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ORIGINAL: kuppykake

I have been very disobedient towards Him recently...

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ORIGINAL: reynardfox

Find another submissive to join in as a treat.

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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

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ORIGINAL: lucylucy
No, he hasn't told me that he likes that I've noticed these things (which is why I said I think it makes him feel good that I've noticed these things). It doesn't matter to me if he actually notices these things, as long as he's happy and feels well taken care of--and he has told me that. When he's happy, I'm happy.

That's good, and i understand and know you well enough to know that you don't expect some sort of recognition.   

There are subs though that do - and struggle when he doesn't see and praise her for "everything they do for him."  Typically that's why i stay away from the "observe and serve" sorts of advice - i see much better (and often more fun for him) results for him to be engaged with telling his s-type his desires vs. her just doing it.  My two cents.

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ORIGINAL: kuppykake

I was wondering what are some little things I could do to make my Master happy and proud that I'm His?  I mean stuff that He doesn't  have to ask me to do.  I have been very disobedient towards Him recently, and I'm not trying to get out of any punishments or anything, I just want to really show Him that I am trying to be a better slave.  I just don't want to do something that He won't like cause then I'll be in more trouble.  This is my first post, so if I broke some kind on posting rule, kindly let me know.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: lucylucy
Someone on these boards--I wish I remembered who--advised me to simply pay attention to my Master and notice his likes and dislikes, etc. and do what he likes without having to be told. For example, he's never told me which brands of things he likes, but I've noticed and now I only buy those brands for him. He likes a bottle of water on his nightstand at night, so I make sure there's always one there before I come to bed. When I served brown rice once, he pushed it all to the side of the plate and didn't eat it, so now I never serve brown rice. Little things like that. We haven't discussed these things, but I think it makes him feel good that I've noticed these things.

i'm curious - has he told you that he likes that you've noticed these things?

i think often we as women do these sorts of things and men don't notice the subtle changes (like no brown rice) simply because they're happy.  If they're content and nothing is "wrong" often they overlook all the little things we do.  Which is fine, unless the woman involved is expecting him to notice, and to be recognized for it, and he doesn't, and chaos ensues.

i'm just curious here, thinking about this. 

No, he hasn't told me that he likes that I've noticed these things (which is why I said I think it makes him feel good that I've noticed these things). It doesn't matter to me if he actually notices these things, as long as he's happy and feels well taken care of--and he has told me that. When he's happy, I'm happy.

Mine does this as well. For a variety of reasons I don't always comment but I do notice and it makes me feel special...and ya know what, feeling like that gives me the warm fuzzies.