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RE: The stubborn submissive - 5/22/2010 5:31:54 PM

TreasureKY

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Sounds to me from your description, especially if she's younger than you, that she's still a kid and needs a daddy figure in her life.

I don't see it as stubborness. Basically she's not ready to grow up and hasn't matured.

This is entirely possible, however the motivation could be just the opposite.

If she's just barely grown up, it may be that she needs time to be a mature adult for a while... be responsible for herself. I've yet to see a young adult not look forward to and relish their new-found independence when they become an adult.

She may be railing against a new "parent" when she just finally got away from the old.

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RE: The stubborn submissive - 5/23/2010 9:57:13 AM

LeatherBentOne

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Sounds like she may only be interested in the play aspect, not the D/s aspect. She may be a bottom calling herself a submissive. Sounds like a mismatch if you are looking for a masochist who is also submissive. Ive made this mistake before, thinking a woman was submissive, only to find out that all she was interested in was the play. For me it's the D/s that is a turn on. Play is the icing on the cake and I dont care for one without the other.

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RE: The stubborn submissive - 5/23/2010 9:38:21 PM

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I am sometimes a bit stubborn, I have had a habit of topping from the bottom, which is not something I am proud of, and is something I am learning to change. It's difficult to give up all control and put it in someone else's hands. It's a very hard thing to get used to, but this is something I deeply desire, and truly need, for that matter.

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