LadyMorgynn -> RE: Your PERFECT sub (4/6/2006 3:45:00 PM)
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No, he and I have a history of him complaining whenever I write about what I am looking for in a D/s relationship. His perception is that because My slave won't be whipped or whatever criteria cloudboy goes by, that My slave is not getting anything out of the relationship. He does it every time, and to be honest it's getting tiresome. quote:
ORIGINAL: Smythe quote:
ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn Where in the rules does it say that D/s has to be about BDSM? There are a lot of submissives who live to serve a Dominant; that's what they want, what they crave. Just because that's not what you want in a D/s relationship, does that mean that others who want something different than you, are wrong? Hon, you don't have to want what I am offering... .heck, you don't even have to understand it. You walk a different path, and that's terrific. More power to you! But why do you have this need to criticize ME, because I am not offering what you want? quote:
ORIGINAL: cloudboy Ladymorgan, You say "the sub of My dreams thinks I am absolutely wonderful." What is it about you and what you have to offer that would make a sub feel that way? An urge to clean your home because it lighten's your load, rubbing your feet, and feeling lucky that he gets to meet your family and friends doesn't seem very inspirational to me. Rather, it strikes me as a combination of unpaid labor and social escort duties. In my world, this is a far cry from BDSM. Lady Morgynn, I didn't actually read that as criticism, as much as an alternate point of view. Anyway, after reading the various lovely lists, it seems that only MH has found her ideal. Does anyone else who is writing here actually possess their ideal submissive? i.e. does he really exist? Smythe
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