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laineyjade -> Singing the Dungeon Blues (5/16/2010 5:29:18 PM)
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(Stuff that has actually happened to me at various munches, dungeons, and fetish events)
Note that all of the below do NOT come with an ignore button when you're in a real-life dungeon!
Stupid malicious gossip and drama, politics, cliques, and high-school behaviors
Subs being hostile to me because of my looks/age/style of serving/whatever
Doms hitting on me inappropriately, especially married-and-cheating doms
Blaring music being played preventing conversation
Having to listen politely to lectures on opinions I have strong feelings against
Watching couples who don't get along being mean and disrespectful to each other
Winding up being some sub's shoulder to cry on when her mean and disrespectful dom pushes her buttons, and her having no further use for me when she's finished weeping and spilling her sob story to me
Being questioned about my kinks by people who have no clue and no real reason to question me, who are almost exclusively male
Seeing male subs surreptitiously masturbating through their nylon g-string while their balls hang out the side
Meeting people who appear to be mentally or emotionally unbalanced rather than into BDSM
Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness praising me for being a TRUE submissive whilst making wild assumptions about my character, feelings and training
Doms with strict definitions of TRUE submissiveness telling me if my master were a TRUE master he'd be training me differently
Doms lecturing me about what they would change about me if I belonged to them
Doms thinking it's okay to order me to put shoes on because I might cut my pretty little feet on broken glass if I am barefoot, when half the male subs are walking around barefoot
Getting stuck listening to someone endlessly drone on about her surgery/fibromyalgia/bipolar disorder
Feeling weird and getting judged for being a slave and having no limits or choices
Watching bratty subs getting praised for exercising their limits and choices loudly and obnoxiously
Being asked "What sort of control?" if I am dumb enough to say that I am into being controlled
The creepy feeling of all eyes being on me if I serve my master in the rather formal way he requires
Having to literally wedge my way in between the 15 single men sitting at the bar in order to get my master an ice water and having them leer at me while I order
The filthy public bathroom because there is no janitor on staff
Seeing people near-naked who have physical deformities that probably should have remained covered up (in one case a near-naked male sub with an exposed colostomy bag--yeah, I wanted to see that)
....and my favorite one of all:
Doms who try to flatter me by telling me I'm so much thinner and prettier than that fat ugly sub over there--and the sub over there is my best friend and lover.
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