if they even plan on launching it at all but it certainly would be a benificial addition to the site imo.

PrettyNYkitten -> RE: What is the Deal with all the Pro's (4/6/2006 1:47:55 PM)
Mz Pam, You would be helping yourself a great deal if you lost weight. Good luck. Regards, Caitlin

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