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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 2:46:46 PM

LaTigresse

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Dude you just do not GET IT!

You are offensive and come across as a clueless idiot...........is that really what you are aiming for?

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 2:51:35 PM

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Here is a handy list of appropriate vs inappropriate jobs for a "Domme woman."

Appropriate:

Vague international business woman doing vague international business-type-things in a pair of spiky heeled Miu Mius and a leather skirt.

A librarian in tweed skirt and emo girl glasses with a very strict policy regarding overdue books.

Clinical psychologist conducting experiments on a swarm of muscular men who are confined to cages when not being poked and prodded and whatnot.

Supervillainess in skintight PVC costume. If, for some reason, she can't find work as a supervillainess (and let's face it, this is kind of a word of mouth/family connections type gig) she could also try to settle into a niche as a femme fatale who runs around drugging drinks, wearing furs, and leaving private detectives bound and gagged in abandoned warehouses with ticking time bombs set to blow them to smithereens (the private detective will survive and seduce the femme fatale, eventually).

Inappropriate jobs for a "Domme woman":

Anything that exists in the real world as opposed to in pornography and pulp fiction.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:00:40 PM

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i dont see how raising a topic is offensive. Take this attitude to its logical conclusion and nothing is talked about. Thats a wonderful world isnt it LaTigresse. Oh yeah!!!!!!!!!! What does that do? Sweep everything under the carpet. Everything is alright. It doesnt matter . Nothing does sort of attitude. And hey presto, you might be looking at more abuse cases in ten or fifteen years time. And why? Because no one challenged , no one spoke up, no one criticised. Everyone accepted. Yeah that is a beautiful world alright. Not very offensive either is it. Not very offensive not it rather is. Silence the world because nobody matters. Not even the vulnerable. A very helpful approach that is
kevin

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:14:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes

Supervillainess in skintight PVC costume.

Yup - perfectly appropriate occupation for a domme. However, getting unpleasant fungal problems in the undercarriage area as a result of wearing non-breathable clothing 24/7 is considered rather less appropriate.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:14:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i dont see how raising a topic is offensive. Take this attitude to its logical conclusion and nothing is talked about. Thats a wonderful world isnt it LaTigresse. Oh yeah!!!!!!!!!! What does that do? Sweep everything under the carpet. Everything is alright. It doesnt matter . Nothing does sort of attitude. And hey presto, you might be looking at more abuse cases in ten or fifteen years time. And why? Because no one challenged , no one spoke up, no one criticised. Everyone accepted. Yeah that is a beautiful world alright. Not very offensive either is it. Not very offensive not it rather is. Silence the world because nobody matters. Not even the vulnerable. A very helpful approach that is
kevin

WTF? You've reached new heights of idiocy Kevin. You've equated being a forum troll to saving people from abuse. Now tell me....even you in the depths of your social inadequacies can see how inappropriate this is....can't you? Now go ahead and do some backpedaling and say it's all for the craic- that's your typical response when you've been backed into a corner.

You actually just went there and in the midst of your God complex (thank you Lockit) told us that you are saving defenseless people from abuse by posting a thoroughly stupid and offensive thread.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:17:01 PM

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and not to say that saviors usually dont come out of living in the dumpster, and having other issues as well, generally they are not tightly wrapped enough to help themselves let alone the world.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:20:44 PM

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OH FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! its like you take 1 step forward and 40 steps back. what you do for a JOB has absolutely NO barring on your kink orientation. Being an employee doesn't make a person submissive and being a business owner doesnt make a person a Dominant. GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS. you of ALL people shouldn't be asking if BDSM orientation reflects employment- Mr. "I'm too over-qualified to cut lawns or work at McDonald's". Seriously- when you can find something WORTHWHILE of conversation to talk about (ya know, ASIDE from people calling you a complete sod), then MAYBE, not making any promises, you can become friendly with some of the members here, instead of being a complete annoyance to the populus here as a whole.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:25:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well what are forums for then only for questioning things and debates. It seems to me without discussions and debates there would be no reason for forums
kevin

This isn't a debate, Kevin. A debate is not 'I pretend to think this unpleasant thing and then when questioned say it was to allow you to 'tear it down with the contempt it deserves'', which is what you say you've done in this thread. That's just deliberately winding people up.

You weren't questioning, you were provoking. And you can see by the flurry of replies that you are pissing people off.

Pissing people off is not craic.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:27:46 PM

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Geoff has an idea:

they go away if you ignore them

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:29:00 PM

VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes

...stuff that made me laugh...

