catfightservice -> RE: agnostic or atheist? (5/11/2010 4:58:51 PM)
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I was not specific enough with my comment about us fetishers being honest with ourselves, intelectual, enlightened..... I was refering to those of us who are up front and honest about who we are. Not the fakes, posers, and liars on here, or any other board, forum, im, etc. Maybe we've been lucky. My wife and I have only been exploring this stuff for maybe 2 years. The actual people we've met in person have seemed very cool, intelectual, open minded, and on top of it polite. Maybe I haven't been around long enough. Hopefully our experiences continue to be like that. What I meant by enlightened is those of us who are active in the fetish world, are different from the rest. Not at all in a religous sense, but in our general perspective. Im sure you've all heard people fringe as they say something like "oh they are into bondage.....ew......" or "they are into whips and being tied up... what freaks...". We are differant from those prudes. We as fetishers are understanding of that, even though we may not be into a particular activity, we dont hold it against those who are. At least I dont, and the people we've met dont seem to either. From what I can tell actual members of the fetish community are tolerant of different opinions, and interests. Enlightend by the variety, and pleasure of this life style. This is an opinion based on my own experiences, and I realize I could be wrong. (I hope Im Not)
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