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Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:26:59 AM

kingbeef31

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I am curious to know, what people think about having the television on while playtime happens. The reason I'm asking is because the other day, an NBA playoff game was on while I was spanking someone. As I was enjoying paddling that hiney, the game became extremely interesting. It forced me to stop for a second, get a beer, chips, salsa, & a sandwich.

My lovely sub was left tied and gagged while I sat next to her cheering for my favorite team. Needless to say, she was a bit pissed...........I made it up to her later that evening

. But the question of having the television on while playing has been on her mind.............Is this something that I should worry about? Have I become addicted to the idiot box again? Will this hinder my future experiences...........

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:31:58 AM

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Needless to say, she was a bit pissed..........

how would you feel if you were screwing her while she chatted on her cell phone?

I would have been a little more than pissed. Of course...you wouldn't have been too happy either with the chips, salsa and beer deposited in you lap as you watched me walk out the door.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:36:30 AM

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:39:00 AM

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I don't much like watching tv. I love to be tied up instead of watching. Makes for a great evening. Especialy if there is more to follow.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:41:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

Needless to say, she was a bit pissed..........
how would you feel if you were screwing her while she chatted on her cell phone?

I would have been a little more than pissed. Of course...you wouldn't have been too happy either with the chips, salsa and beer deposited in you lap as you watched me walk out the door.

You are tied up....you would have to sit there caked in cum until the game is over.

Then feel free to leave.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:43:34 AM

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i think it depends on the relationship. if being ignored is something that's part of this particular Dom/sub's unique interest then i'd say it's fine. it seems that in this case it was not.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:46:40 AM

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Not sure if it's a case of being addicted to the idiot box again, or just catching yourself up in a game b/c you had the darn thing on to start with...

Really stop the play, a sports game is on... isnt' that what they invited TiVo and other programs for? SO you could play and watch the game later.

I'd have been pretty ticked off. if We were in a serious relationship you'd owe me alot, if not, I"d probaby say good-bye off the bat, as soon as I'm untied, of course. How about untying me and making me watch with you, maybe fondling me instead while you watch the precious game? That prolly would have been a better direction to go...

Then again, leave all distractions outside of the bedroom/Playroom!!!!

Yes, that includes your phone.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:55:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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Needless to say, she was a bit pissed..........
how would you feel if you were screwing her while she chatted on her cell phone?

I would have been a little more than pissed. Of course...you wouldn't have been too happy either with the chips, salsa and beer deposited in you lap as you watched me walk out the door.

You are tied up....you would have to sit there caked in cum until the game is over.

Then feel free to leave.

True enough, you could be that much of an insensitive git, because the subject is in fact tied up until released. But consider; after the release from bonds, you'd still have chip crumbs in your hair, beer all down the front of you and salsa stains to get out of the carpet, and that would be the very last drop of your precious monkeyspank that you would have the chance to deposit anywhere in that person's vicinity, I would imagine.
Dominants who give half a damn about even their casual subjects (much less their s.o.'s) and are worth their salt do not generally feel the need to show their ass in this way; it's small-minded and cheap, and in the case of playing with an s. o. would probably lead to an issue *UNLESS* as the person above duly pointed out, being ignored in a scene is part and parcel of the chosen dynamic. Or rather, just because you can do something by so-called 'rights', doesn't necessarily mean that you should.
Didn't we learn this in kindergarten..?

My two cents:

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:57:50 AM

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I am a football freak. I would not even entertain the idea of play if a game was on or about to begin. It's one of my " hard limits ", more in a joking way, but my past doms have not had any issue with it. Of course they were football nuts too, so it worked out swimmingly !

In this case, I would be pissed and follow Holly out the door. If you want to watch the game, watch the game. Nothing wrong with that. But to start up with me, and leave me hanging cuz you " lost interest " cuz of a game. Ummm no. Nope that wouldn't sit well.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 8:58:30 AM

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The question is, does the TV turn you on more than her? When I'm with a man who pushes my Domme buttons, nothing can distract my attention away from him.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 9:06:36 AM

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I was joking around....But in reality lets say that the sub is tied up. I turn on the game.

I watch the game and during commercials breaks or a paralyzed player being carted off the field I fuck around with you.

You ain't really going to do shit.

You might roll your eyes or intently wait for a commercial break or a bone chilling hit.

Either way, when the game is over your ass is not going anywhere.

Now, that's a fact Jack.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 9:11:05 AM

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Is that what you consider consensual/non-consensual Domi? ;-)

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 9:28:34 AM

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I like men who like sports, and I like them myself. And if there is a playoff game on, I can see where a guy can get distracted. I mean, it's the PLAYOFFS!! I kind of like what Domi had to say. To me that would be fun to be tied up and he played with me during the commercials. If it was someone who was hurt and being carried off the field, that would probably take my attention off the play though. Actually if it were a playoff game of a team I cared about, the meanest thing a Dom could do to me is blindfold me!!

But in general I don't think the TV should be on during planned play/sex. I prefer music. But, sometimes a spontaneous scene could take place and the TV is already on. Then you may or may not get distracted by what's on the tube.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 9:51:11 AM

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Is that what you consider consensual/non-consensual Domi? ;-)

- LA

Call it what you want....If she is really pissed off she will leave and that will be that. It is like anything else, knowing who you are dealing with. and understanding that everyone has their boundaries that they are not willing to cross. if you choose to cross those boundaries then there will probably be some sort of ramifications.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 9:55:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Is that what you consider consensual/non-consensual Domi? ;-)

- LA

Call it what you want....If she is really pissed off she will leave and that will be that. It is like anything else, knowing who you are dealing with. and understanding that everyone has their boundaries that they are not willing to cross. if you choose to cross those boundaries then there will probably be some sort of ramifications.

Domi, that has been my perspective of things all along. Contrary to what you understood, I never said differently.

- LA

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 10:30:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

Needless to say, she was a bit pissed..........
how would you feel if you were screwing her while she chatted on her cell phone?

I would have been a little more than pissed. Of course...you wouldn't have been too happy either with the chips, salsa and beer deposited in you lap as you watched me walk out the door.

For God's sake, holly, keep it down. The game is on.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 10:38:45 AM

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I have no idea why undies are in a uproar, ppl multi task all the time. Walk and chew gum, screwing one girl while thinking of another... nothing wrong with banging da babe with the tube on.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 10:42:14 AM

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The man pisses in my mouth. I'm gonna be upset because he stopped fucking for a bit to watch the playoffs???? Not.
I'd be pissed if he didn't give me a beer and chips.

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 10:43:19 AM

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He's giving you beer Aileen, it's just recycled ;-)

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RE: Having the Television on while playing - 5/9/2010 10:43:52 AM

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Ha! It's piss warm too.

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