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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 9:53:03 PM   
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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 10:13:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

To the op:
Regarding this whole, we don't have a life thing...

quote:


In the two ish years I've been on this site, I have met 2 lovers, a number of couples, and dozens of friends on this site. I have attended 2 weddings of people who met here, I have talked with two women going through breast cancer, met and now regularly chat with the most darling son of a wonderful woman from here, fallen in lust at least 12 dozen times, received and sent gifts, holiday cards, and help from a good 30 people on this site. I sleep in a t-shirt from one of my friends on this site, I am getting 2 letters of recommendation from people I met on this site, I've met people during layovers from this site, and I have shared endless hours of fabulous conversations with men and women on here. Hell I have met people on other continents from this website!


That is my own post from a bit ago. You see we DO have "a life"... each of us. We know that relationships are more than mere words and demands. I have spent many evenings in the company of the lovely DV (Vampires Lair above) and her submissive husband. They've come to my home for dinner, met my family, gone for a walk with me and my dogs. I've gone out to take photos with them, helped them with their wedding, and played with their cute bunny rabbit after having a great dinner that DV made. I have had similar experiences with many people on here - why? Because they are my FRIENDS. Are all my friends lifestyle? Of course not. I have a wonderfully healthy mix of people of all ages, races, proclivities in my life. Why? Because I have a life.

Yes, some on here may be kinky, but not necessarily all btw... but we are all real people. The internet is an amazing resource for any number of things, but it is like walking into a party. Would you go up to a stranger and say what you posted? One would hope not. It is easy for people to forget that there are other people on the other side of the screen.

There are websites where your behavior would have been appropriate. The norms of THIS website tend to be a bit more... let's call it ... real world-esque. I have found that in new situations, it is best for me to take a look around, assess the situation, learn the basic norms, and then dive in. Less negative response that way.

As I stated (in the first response to your post) good luck in your search. By the way, I noticed you did not respond to that. Why would that be? Ahhhh well, don't worry, I've been around the block a time or two and know the answer. I wonder if you do.

Best,
sunshine


Thats great. Im glad you have friends now. I really don't need anymore. This place is supplemental to my life. I have enough weddings to go to with the friends I already have. I personally don't like weddings. Maybe I would if I drank..but i don't.
This is just another way for me to get off, nothing more. And you know what? You guys need to get some perspective, because that's all this is, a way to get off. Its kink. At the end of the day, its about intensifiying sexual pleasure. Im no newbie btw, I have been in the scene for 7 years, had some very neat experiences. But the way some of you get soooo into this with your gatherings, and your crazy costumes, your pimped out BDSM basements, your "Master such n such"....I swear some of you think your living in Star Wars or something,lol!. "Oh, this is a lifestyle...Oh we're lifestyle" ugh... Its about friggin sexual pleasure! Some of you need a wake up call. This is fun, this is NOT an identity. So many of you are like Method Actors...you dont break character.
Oh I can hear the whiney voices already. "Oh he doesn't get it..hes not lifestyle" lol
If this is an outlet to identify with people then, you need to check yourself socially. I also notice, and there are exceptions, that there is a proportional concurrent relation to how "lifestyle" you are and how much you weigh.
Hey, heres a tip for all the "hardcore lifestylers."..drop that 75lbs and maybe you can actually get laid by normal people once and awhile and save yourself hundreds of dollars on whips, chains, cages, props, and renovations on parts of your house. ;)

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 10:29:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VampiresLair

He he he he he he he... Poor Fox just facepalmed and apologizes for this guy. However, he is making a lot of the other guys look like much better prospects, so post away bucko!

If you are so worried about this being an intro, why did you tell us Dommes we were bad at this? You still havent mentioned that part. 





Because, they were basicly saying "Im not telling you your small so you can get off. Your normal". Why say anything at all then? Because its feminist brainwashing. They look for any opportunity to make men look like "sexual leaches". They might not even know they are fems

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 10:31:04 PM   
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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 10:59:52 PM   
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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 11:36:06 PM   
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His thread title says 'I deserve humiliation'.

Yup, job done!

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 11:53:10 PM   
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Even G*d needed a day off... I'll go with that.


Can someone lend me the shoes so I can get ready? Thank you.

