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RE: Punishment through pleasure - 5/31/2010 7:57:09 PM

kazahleenah

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ORIGINAL: Threefingers

I regard a woman whom is screaming and begging not to be forced to cum again as someone also receiving a punishment. Denying orgasm could be punishment especially when allowed to "edge" multiple times before not granting the orgasm.

Had that done to me once... for HOURS! It was punishment for sneaking a lil unasked for "one on none time". I got caught, and was strapped down and made to orgasm WAY past when I was begging (and I don't usually beg well, but I sure was then!) him to stop. Yes it was "pleasure" but omg was it punishment as well. That punishment certinally did fit the crime, and I never did it again!

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RE: Punishment through pleasure - 5/31/2010 8:34:43 PM

porcelaine

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Threefingers,

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I regard a woman whom is screaming and begging not to be forced to cum again as someone also receiving a punishment. Denying orgasm could be punishment especially when allowed to "edge" multiple times before not granting the orgasm.

I view punishment in its corrective sense. It is behavior modification in my mind. The only association I would have in the manner mentioned if I engaged in release without his knowledge or permission. Otherwise it merely orgasm denial - a control he has by right of his ownership in my opinion. I have no negative associations with that at all.

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RE: Punishment through pleasure - 5/31/2010 8:45:45 PM

Missokyst

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I am still a bit confused. I think if I did something bad enough to warrant punishment and you used sexual stimulation to rid me of that bad event I would start to view fun, pleasure, and the relationship between good and bad as something confusing. Do you perfer that your sub learns bad behavior so you can punish her in this fashion?

Why not give pleasure for pleasure?

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ORIGINAL: Threefingers

Indeed you are right. Clarification is a wonderful thing and as you point out rightly seems to work as well.

Thank you for responding though. I am sure that everyones feelings on this will differ the same as with most things in life. What works for one does not necessarily work for the next.

The point of edging is purely building up the orgasm, getting the sub closer and closer to a point where it is repeatedly denied. This can be done in conjunction with a sub receiving spanking / verbal humiliation.

As you rightly point out there is numerous ways of punishing a sub. I was merely looking for others views on the possibility of trying a different way. if the general consensus is that different equals bad. Then so be it.

Thank you to everyone so far for the input.