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pahunkboy -> coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:26:45 PM)
I have an unlucky contestant. You guys know me well. Any tips? Does or donts? I have to let him see some of me with out scaring the poor guy away. (and no this is not the neighbor)

VirginPotty -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:35:23 PM)
Don't

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:37:30 PM)
Stop worrying, have fun!

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:38:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VirginPotty Don't as in don't get attached? or dont do it at all. I messed up in the past by not letting us "go steady" men can use 100 ways to express the idea. I was too dumb to pick up on it.

DesFIP -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:38:33 PM)
Become friends first.

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:39:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 Stop worrying, have fun! If I talk about investing or politics I am finished. So I sent pics of my yard green thumb.

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:41:41 PM)
ugh....PA definitely do NOT talk about politics! and don't drink! wait...maybe that's me that can't drink without being a total fool....ok...I'm sure you can find something you have in common to laugh about. Laughter is a fantastic ice breaker.

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 4:54:12 PM)
and uh...definitely no blow jobs until that tooth heals

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:01:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 and uh...definitely no blow jobs until that tooth heals LOL. I was thinking that too. I told him why .... we cant meet just now. I gather the gay thing is new to him and you know how very few guys WANT a LTR... but that is fine because a ball and chain can work the other way too.

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:03:10 PM)
2 words would ruin it for sure. Alex Jones. LOL. It kills me to be "good", and most take aback at my "style" or method of madness.

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:07:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pahunkboy I gather the gay thing is new to him Talk about that....something that's probably a bit confusing to him right now..that you have in common...but not paternalistic, try to keep it light and wait, isn't this a first date? I wouldn't even worry about the whole LTR or not thing yet.

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:10:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: ORIGINAL: pahunkboy I gather the gay thing is new to him Talk about that....something that's probably a bit confusing to him right now..that you have in common...but not paternalistic, try to keep it light and wait, isn't this a first date? I wouldn't even worry about the whole LTR or not thing yet. it is. I guess that is premature. You know how men are tho. One wrong question or even a key word sends them to the door. Wouldn't it be wild if I had to not let him see another guy who I fling with??? Jim used to say I was too "easy" -- as in available. he managed to chase a guy all the while the guy thinks it is HIS idea- but it isnt.

DesFIP -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:12:11 PM)
Don't just sit and talk, do something active. Take a walk, go miniature golfing or whatever. Something that's fun and will generate it's own conversation.

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:13:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Don't just sit and talk, do something active. Take a walk, go miniature golfing or whatever. Something that's fun and will generate it's own conversation. A walk at the river sounds good. We have some nice spots.

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:15:20 PM)
don't overthink it ya goofball.....just have fun...and ffs don't talk about other dudes or have any around...that's ick... it's a first date, you're trying to see if there's chemistry right? I mean what is your goal? Don't worry so much about his reaction, if he's an ass it's going to happen anyway, better sooner eh?

purepleasure -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 5:31:49 PM)
is this a date or a trick? if a date, behave appropriately. curb your wanton sluttiness for a few hours and see if you can be friends first, before you become friends with benefits.

pahunkboy -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 6:02:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: purepleasure is this a date or a trick? if a date, behave appropriately. curb your wanton sluttiness for a few hours and see if you can be friends first, before you become friends with benefits. He likes woman. If I may sound pompous- a lay only goes so far. I can live with out it. I have a regular fling for that- and I know he is safe. (but very not available) So - fling is what the bacon sizzles. But why sell short. On the other hand- at a certain age- I mean- a guy has to be able to talk to me. other wise- -- I mean I can get a cheap quicky ... we all can. But after a certain age- the "chase" is not really worth the lay.

Level -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 6:28:25 PM)
Like you and laurell have mentioned... do NOT talk about politics, the Illuminati, Alex Jones; do NOT ask him "does this tin foil make my ass look big?" [:D] Just teasing; relax, get to know him, and have some fun.

laurell3 -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 6:32:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level "does this tin foil make my ass look big?" [:D] LOL you're killing me Level

Jeffff -> RE: coach me on dating-- (5/20/2010 6:32:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Like you and laurell have mentioned... do NOT talk about politics, the Illuminati, Alex Jones; do NOT ask him "does this tin foil make my ass look big?" [:D] Just teasing; relax, get to know him, and have some fun. Level, your pimp hand is strong!

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