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/16/2010 11:58:37 PM   
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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 12:18:56 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Thats great. Im glad you have friends now. I really don't need anymore. This place is supplemental to my life. I have enough weddings to go to with the friends I already have. I personally don't like weddings. Maybe I would if I drank.. And you know what? You guys need to get some perspective, because that's all this is, a way to get off. Its kink. At the end of the day, its about intensifiying sexual pleasure. Im no newbie btw, I have been in the scene for 7 years, had some very neat experiences.


It would seem that you like to keep your life separated and that your sexuality is one of those things. That's cool. A lot of folks over here (on the boards) tend to take a more integrated approach. Neither is right or wrong. They are just different perspectives. (and just for a point of clarification, there was not really a lot of drinking at either wedding I went to... a couple of champagne toasts, but all in all fairly calm events).

quote:

But the way some of you get soooo into this with your gatherings, and your crazy costumes, your pimped out BDSM basements, your "Master such n such"....I swear some of you think your living in Star Wars or something,lol!. "Oh, this is a lifestyle...Oh we're lifestyle" ugh... Its about friggin sexual pleasure! Some of you need a wake up call. This is fun, this is NOT an identity. So many of you are like Method Actors...you dont break character.
Oh I can hear the whiney voices already. "Oh he doesn't get it..hes not lifestyle" lol


There was a time I went to gatherings, had crazy costumes and did the ooey gooey passive girl thing. Except for one recent debacle, that was quite some time ago (as in twenty years). I like to think I've become a woman in that time and no longer need trappings. *This is not to say that I don't have a sexy piece of lingerie or two, but it's wonderful what a simple t-shirt with his scent can do ... For YOU it is not an identity. In fact, your statement (This is fun, this is NOT an identity) gave me pause. Is this how *I* identify? I'd never really thought about it, so I did - think about it that is... I'm going to say no to that... this is NOT how I identify. There are a number of people here who I believe would say that it is their identity, others that would call it closer to a personality trait, but yes there are some people who consider wiitwd to be just for fun, rather similar to what your perspective seems to be. I can think of three people right off the bat that would agree wtih that statement. All three of those people post on these boards.

quote:


If this is an outlet to identify with people then, you need to check yourself socially.


Since you responded to me, and I'm not sure where your note to me personally ends and the "you" as in "all you people" begins, I'm going to respond. There are people who have difficulties identifying with others socially, and yes, some of them are here. I am not one of them. I am something of a social butterfly. I happily flit from group to group and have friends of every stripe and polka dot... I suppose there are even some argyles out there - but let's not bring the Scots into this, eh? There will be girls swooning to and fro from the mere mention of a kilt.... This is a specific group of people, but my friends here interact with my friends and family outside of here. I see no reason to separate them. In fact, my "kinky" friends are pretty respectful and don't upset the apple cart despite being on facebook with me (and my family and my non-kink freinds). It is my non-kink friends that are a bit rowdier in fact. (Note to FB friends, NO, you may NOT get rowdy on my page).

quote:


I also notice, and there are exceptions, that there is a proportional concurrent relation to how "lifestyle" you are and how much you weigh.
Hey, heres a tip for all the "hardcore lifestylers."..drop that 75lbs and maybe you can actually get laid by normal people once and awhile and save yourself hundreds of dollars on whips, chains, cages, props, and renovations on parts of your house. ;)


Now that was just bitter... and untrue.

As always,
good luck in your search,
sunshine

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 12:51:50 AM   
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quote:

quote:

This is rhetorical, but how come these guys rob us of the chance to rip off each outer layer, like an onion (well, SOMEBODY might be crying, just not me) and discover what's inside?


what do you mean by robbing you of ripping of our layers?????


I'm one of the strange people who love watching Disney cartoon movies, and I was referring to an argument between Donkey and Shrek about ogres having layers, like an onion.  I was talking to myself, to amuse myself...hence the warning that it was a rhetorical question. 

Those who demand (as your later posts proved) a BDSM porn scene as their introduction and greeting...have no...mystery. 

If you were to remove the words in parentheses, and read what's left, maybe you would have understood my musing better:
"This is rhetorical, but how come these guys rob us of the chance to rip off each outer layer, like an onion, and discover what's inside?"

