RedMagic1
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Different women are different. I have a friend who can orgasm just because I talk to her. Of course, she (1) trusts me, and (2) is most aroused by the mental aspects of D/s. (Maybe I should call her.... She might appreciate that!) When my previous relationship ended, my gf at the time had come to find me completely not-attractive sexually. She didn't think of me as ugly, just as not-that-way, totally indifferent. This affected my confidence more than I realized. Maybe two months later, I had a one-night stand with a lady who came three times, shuddering, before I even came once. But I didn't feel gypped, or left out. I felt weightless and free; I wasn't ugly and unfuckable after all. So, HardDreams, are you bi? My ladyfriend and I can experiment on you, and tell you what we discover.
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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