It really is lovely to have you back, Orpheus. I was sad that you went away.

But you missed out 'librarian' from your list of appropriate jobs.

Think about it: pencil skirts, stilletos, really tight hairdos and all those speech restrictions they like to impose....

And those *glasses*-fuck me but I want some proper librarian glasses.

ETA: I've just noticed that you did in fact include librarians. My bad :s
I still want the glasses though.

And I would point out that librarians do exist in the real world...

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:33:30 PM

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Fem Dom's... it is OP's that make them cranky or a fact of nature?

discuss!

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 3:58:10 PM

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kevin makes me cranky.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:03:41 PM

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And I would point out that librarians do exist in the real world...

Fair point. Though sadly the librarians I deal with most often wear sensible shoes, either have excellent vision or wear contacts, and are pudgy little men. :(

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:06:10 PM

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Fem Dom's... it is OP's that make them cranky or a fact of nature?

I think it is a fact of footwear. Walking around in stiletto boots all day can really make em cranky.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:06:24 PM

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you're looking for something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V83JR2IoI8k

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:30:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Do Domme Women who look for submissive employment roles strike you as peculiar. In other words are they not really betraying themselves and their nature by doing this even if they are very hard up financially and clients are not coming to them because of the economy. Should Domme Women not go for management roles? Or are Domme Women right? After all a job such as a receptionist or an administrator is a bit low grade, its not managerial but a job is a job. Opinions please people
kevin

my opinion is, that whole post sucks. What difference does it make what job someone does? i'm about as submissive as they come and i'm a nurse & have supervised multiple nursing assistants....not exactly submissive. Just because Someone is a Domme it doesn't mean she has to have an authoritarian job either. And since when are receptionist or administrative jobs low-grade? Many an office would be in shambles if it weren't for the receptionists and administrators. i think you've managed to insult close to every segment of female humanity. i swear, i don't know where you come up w/ these hair-brained ideas sometimes.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:35:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

I'm a sub, and have a job that requires me to be quite 'dominant' at times. Are you trying to say that I'm betraying myself because my job description doesn't match my kink orientation? That I should seek low level employment in order to be more subly at work?

I think that's exactly the point he's trying to make. A submissive woman shouldn't look for "dominant" work because she's betraying herself. That's classic! I didn't seek out "dominant" work. The opportunity to be in a supervisory role in employment almost inevitably falls into my lap. Why? 'Cause I'm damn good. My work ethic puts many to shame, I'm conscientious and I can get things done well and quickly. Being submissive within my intimate relationships has NOTHING to do with that. NOTHING. I'd be "betraying" myself if I thought that, just because I like to be beaten and used, that I should be someone's lapdog at my job. Not hardly

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:45:48 PM

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It's almost enough to make me want to get a pink hello kitty t-shirt and undies, pink fuzzy slippers and leave my management job to go wait tables........just to send kevie into a tizzy.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:57:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

It's almost enough to make me want to get a pink hello kitty t-shirt and undies, pink fuzzy slippers and leave my management job to go wait tables

Promise you'll send me photos

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/13/2010 4:58:17 PM

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See, men have tried to put little boxes around women since they grabbed our hair and pulled us into the man cave. Fill her belly and keep it filled and she has to stay in the man cave because everyone knows once a man has claimed her and taken her to his man cave, no one else will want her. He controls her and all that goes on in the man cave.

Kevin just wants us in little boxes that are easier for him to understand. Not unlike the cave man that thought to keep his cave warm with the little woman, kevin wants a warm cave. Only he wants the woman to club him on the head and drag him into her woman cave. Since women fought for the right to own a woman cave and go out and work to pay for the woman cave and they found worthy men to hit over the head and bring home to the cave and kevin isn't being picked, he has to claim that something is very wrong with the women who won't hit him, poke him with her heels and keep him in her cave.

It is too hard for him to understand that we do far more than wear heels, boss men around, abuse them, take their money and own our own caves. It boggles his mind and then he has to find a way to reason it all out. Which he cannot do so he has to torment others because he is tormented.

It won't end until he finds a woman to pull him into her cave and then he will bitch because she's so friggin old, because surely only a woman with dementia would open her cave to him. Some might be willing to hit him over the head and drive away in their taxi's, but no one is going to offer him a cave to dwell in.

Give me about twenty years kevin, if I am not too weak, I might hit you over the head, drag you to my cave and order an earthquake to cave us in. Then I can be god because I saved the world from us both.

Sorry everyone, but I don't plan on going any sooner.

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