Basically, when you came in here wagging your penis and wanting it to get all that attention, your layers fell off by themselves...all over the floor...and only your boring penis was left to our view.  Judging by your later posts, this is all you plan to show about yourself. 

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 1:02:21 AM   
SaintAllie


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ORIGINAL: ExposedNsmall

Hey, heres a tip for all the "hardcore lifestylers."..drop that 75lbs and maybe you can actually get laid by normal people once and awhile and save yourself hundreds of dollars on whips, chains, cages, props, and renovations on parts of your house. ;)



Ok .. now you have moved on from 'introductions' to 'comfortably abusive'... surely you agree?

Seems a persons weight or their assets ( whips and props etc) is an issue.

If it's not about demanding a service, but in fact providing one to them, personally, with respect and a commonality of purpose..

Why are you having to work so hard to offer it?

Allie





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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 3:24:18 AM   
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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 3:32:46 AM   
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NEXT!!

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 3:46:09 AM   
sunshinemiss


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"If you come to an open internet forum and flash you kink and just your kink, people are not just going to "keep it to themselves" they are going to come into the thread, burn your little fantasy house to the ground, and then piss on the ashes. It is the nature of internet forums, and to think that something other will happen is like asking the sun not to rise tomorrow."


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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 3:48:17 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		hehehehe Sunshine - nice one!

Hopefully the OP will read it and learn from it.

I'm an optimist....

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 4:09:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExposedNsmall

So please feel free to stop by and say high, or make a rude comment about my penis

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExposedNsmall

that is not enough of an insult. That would only make me feel good about my penis size, not inferior.
quote:

ORIGINAL: ExposedNsmall

You dommes arent very good. here you are trying to make me feel better about myself, telling me im average and normal, instead of making me feel inferior and embarrassed.


it's pretty clear why you are here. Get your wank material somewhere else.




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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 4:40:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExposedNsmall

Go look at almost every friggin profile on this site, whats the one of the most reacurring words? Discretion. I don't want you people knowing anything about me or what I do, and neither does anyone else want people to know them or what they do.


I don't know if you're still reading, but I think this is where the misunderstanding has occurred. The boards are a subset of the site, yes, but they aren't representative of the whole of the site-there's much less of a focus on getting your rocks off here than on the main site, which I suspect you were not expecting when you posted.

That's why people aren't giving you what you want-the site as a whole may be full of people looking for a quick wank, but the boards? Not so much.


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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 5:16:27 AM   
hngnyc


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Good for you!  I support just about everything you have said here. 

This is not a good forum for male subs.  As you can see, there is little room for a male sub to be human around here.  The shivering ladies are lying in wait to pounce on anyone that might challenge their own egocentric fantasies.  Interesting, honest, and socially active dommes are rarely found on the forums.  They are busy enough.

It does seem that most of the mods are dommes.  I have not spotted a male sub mod yet.  That might have something to do with it.

-hng



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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 7:07:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		O Lord love a guppy, just get over yourself. You're not all that and a bag of nuts. You are the one who's attacking people on here, so the pot doesn't get to call the kettle black.

And if you're going to refer to an illness, it's not asburgers, though ass burger is rather appropriate in this case it's asperger syndrome.

Now if you really think people on this site are going to want to have anything to do with you, think again my friend, when you rile people for no other reason than your own silliness, you reap what you sow. And saying you're going to be a dom instead? You don't "become" anything, you either are or you're not. Now if it's just for the kink, that's a whole nother ballgame.

I swear, full moon AND spring break somewhere in the world.

Edited cuz i ain't impressed.

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RE: "EXPOSED AND SMALL" I deserve humiliation - 4/17/2010 7:25:50 AM   
blueeyedbbwsub


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Status: offline 		Hey hng, (btw Horny Net Geek is applicable) This is a forum for people, not labels. If you don't realize that then you're the one who better wake up buttercup.

The orientation of the mods has absolutely no bearing on how they perform what is a volunteer service. They are here to moderate and ensure that the TOS is followed, as well as other duties. Not an easy job at any time.

As for not being a "good" forum for males subs? It's a forum for everyone. The good, the bad and the ugly. It's all in the perception and how you present yourself. And the ugly in this case is most definitely not about looks but attitude.

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