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lobodomslavery -> Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:18:05 PM)

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:21:45 PM)

Polyamory.  Google it.




MissAsylum -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:23:02 PM)

depends on:

-what the slave is doing
-does the husband benefit
-is the husband open to the lifestyle, even if he is not directly involved in it

the holes and missing deatils make it hard to understand what exactly the problem is.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:23:12 PM)

Maybe the husband has a girlfriend, or just sleeps around. Or maybe he's just not doing it for the wife, in bed and she's fed up with that but doesn't want to get a divorce in this fucked up economy. Lots of people are holding off on divorce right now, due to the bad economy. Or maybe a part of the husband's kink, is a hotwife or cuck fantasy- so he consciously or unconsciously promotes the idea.

Maybe its all out on the table, and they just want each other to be happy.




Lockit -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:51:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin



Maybe he ran out of money, couldn't pay her anymore and is just glad she is getting it somewhere else. Kevin, why do you try to make sense of things you clearly cannot or will not understand? Why do we respond? Hummm... maybe because we like some aspect of the game, but you have to admit, it's a game. We all stopped trying to educate you, help or take you seriously long ago. You don't listen. It's Kevin's way or no way.

So my answer stands on that premise. I'm sure you will take it for real though seeing as though we are mean, rotten dominant's who are awful to men and only want the money. It's your fantasy...




Lucylastic -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:54:17 PM)

As a married woman with a pet, I could explain it from my point of view, but you wouldnt get it. so its kinda pointless.
Not everyone thinks the same as you Kevin, and may I say, I'm very glad that it the case.






GoddessImaginos -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:57:11 PM)

Because of any number of combinations of reason, circumstance, free choice, and understanding between individuals.
To each their own.




Aylee -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:57:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin



Because I do.  Why should I have to justify my desires?

No it does not compromise the relationship.

No he has not 'freaked.'




GoddessImaginos -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 12:59:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aylee

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin



Because I do.  Why should I have to justify my desires?

No it does not compromise the relationship.

No he has not 'freaked.'


Ditto and ditto..




LadyEllen -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 1:52:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin



Where on CM are you "seeing this a lot"? If its on the other side then might I suggest that what youre seeing "a lot" is men pretending to be women and using the scenario of them being married to avoid any prospect of things progressing to the point when their pretence might be revealed?

E




LadyAngelika -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 1:59:03 PM)

quote:

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant?


Because she can.

- LA




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:03:41 PM)

No I dont think that all. Im just curious. I have joined a BDSM group. I stay very quiet when I go out though. I dont comment , I listen. i agree. I have a mouth. I m just curious tho. A Domme expressed interest in me at the BDSM group. i said nothing. i thanked Her and left
kevin




dcnovice -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:04:58 PM)

FR

Just a guess: She wants someone who'll actually take out the trash?




Slavehandsome -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:05:35 PM)

LMFAO




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:06:35 PM)

No I would . Im listening. I dont judge. I m going to listen. I go to a BDSM group in Dublin. i say nothing until im spoken to. i dont know them too well. i dont want to upset anyone. And i havent. A Domme expressed an interest in me on the last meeting. i said nothing i thanked Her and left. i dont want to get too serious too soon.
kevin




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:09:19 PM)

Thank you . Lady Angelika. im not going to pry . it would be rude. Whatever you do enjoy
kevin




MsLadySue -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:13:56 PM)

You don't have to worry about anything serious happening, soon or otherwise, when you all you do is thank a Domme who shows interest, then leave.




AquaticSub -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:14:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Why would a married Woman be interested in having a male servant? i am seeing this a lot on collarme. Just wondered.  Would it not compromise the relationship with husband?  Would husband not freak
kevin



Uh... cause they're poly?

Are you aware that we have a section devoted to poly on this message board?




LadyEllen -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 2:59:09 PM)

I'm delighted at your restraint Kevin, but assuming she did show interest and it wasnt you misinterpreting the situation, thanking her and then leaving was probably a mistake. Whatever men might like to think, its women who choose partners and if she showed interest in you then, assuming youre interested in her, you might like to take it further. Walking away tells her youre not interested in her, despite her apparent interest in you.

E




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a married Woman want a male slave? (4/24/2010 3:10:27 PM)

I thanked Her for the evening and hoped She had a good night in my absence. i just thought its not my place. And i kept my mouth shut. i  will be going again next month, im very polite but i speak only when spoken to , otherwwise  i would be a right pig and im not that
kevin




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