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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/9/2010 1:23:51 AM

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On extremely rare occasions - like once or twice in my fifteen years in the lifestyle - I have gotten a good friendship out of responding politely but firmly to an inappropriate message, telling them that is not the way to go about things. sometimes they are just new and clueless but, on rare occasions, teachable. mostly, though, they are just one of the three - clueless.

Well, I've sent a positive message and I got a very mean answer! Does it count?

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/9/2010 11:50:58 AM

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Auditguy:
You know... it has come to my attention recently that it sometimes pays to give the benefit of the doubt in these cases, until they conclusively prove fakery. Some gorgeous, sweet women I know have the writing skills of a three year old.

That said, it pays to throw a few tests on her. Don't spend too much time with one, until you've got convincing evidence.

You are right; I am a little quick to the trigger and a bit too judgmental (in everything, not just profiles). I really do hate tests though, from either party, but I guess that is all part of the game.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/9/2010 11:57:17 AM

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i think Your a right BITCH Miss Asylum. Now am i worthy now. And please dont bitch back after all did You not ask for it in Your opening message
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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/9/2010 12:34:27 PM

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I wouldn't know... I don't send mean, insulting, crude, or otherwise impolite messages.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 5:28:00 AM

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Feel better about yourself now?

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 5:52:29 AM

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...after all did You not ask for it in Your opening message

Reading comprehension isn't really your forte, is it, Kevin?

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 5:55:26 AM

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nope- "economics" is.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 11:44:17 AM

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i only meant it as a joke
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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 11:45:38 AM

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Your right there, Ma'am if everyone earned the same it would be fairer
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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 11:47:24 AM

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no Ma'am i was always in the bottom third of the class, i was a slow learner, i stayed back a year, i guess i wasnt the sharpest
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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/10/2010 1:27:44 PM

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That's just not my style. Even if I knew she wanted that, I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it

Uh...you sent me a c-mail and called me clumsy, Stevie. I was crushed.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 12:46:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i've gotten a friendship out of it to a long time ago. but i just randomly wondered,"hmmm...has that ever really worked?"

Yeah, it works, bigtime. But if you don't like the message, don't reply to it. Just like if someone was too nice to you, or too hyper for you, or too grumpy for you, etc etc etc. Anything you can think of, and more, is desired by someone. I know girls who won't reply unless the first message is short, violent, and degrading. If you don't like someone's approach, don't have a conversation with them.

And certainly don't start a thread about it.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 12:54:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: wittynamehere

If you don't like someone's approach, don't have a conversation with them.

And certainly don't start a thread about it.

Hey, it was a perfectly valid question. She saw something, she wondered how effective the people who did it found it as a technique, she *asked* them how effective it was.

I've often wondered the same thing.

If it works for you then that's great for you. But don't get so defensive about it that you tell other people when they can't pose questions to Masters on the Ask A Master forum...

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 1:53:38 AM

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i think you wasted your fingers typing a response- his sig says he rarely returns to forums after he has posted .

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 2:42:51 AM

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I know what you mean about the wanting to immediately move into yahoo. not even knowing anything about me. and then wants to slap a collar on me still not knowing me. In response to the topic, I have never responded to someone who was abusive in an email.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 4:23:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i think you wasted your fingers typing a response- his sig says he rarely returns to forums after he has posted .

Meh. That was a minute of my life I'll never get back, then. Never mind.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 9:47:53 AM

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HELL yes. ALL of the perspective property I'M talkin to right now responded to ME telling them EXACTLY what I thought of them and what I will do to and with them. It takes the right kind of magnitism that most can't pull off but those of US who can will ALWAYS get first pick and the "nice guys" can have all the rest.

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 10:06:06 AM

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I get so many, they fall into three categories

first category is = get down bitch
second category is = let me help you
third category is = why don't you answer me

I haven't yet figured how to filter out the wheat from the chaft

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 10:08:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: mary94583a

I get so many, they fall into three categories

first category is = get down bitch
second category is = let me help you
third category is = why don't you answer me

I haven't yet figured how to filter out the wheat from the chaft

I think most of the sub women on here would tell you that the wheat fall into none of those categories...

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RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got... - 5/11/2010 10:13:10 AM

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So............ "Answer Me bitch and let me help you get down on your knees"

Is not a good opener?

That explains a lot......... thanks!

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