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PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 4:53:39 AM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		There are probably 50 threads on this topic, but I did not check. In reaction to another thread...What are the qualities of your PERFECT Dom? The one you daydream about, wake up warm and wanting from dreaming about, the one you sigh over.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 5:07:01 AM   
IrishMist


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I really like those that are extremely sadisitic and cruel ( yes I said cruel ), one who enjoys giving pain simply for the purpose of giving pain. This is a huge attraction for me.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 5:52:43 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		While i truly believe that Thorns is "The Man".......There is no one that can/could compare to Him.  He is not perfect, nor do i believe there IS a Perfect Dominant.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 5:56:15 AM   
treazure


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Status: offline 		There is not a perfect Dom on this planet.

Perfect for me would be one who can accept me for who I am, One who shows respect as it is given, and one who will grant the balance I feel is necessary to survive happily in.

treazure

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 6:05:03 AM   
MistressDiane


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Status: offline 		The Perfect Dom is........a Domme!!!!!!!!!!  LoL, just kidding. well, kinda, sorta, in a way 

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 6:07:46 AM   
slaveladyj


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Status: offline 		the perfect dom? One who takes his sub's needs into consideration as s/he is serving him and meeting all of his needs? That's a question not the answer.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 6:10:55 AM   
summerpls


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Status: offline 		A perfect Dom ... is like beauty ... a perfect Dom is in the eye of the beholder

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 6:22:01 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I agree there is no perfect (althogh my Master comes pretty close) but there are Dom's that are perfect for people  like my Master and i.

For me a quality that makes a good Dom is kindness,  being firm but gentle, i also love it if a Dom can make me laugh.  Those are what i find very attractive in a Dom.  My Master has all 3.

Matt's littleone

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 7:18:03 AM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Perfect Dom to me is one who can and will take control of the relationship. My needs are simple *grin*

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 7:25:36 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I have a top ten list of perfect Dom qualities.  But the main things for me are that he understands the difference between being a Top and being a Dom and that he is a Dom.  That he enjoys the mental aspects of being Dom, for me that means that he understands how my mind works and I am likely to react to things and he enjoys offering guidance in all aspects of my life.  Also that he wants a sub with a mind of her own, not some doormat that automatically agrees to everything.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 8:30:32 AM   
ivorylace


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Status: offline 		In my eyes.  The perfect Dom would be considerate, tender, firm, and loving. 

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 9:56:36 AM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		Perfect Dom - hmmmm - oh, of course, that's easy - for me - Scotch Master - Chairman.

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:03:45 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cloudz

There are probably 50 threads on this topic, but I did not check. In reaction to another thread...What are the qualities of your PERFECT Dom? The one you daydream about, wake up warm and wanting from dreaming about, the one you sigh over.

He is:
1. confident: He knows WHAT he wants and WHY.
2. intelligent and witty: He has a way with words!(and He knows some really hard ones!)
3. humorous: in that sarcastic New Yorker stlye
4. communicative: says what He means and means what He says and there is no question this slave has asked of Him that He has left unanswered.
5. compassionate: especially with His loved ones and friends, but also to those less fortunate.
6. open-minded: a love-r and live-r of life, his only prejudice= fraud.
7. loves to travel: by car, train, boat, plane, or donkey rides~the journey is a big part of the destination!
8. socially adept: He enjoys parties and get togethers on a regular basis~also making and entertaining friends.
9. incredibly sexy: mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
10. able and willing to be fully present in our relationsip each and every day.


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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:12:50 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		He is:

1)intelligent, super duper duper smart
2)a good parent
3)very sexual
4)affectionate
5)patient
6)family oriented
7)likes to stay home
8)strong physically
9)decisive
10)a leader

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:13:23 AM   
Merritt27


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Status: offline 		my idea of the perfect Dom....PlayfulOne.  Perhaps not completely perfect, but perfect for me.  In the end, thats all i care about. 

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:15:02 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		I put two posts because I wanted to add, if you had me make a list of qualities before I met him , they would probably have been different. Since being Owned and living with hiim 24/7 for years now, this is what turned out to be most important. I hope this makes sense :)

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:18:20 AM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		To all those who said there is no perfect dom, well i am here to inform you that you are wrong...I am the perfect dom...oh wait, this isn't the thread on Top's Disease...
sorry, kindly disregard the above post, thank you, talk amongst yourselves while I sneak back out the door.................................................................

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 10:20:14 AM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		strong enough to keep my on my knees yet can be playful and every once in a while under that tough exterior has a tenderness that he isn't afraid to show.
intelligent and witty....honest and trusty worthy......

loves to spank my ass.......

hmmmmmmmmm probably lots more qualities that are floating around in my brain....

now to just find him

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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 11:58:10 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

I know I'll get jumped for this, but oh well

I really like those that are extremely sadisitic and cruel ( yes I said cruel ), one who enjoys giving pain simply for the purpose of giving pain. This is a huge attraction for me.


Irish... I have met your dream Dom.. here on CM... he lives in Ca... and he just loves to enflict pain... for the sake of inflicting... he's been sort of helping me explore more of my love for pain. I swear I have never met one like him before.. even on line. He is for sure.. one cruel son of a bitch.... but I can't stop talking to him when he hunts me down.... LOL.... Lord have mercy!!!! I've met in person and on line a few who claim to be true hard core sadist.... this man.. beats them all down.... .... leaves room for hope there's more out there.. and possibly closer to me. NC vs Ca... that's over 3,000 miles..... I need one closerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....


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RE: PERFECT Dom - 4/6/2006 12:05:28 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Damn true...why can't you or irish (or maybe even AND) live up here in the frozen north.......

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