lally2
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ORIGINAL: ParanoidSadist
]Self-Identified simply means a girl knows too much to be a perfect mate.
no, what it means is that you are intimidated by girls who know what they want.
Most girls call me "weird" but a girl has a crush on me, which is strange. I present features such as fast walking and looking somewhat mad all the time. People say I'm their friend but I say nobody is my friend. The girl is cute and slightly shorter than me, which is perfect. The girl lives within a mile of my house in an unpopulated town, which is perfect because I like walking.
youre starting to sound like a stalker.
I would like you to write about your experiences with this this guy you are talking about. I am not yet sure how naturally I should act. It's a gamble. If I filter too much, I might not enjoy her. If I filter too little, she might not enjoy me.
and call the freaking cops. how would youre mom cope with finding out her son is a stalker and has been forcing a girl to do things she doesnt want and are largely misunderstood in the general sweep of society.
seriously, get a grip. what you might want right now is fine and fair enough, but dont go after a girl just because YOU have urges that YOU want to realise. its wrong.
being a dominant is all about being natural, its all about being who you are, being open, honest, trust worthy. someone the submissive can trust with her emotional and physical well being. all that you have said in the entire post, though ive only picked this bit out, sounds like you have not got the slightest iota of an idea what it is to be a responsible mature adult approaching a responsible mature relationship with another sentient human being with emotions, needs and rights just like you.
the guy i was in a relationship with back then was almost ten years older than me. hed had other relationships before me. ive no idea if they were Ds, probably. what he did wrong was in not explaining to me what the relationship entailed. he was insensitive to my confusion, cavalier with my life, irresponsible with my emotional health and saw nothing wrong in attempting to separate me from the world. he tried to make me completely dependent upon him for everything. he did things i didnt understand, he beat me for things i didnt deserve to be beaten for. he alienated my family, got me fired from my job and did such a good fucking job on me that when i did finally get away from him it took me years to recover. he stalked me for months afterwards. it was some years later when i read this on the net that the penny dropped and i recognised that what he had been doing was Ds. i remember walking through knightsbridge once, close to where his family lived, i though i heard him shout out to me and i ran, i just ran in blind panic. turned out it was a friend who was shocked to see me run in such evident fear.
it was not sane and it was not concensual. when i went to the police for an injunction they told me id have to go to court and i just couldnt face that. it was my landlord and other residents living in the block who basically protected me from him by refusing to let him get in the building.
you talk of filtering, what the fuck is that - you need to get a firm grip and stop seeing girls as some sort of vehicle to satisfying youre frustrated urges.
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So all I have to do in order to serve him, is to work out exactly how improbable he is, feed that figure into the finite improbability generator, give him a fresh cup of really hot tea ... and turn him on!
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