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RE: And Another Thing.... - 4/8/2006 6:12:24 AM   
GeorgiaBelle


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

To give a more complete concept of people interest CM would have to triple the options and include things you are active in now, things you have done in the past, things you want others to do, things …..Ohh well you get the drift.. I guess no one seriously wants to see such a huge list…..   For me, I come to CM to firstly enjoy myself, secondly to meet people and perhaps make new friends, and thirdly perhaps to meet some one who is silly enough to want my collar (One chance in eleverty-eleven billion ~ damn hobbit speak is going through my head at the moment). I’ll use a long list to give me options and upgrade it regularly. When some one asks I’ll explain that yes I have expert marked against martial Arts but no I don’t practice any more due to disabilities…. It just gives me additional things I can write to some one about when our interests match…. What never ceases to amaze and amuse me is when people comment about or complain about others who are different and don’t live their lives how others may expect them to….Some folks have such narrow minds and can’t accept that some people are different..  

For me it is not a question of them being different and me not accepting. There are things on the list that (as a sub) hold no interest whatever or are just too extreme for my coping abilities, LOL. Nothing to do with the poster. I have told Doms/Masters on many occasions that I don't feel we are compatible and they get very huffy and say I am not submissive because they have "50 Ways To Maim a Subbie" checked in their lists (all expert of course) and no milder things and for me it is a bit scary. I am not judging them but trying to save a bunch of anguish for us both down the road. The profile a lot of times is the first impression and  I don' t think getting involved with someone that "Lives for..." something that I cannot or will not do for whatever reason is fair to them. It is best to let them find someone that will fulfill them in the long run.

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RE: And Another Thing.... - 4/8/2006 6:12:49 AM   
cariad


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ORIGINAL: aellea



and while i'm here, how dare you doms tell me i'm not submissive without ever meeting me!!! do you know how difficult it is to work 2 jobs, keep a house in working order with all the maintenance/repairs and misc stuff that has to be done without your magnificence to help plus the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, yard work etc?

if some dominants really thought of it, and i'm sure a few have, submissives that live alone aren't here because they can't live without you, we're already doing that. we want you in our lives to enhance what we already have.

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You go girl, and thank you, thank you, and thank you again! I love the ones that tell me that I need to turn over control (never having met them, as it is usually the 1st email), so that they can put MY life in order for me. Are they kidding? I am no 12 year old that never paid a bill. I just want their dominance to enhance my life not to make me feel like a brainless twit that does not know a light bill from a coupon! I fix my own appliances, know how to change oil and a tire, and can balance my checkbook...it is just that I enjoy service and without a Master about that part is kinda tough!


amen to that :)

girl is no doormat, nor is she just some new kid on the block.and has  been told that because she made certain promises she is bound by them and the "D.I.Q" (Dom in question), didn't like how she spoke to him on the phone because she told him to shove it where the sun doesn't shine and then told her that if she spoke that way tomorrow aka today she would regret it.....girl says bring it on because she has a few choice whistles and words for him.

girl has a right to say who she will and will not submit to, and is not going to be treated as a doormat and non of us slaves/subs should be expected to do so just cause they want us to.

it's hard working two jobs, cleaning house, running an internet radio station, laundry, and then to cook ? hehe oh sure right away Sir, if You don't mind burnt food as girl falls asleep cooking for You....lol

don't think they'd like to hear that but alas it is how girl feels at the end of a busy day.

ok end of ranting here, girl has things to do and has not yet slept so is on a rambling spree. sorry if her post upsets any as it is how she was feeling at the time of reading it.




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RE: And Another Thing.... - 4/8/2006 7:14:54 AM   
LadyWolfdreams


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ORIGINAL: slavejali

Or it could be a sign of *age* ugh...fact is with each passing year you gain heaps more experiences under your belt and your list of interests may grow.


I totally agree. I've found that the more I learn and the more people I interact with the more things I at least want to try, so I'll list more and more things as an interest. Doesn't necessarily mean I've DONE it or that I'd require someone else to do it, just that it's an interest of mine.

Lady Wolfdreams

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RE: And Another Thing.... - 4/8/2006 9:33:18 AM   
PlayfulOne


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I tend not to have interest checked on my profile, it clutters things to much for my liking.  That siad I didn't know there was a limit to the things that can be enjoyed.  Wouldn't it be boring to do the same 2 or 3 things all of the time?

K

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RE: And Another Thing.... - 4/8/2006 9:47:44 AM   
Saint


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

My issues isn't to much what's checked as the fact that they are "experts" in everything that's listed----


I couldnt agree more with you on this one. Nothing makes me ignore a profile faster than someone who has maybe a few years of experience, and yet they have every single skill listed as expert. I know people with 20-30 years of experience and even they wouldnt list everything as expert. To me, the fact that they say they are expert in everything shows that they havent bothered with any true introspection about themselves, and thus I ignore them completely and dismiss them immediately. *Shrugs*

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