Darkraven6
Posts: 26
Joined: 3/5/2006 Status: offline
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I suffered a shattered spine three years ago, that left me in a wheel chair untill this last October. The Doctors said Id never walk, and lucky for me, as I was a nurse for so long, I had learned some tricks that I believe saved me from not walking agian, and I do now indeed walk. The loss of feeling due to an injury, or disease, or simply being someone thats nerve endings are deeper then others are, can all make an huge effect on ones responses, as well as choices. Ive found that I believe that I can except and handle more, then I think I can. Lucky for me, my Dom/Master is aware of my situation, and watches out for me...and as well will decide when Ive had enough of somthing. Anyone, that has a situation where they dont "feel" normally, needs to be very carefull that they inform their partner of their situation....for their own safty. Causing further damage, and not even knowing you are doing so, is not something you wish to do...nor would your partner. I dont believe that anyone with a problem, or situation, would then be thought of as a masochist, because there really isnt any choice in what you can or can not feel. As my Dom/Master puts it..."we will find out what" I can handle safely, and what will be pushing it for me. But on the cuff, I do think he likes the fact that I can take a bit more then alot of others can, I believe that does please him to know that we can at times pass what some would feel is a limit...and yet, hes very careful to not over do things with me, and always makes sure Im pleased as well. I agree, pain to a point, is necessary, but...as Sir says, there is a difference between hurting someone and harming them. So, as long as you have a good Dom/Master, who knows of your situation, and watches out for you, I really dont see where there should be a problem with being a sub...at least I havent found one yet.
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