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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/14/2010 6:24:08 AM   
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I'd like to reply to you, but my laundry is dominating me at the moment, and I have to go submissively fold it.
I looked at the mountain of laundry this morning and gave it the finger. Does this mean i am a switch?

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/14/2010 6:58:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I'd like to reply to you, but my laundry is dominating me at the moment, and I have to go submissively fold it.
I looked at the mountain of laundry this morning and gave it the finger. Does this mean i am a switch?

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Naw-just a brat-you'll do it eventually ;-)


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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/14/2010 7:21:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Any person regardless of sex or which side of the kneel they are on should look for whatever kind of job they want to do. It is not up to you to decide where someone should be working. Maybe if you spent all the time and energy you use up worrying about what the dommes of the world are doing, and turned into improving your own life, you would actually get somewhere in this world.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/14/2010 10:45:35 AM   
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Do Domme Women who look for submissive employment roles strike you as peculiar. In other words are they not really betraying themselves and their nature by doing this even if they are very hard up financially and clients are not coming to them because of the economy. Should Domme Women not go for management roles? Or are Domme Women right? After all a job such as a receptionist or an administrator is a bit low grade, its not managerial but a job is a job. Opinions please people
kevin



Kevin

What about we reframe the question......

Everyone, do you feel that a man who refuses to take a job that he feels is beneath him or too low paid and thus remains out of paid employment is peculiar?  Do you think this leads to them spending way too much time online living a fantasy life with no basis in reality?  Why would a Domme ever be interested in this type of person?  How can they be a real submissive?

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Brilliant. You've got every salient point there, well done.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/14/2010 12:18:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes

Here is a handy list of appropriate vs inappropriate jobs for a "Domme woman."

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Quite apart from the excellent opportunities Orpheus mentioned, qualified Domme women are welcome to apply for the following positions:

1. Head nurse at private clinic for men who have little wrong with them beyond an obsessive desire to receive medical treatment from attractive females. Should be comfortable working in a very short white coat, and familiar with standard therapies such as humiliating physical exams, enemas, light spankings and hand jobs.

2. Sadistic warden at women's prison, to which male offenders are occasionally sent because of inexplicable bureaucratic oversights. The successful candidate will be prepared to welcome these errors and make the men available for degrading sex with female staff and inmates, rather than doing the "efficient" and "reasonable" thing and simply sending them back.

3. Teacher at unique boarding school where students aged 21 and up receive occasional brief lessons in basic subjects and are frequently subjected to caning, paddling, elaborate rope bondage, and other normal disciplinary measures. Penchant for using students as "human toilets" in exchange for awarding higher grades essential.

4. Mastermind of underground slave trading network. The successful applicant will have good business skills and experience in making people disappear without a trace. May occasionally receive merchandise from holder of position 6 (see below).

5. Interrogator. Knowlege of standard CIA techniques not essential, but must have demonstrated ability to "break" any male subject by tying him down, shaving off all his body hair, and making him eat your pussy.

6. Secretary to senior male executive. (Yes, I know this is supposedly inappropriate, but READ ON.) Must be capable of maintaining seductive, subservient but slightly aloof demeanour for approximately three months before "turning the tables" and using feminine wiles in combination with sedatives and/or blackmail to overpower your boss and sell him to an underground slave trading network (see position 4).

Job applicants may be required to supply their own equipment. For example, applicants for position 5 should be able to provide restraints, a razor, a secret, fully staffed prison camp in the jungles of Central America, and several male prisoners of war who are in possession of terribly important state secrets.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 6:08:37 AM   
lobodomslavery


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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 6:09:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Oh this thread has me exhausted. Yawn dont have energy to talk anymore . i m spent
kevin

If blithering dementedly on is tiring you, you could always stop...


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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 6:17:49 AM   
insearch0f


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Status: offline 		We need to talk about your postings. I been reading and wondering why you post like you do insulting the dominas , do you get paid for that?

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:16:36 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		No and i dont intend to insult anyone, that is not my intention., oh my God i think i will collapse bye, im so tired, out so late last night , i think the Fetish party did it for me, im not used to such late nights, great craic though
kevin

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:18:24 AM   
TexasMaam


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What do you do for a living?

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:22:32 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i think the Fetish party did it for me, im not used to such late nights, great craic though
Hands up everyone who would have *loved* to have been a fly on *that* wall...


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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:35:22 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Good god, V - can you be saying that even the job of being a pro-domme makes her submissive?


Oh, I've always maintained that a pro-domme is the employee of her client.

You will note, however, that I said all jobs are submissive, not that all people who have jobs are submissive.


I agree with Venatrix, which is why any boss that I have, I have to hold in extremely high esteem and cannot be a micromanager. He or she must be a strong leader with experience to transfer to me.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:42:53 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		Why do You ask . What has that to do with anything. im a human being, a citizen, first and foremost, what i have to do for a living or  not has nothing to do with it. If i were a millionaire i would not be in any way more attractive, the best things in life are free
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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:44:26 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		ill tell You this much. You should not ask personal questions. it is invasive. it is the kind of behaviour that can get people sacked and i know this
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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:55:41 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		If you have a job You are lucky if thats how You relate to people. There are questions You dont ask and that is one of them Ma'am. im surprised at 50 years of age You have not worked that one out. If you are looking for a charming guy with money no object i am him, if you are looking for a rich guy lucky to be in steady employment and with a continuous wage coming in every week, i am not him. i can only hope that You do not value life and people so shallowly that You judge them as suitable or not depending on whether they have employment or not ie employment person suitable, unemployed person unsuitable.  Because thinking about that logically such value judgements excludes millions of potentially very attractive guys out there, that is if you judge attractiveness by the strength of someone's personality, rather as most Women on this board judge guys, which is on the amount of cash in their wallet. So shallow. But thats just my opinion
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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 8:58:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		What i mean Ma'am is judging guys potential, on what is or is not in their wallet is so shallow. People should be judged by the strength of their personality. Money should not be a big consideration. Willingness to work yes, willingness to improve yes but not cash.
Judging a person's suitability on the amount of cash he or she has is just very shallow. i have no time for people like that
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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 9:03:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kevin, she asked you a simple question that you could have politely declined to answer.

But the level of paranoia and insecurity in those 4 back to back posts... and reading into the question like nobody's business. Alarming. I really wish you'd listen to people here who tell you to get help. I feel it is said with concern and not malice.

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 9:09:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		i am going back to my doctor in a weeks time. She is considering discharging me from Her care because She thinks i can cope now without Her assistance and support
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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 9:11:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I'd like to reply to you, but my laundry is dominating me at the moment, and I have to go submissively fold it.
I looked at the mountain of laundry this morning and gave it the finger. Does this mean i am a switch?

Discuss



hang on....are you actually saying I have to do more with my laundry then just puttting it onto the kitchen floor once it is washed

Heck, why did nobody tell me to do that...as a sub I am not supposed to figure that out myself, am I? Gosh, now I understand why walking became somewhat difficult in my flat in recent weeks

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RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work ... - 5/16/2010 9:25:09 AM   
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i am going back to my doctor in a weeks time. She is considering discharging me from Her care because She thinks i can cope now without Her assistance and support
kevin



Get a second opinion.

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