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SocratesNot -> RE: Mutual Slavery - is it possible? (5/20/2010 4:15:29 PM)
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The point of whole thing is that by controlling each other they could grow as persons much faster than without it, becauseit is always way easier to give orders to others than to yourself. For example if I am overweight it is harder for me to force myself to go on a diet and to exercise, than would it be to prescribe a dietary or exercise regimen to someone else. So, when my partner tells me "you must eat only healthy food and run 20 minutes each day" it is much easier to do this to please my partner than it would be if I motivated myself alone.
Also, this could have very exciting consequences, because, the orders that we will receive, depend somewhat on the orders that we give. So, if I give my partner an order to do something she likes a lot, she will probably give me an order to do something that I enjoy. And vice verse, I I give her unpleasant orders, they will return to me. With time, we will both know exactly what pleases other the most and will perfectly understand each other.
Also, very deep connection can be established this way. In standard D/s relationship the Dominant never knows exactly what the sub is going through while obeying, and also the sub never knows how much thrill and enjoyment the dominant gets from being in control.
In mutual slavery, both parties would share all experiences and would know exactly how does the other feel, because they all passed through the same things themselves.
This way both rewards and punishments would be perfectly gauged to them.
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