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PeonForHer -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/23/2010 9:42:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: insearch0f
Tell you what, males have and will always compete with one another for female attention but they never get to do the choosing because it's the women that do the choosing. Peon if you ever come back as a woman, you'll get to experience that advantage. But for now, don't let that fact get you down my man. [;)]


But I already *have* 'done the choosing'. I chose to go with the partners I've had, just as they chose to go with me. Are you saying that I'm in some way incapable of choosing one woman in preference to another? Because, I don't think any of my ex-partners would see you as being at all complimentary to them, there.

And why do you think I feel in any way 'down'?





LadyHibiscus -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/23/2010 9:56:00 AM)

Okay did I SAY it was hormones, back on page 1? Sheesh! ;)




insearch0f -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/23/2010 2:21:52 PM)

No, you do choose who you will appeal to but she chooses to accept you or not. I don't mean you don't pursue whomever you choose.

Nothings ever in all mind you.




PeonForHer -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/23/2010 3:52:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: insearch0f

No, you do choose who you will appeal to but she chooses to accept you or not. I don't mean you don't pursue whomever you choose.

Nothings ever in all mind you.


Nope. As I said, I chose them, and they chose me. They also pursued me, as I pursued them.

I do know the sort of stuff your assertion comes from. Once, I read of a report about some psychiatrist who claimed that people don't dream in colour. I do dream in colour.

Why do they even bother? Sometimes I think these people should hang up their white coats, stop snorting cocaine and just try to get out a little more.





leadership527 -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/23/2010 4:47:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Nope. As I said, I chose them, and they chose me. They also pursued me, as I pursued them.

Well, it's always worked that way for me too. Last I heard, it took two to tango. People can spin it however they want, but in the end, both parties needed to make some decisions and make some things happen in order for a relationship to get started. Even though I don't think in terms of choice and consent between Carol and I now, those were very definitely HUGE concepts when we met.




PeonForHer -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/24/2010 11:32:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: slavekal
In fact, as a middle aged guy, I find nothing hotter than the bratty type girl half my age seducing me into slavery. 


Good point, Kal. I've been thinking about that a lot, today. As far as I can see, the 'bratty girl domme' thing that many malesubs have (including me) doesn't fit into the crude-Freudian, Oedipal 'Mummy/son' view of femdom/malesub whatsoever.




JhonDean -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/25/2010 11:32:02 AM)

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Loki, now why would you assume that because a woman has power over a man that she is playing games with him? I've had power over many men and some of them I adored a great deal.

A brief comment from a highly individualized point of view...those men who allowed you to adore then or bring balance to the diverse dynamics of their life.




doormat1975 -> RE: The natural power that women have over men... (5/26/2010 1:39:01 AM)

Interesting enough thread... Good topic and discussions here... Assuming all sex is fundamentally a response to the need for reproduction, then I believe the title of this thread kind of goes without saying... I mean women will always know whether or not they have reproduced whereas men can never be sure technically speaking... So from an evolutionary standpoint, a good way for men to maximize their chances is to maximize the number of females they copulate with... or make sure the woman he is with stays put (well ok not very submissive on this end is it? lol)... But the caveat here is that women can always decide on their mates... So catch-22 for males - Caveman mentality vs. hoping just hoping he will be selected... Does this make any sense?

Oh but wait... in nature males usually fight for the female... Do sub males do that too? Well for Dommes which are rare enough... hmmm wow a whole new dimension lol... Alright I am off to bed!




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